In this world, family affection is the most touching and sincere feeling, and loving you is better than loving your own life.
Parents are here, not far away. Many people who are wandering outside carry such a sweet burden.
Grandpa and I, one ninety, one ten.
In the late 1970s, in that turbulent era, he supported me to grow up, and I accompanied him through the road of life.
A life grows tall and strong like a small tree; a life falls slowly like an old tree, silently.
This is the story in the book "Grandpa, We See You in Heaven" by Teacher Jiang Wenli, it is simple and sincere, and the stories of Grandpa in the book have healed many people and warmed many people.
Teacher Jiang Wenli is a well-known actor, her deep and long emotional memory is her treasure mine, and what she brings to the reader is a delicate and true understanding of life.
Love is the only reason we live in this world.
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People's memories are often composed of pictures.
"Childhood is like a dream" This is the bits and pieces written by teacher Jiang Wenli in the book "Grandpa, We See You in Heaven" about being with Grandpa in childhood.
When She was a child, Wen Li's parents worked in Xinjiang and did not have time to take care of her young.
Since childhood, Jiang Wenli has stayed by her grandfather's side and been with her grandfather until her grandfather died.
Remembering the days with my grandfather, a warm scene appeared in front of me.
On winter mornings, Grandpa would bake her clothes and bring them to her to wear. On summer nights, she would be fanned until she fell asleep sweetly.
When learning to walk, Grandpa was afraid that Xiao Wenli's head would hit the corner of the table, and every time he blocked the corner of the table with his hand.
A series of warm pictures, a period of beautiful memories, written with "moisturizing and silent" style of family affection expression.
Compared with the life and death of love, this bond between family affection is more tearful.
How many people's childhood is spent with grandparents and grandparents, I believe that they can better appreciate the natural feelings for their loved ones expressed in this book, and the most sincere emotions from the heart.
Someone once said: "Childhood is the spiritual foundation of everyone, and the childhood accompanied by grandparents and grandparents is our spiritual home."
Teacher Jiang Wenli wrote at the end of the book that my grandfather was gone and my childhood was over.
But isn't it, the death of a loved one is a farewell to the childhood self.
When recalling Grandma Zhang, Grandma Zhang usually saves money and raises a lot of chickens, and whenever the chicken lays eggs, she will put it into the egg jar, and this jar can only go in and out.
When the three sons return, Grandma Zhang will let the sons take away the eggs they have accumulated for a long time, and Xiao Wenli does not understand and asks grandpa why.
Grandpa told Xiao Wenli that when you see the old hen raised by Grandma Zhang, when she wants to hatch the chick, she will put the egg under its body. It takes a long time to hatch for the chicks to come out.
This is the feeling of parents for their children, not asking for anything in return, just wanting to give.
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When the whole world is urging me to grow up, only you feel sorry for my little wings.
Many of the sounds of my childhood can't be heard now. In those days, time was static for all, but now time is like a shuttle for everyone.
There is a clip in the movie "Dear, Happy New Year" starring Bai Lily, which is a scene in which Bai Lily's mother writes to her, writing that "my daughter has been away from home for 10 years, 536 kilometers apart, miss you, but stay in Beijing, my mother understands you."
Family affection is always a corner that we dare not touch, it is our sweet burden, and it is also the root that we can land on.
When you are really faced with having to choose between family and career, how will you choose?
My grandmother brought me up from a young age, and my relationship with my grandmother was very deep. In the 1990s, the phenomenon of son preference in the countryside was particularly serious, there was an older sister in the family, I was the second oldest, and the family wanted a boy.
I became a supernatural student, I remember my grandmother said, when I was born, it snowed heavily, and after my mother gave birth in the early morning, my grandmother braved the wind and snow to take me away.
The year I was born, my brother was born. In order to avoid the family planning policy, I became the child who was ready to hide all the time.
My mother only had a younger brother in her eyes, because my sister was the eldest, so naturally I became the one who was least valued.
So when I was a child, my grandmother was very fond of me.
After school, my mother only cared about how many places I was in the class, while my grandmother would care about whether I was full or not, whether I was warm or not, and would cook me a lot of things I liked to eat whenever I came home from vacation.
After I graduated in 2019, I worked in Beijing, and after work, I rarely had time to go home, and the time spent with my grandmother was getting less and less, and every time I left, I didn't dare to look back and look at her to see my figure.
I never dared to imagine how I would face and accept "that day" when it came.
One afternoon in September 2020, I was on a business trip back to Beijing when I received a call from my aunt, who cried badly on the phone and told me that "My grandmother is sick, it is the middle and advanced stage of stomach cancer."
At that time, I only remember that my brain was blank, and the tears couldn't stop flowing down. All that comes to mind are the bits and pieces of childhood with my grandmother.
I don't remember how I got back to the rental house, but I just know that the tears didn't stop all the way.
After returning to Beijing, after much thought, he submitted a resignation letter to the leader and returned to his hometown.
Now Grandma is much better and recuperates in her hometown, and I can often go back to accompany her.
Parents are here, life still has a place to come, parents go, life is only the way home!
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A person who has culture does not mean that he has wisdom.
Teacher Jiang Wenli in the book "Grandpa, We See You in Heaven", Grandpa's culture is not high, but Grandpa's life in the world has great wisdom.
Xiao Wenli's parents bought back 2 cantaloupes from Xinjiang, grandpa will let XiaoWenli send it to the neighbor's home, in the face of Xiaowenli's complaints, grandpa said: "How much can we eat, let everyone taste the fresh."
At that time, the fruit of cantaloupe was very rare.
Grandpa dislikes Xiao Wenli the most "lying", every time Xiao Wenli "lies", Grandpa will take out the ring ruler to punish Xiao Wenli.
Xiao Wenli asked grandpa where people would go after they died, and grandpa said, "Good people go to heaven, and bad people go to the underground." When Xiao Wenli asked her if she was a good person or a bad person, her grandfather told her to "do more kind things, don't lie, just be a good person."
Grandpa didn't have a high culture in the book "Grandpa, We See You in Heaven", but from Grandpa's body you will see something that can heal the soul.
In today's impetuous society, there is a need for such a story that can give oneself a little quiet mind, and one needs to return one's emotions.
This book also expresses a kind of inheritance, the inheritance of life, the inheritance of love, the love of many elderly people for children, and children are passed down from the elderly.
Sometimes I wonder why I was very poor in that era, but I cherished everything I caught, and the strong taste of the year and the strong nostalgia were so simple and simple.
In the book, the grandfather's life, the daughter who waited for more than ten years did not finally see, lived with Xiaowenli before she died, and looked for her uncle who had passed away after death, and could not help but burst into tears.
In the past, the older generation lived a simple life, was kind and generous, quietly dedicated their lives in their own fields, and used their own actions to pass on excellent character for the next generation.
Some people are like this, although they have no great achievements in their lives, they are all living seriously, and the current society is precisely missing the simple and down-to-earth quality of the older generation.
More tolerance and understanding, more kindness and open-mindedness, less pursuit of fame and fortune, less lust for profit. Life sometimes needs to be indifferent and cherish everything that life has to offer.
So, if you still have relatives around, cherish it!
Relatives are sent one by one from heaven and picked up one by one on the earth, but in the end they will still be reunited.