Ten miles of different winds, a hundred miles of different customs, one side of the water and soil good people, one side of the people, one side of the human affection of the other side of the customs - but some local customs are incredible.
In the past few years, we have seen the phenomenon of marriage in many places in the south: bride and groom, mother-in-law, father-in-law and even bridesmaids. If it is not very out of line, it is harmless, but also to add some lively atmosphere to the wedding, my hometown of Ningyang also has "uncle, the old uncle (dialect reading bei), the first three days are not taboo" saying; and some of the excessive actions disclosed on the Internet are clearly not marriage, but people with bad intentions are sabotaging people's weddings.
But did you hear what Mrs. Troublemaker/Aunt Haunting said?
A netizen from his hometown of Leling told me about this incredible local custom:
If the younger brother or nephew of the mother's family gets married, the sister and aunt (commonly known as the aunt wife) must go back to the mother's house to celebrate the gift, but must prepare another sum of money to deal with the "troublesome wife".
The local does not make trouble with the bride and groom, nor does it make trouble with the in-laws, and the aunt who returns to the mother's house only makes trouble (difficult) - or does not prepare tableware when eating happy wine, or takes off the shoes of the aunt, and every time the aunt and wife have to take out money to give to the troublemaker (all brothers and nephews of the family, they all know each other, how can they be funny? Experienced people will exchange a hundred yuan banknote for a ten yuan bill several times, a hundred and ten yuan can block the past, and the inexperienced will lose hundreds. The netizen once went back to her mother's house to attend the wedding of her uncle and brother, and a girl whose economic conditions were not very good was very sad after this trouble: she was happy to participate in the wedding of her brother (nephew), but she was knocked by these people on the grounds of customs!
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The so-called "noisy aunt" refers to the new aunt at the beginning of the new year when the fourth new aunt returns to the door with the girl to visit the father-in-law and mother-in-law, there will be some bad teenagers in the same village who will rob the new aunt on the road to ask for money, if they do not give, they will "beat the new aunt to the oil wedge" (four people grab the limbs of the new aunt and crash into the tree), there was once a new aunt who was thrown to the tail vertebrae fracture - fortunately, in recent years, there are fewer idle people in the countryside, and most of the new people are driving back to the door, and this phenomenon has gradually disappeared.
I don't know why this custom in this place is so popular, but through this "noisy" way to ask for money, Hui Ge thinks that it is no different from robbery, and hopes that this ugly custom will disappear at the wedding as soon as possible!