Text/Flying Fish
Not all encounters will have a happy ending, and not all love can harvest full of love.
There is a kind of love, called the deep love, but can not be together. For some people, love will make people crazy, meet, will not help but fall in love, but Providence makes people, deeply loved, can not be together, will it be a pity?
Some people feel very painful, after all, the person who has been deeply loved is difficult to forget, no matter whose fault it is, causing the two people to be separated, disconnected, or will not forget.
Some people, you must figure out, do not think of yourself so important, if after the disconnection, the other party has not contacted you again, or he soon entered a new relationship, then forget it, do not have any illusions about him, because he does not love you enough, so he will leave you, will break off contact with you.
And some women, after disconnection, will still miss, or will think of contacting him, if he is also waiting for you, it will be a good news, if not, then you have to learn to stop the loss in time.
After the disconnection, a woman can't let go of a man, usually like this.
1, she will see things and think of people.
Women in a relationship, if they are too attached to a relationship, it will be difficult to let go.
Because when the two people were together, they left her with too many beautiful and wonderful moments, she could not hide this experience, which was unforgettable for her.
When the two people were first together, they were very sweet, said nothing, did a lot of interesting things together, and the other party gradually melted into their hearts, and they couldn't erase it.
However, the reason why they will be separated is because after a long time, I don't know when the two have become familiar strangers, and they feel that it is not interesting to be together, so they will choose to separate.
But separation is proposed by one party, the other party is not willing, then after separation, she will still miss, or will have illusions about him, can not let go of this relationship, often take out the other party's left things to see things and think of people, and even secretly cry at night, miss him very much, thinking, how to become like this.
2, she will always wait for him, never start a new relationship.
If a woman leaves this place after breaking off contact with a man, they have been very much for a year or two, and the woman pretends to be very free in front of others, but she can't start a new feeling, indicating that she still has his in her heart.
Can't let go of the previous relationship, will not want to start a new relationship, has been waiting for him to come back.
Therefore, in the process of waiting for him to return, she put all her energy into work, thinking that she felt that she had become better, and when the other party came back, she would see that she was different again and would be with her again.
Don't be silly, some people leave and never want to go back.
You waited for him foolishly, but in exchange for him to bring his current girlfriend to you and say to you: I haven't seen you for a long time.
Can't let go of this relationship, but also learn to let go, can't go back, just let it go, don't deceive yourself anymore.
He didn't even think about getting back to you, so don't be silly, you have to love yourself and then meet new people and start a new life.
3) She will find him to get back together.
After a woman breaks off contact with a man, she can't let go of him, and she will go to him to reunite. I'd rather bow to him and admit my mistakes, rather wronged myself than give up on him or leave him.
In fact, it is a very normal thing to have a twist between lovers, if a man breaks up with you, it is not a joke, but serious, indicating that he is really dead to you, and there is no hope for this relationship, so he will tell you to break up.
Faced with such a situation, you go to him, pestering him, begging him not to leave, begging him to reunite, will only make the relationship between the two people more awkward.
Letting go of someone who decided to leave you is also a form of growth. Stop secretly paying attention to him, stop pleasing him and wronging yourself. If a man really wants to go with you all the time, he will tolerate you, and he will not be willing to let you be wronged, nor will he be willing to make you sad, and he will not be willing to leave you.
In short, women can't let go of a man, they will be distracted at work, and they will even be ghostly, they will see things at home and think about people, and they will secretly cry when they miss it to the extreme.
Woman, you know, when you can't put down a person, you have to recognize whether the other party is worth it, if it is not worth it, don't waste your time, give everything to time, take it slowly, always put down and relax.
Love, sometimes also need to be perfected, not necessarily possessive, when you learn to perfect the other person, it means that you have let go.
I hope that you can harvest happiness in the way you like, be your true self, is the best of yourself, do not have to please and pander, you know, the person who loves you, will always love you all.
For the rest of your life, I hope you can find the person who truly loves you and start a two-way love with you.
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