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Zhao Yazhi
Zhao Yazhi is the "white moonlight" in the hearts of a generation, and is the eternal white lady.
Even though she is nearly old, she is still as light as she was about forty years ago.
Of course, the years have also given her some small wrinkles, but this is more like a light for her, illuminating her more elegantly and charmingly.
In 1980, a "Shanghai Beach" pushed Zhao Yazhi's career to the first peak.
The Feng Chengcheng she played became a goddess in the hearts of a generation, and also became the most beautiful code name in her life, no matter when and where she was the most beautiful Feng Chengcheng.
Stills of Feng Chengcheng
But who knew that the beautiful Feng Chengcheng was actually a pregnant Feng Chengcheng?
When filming "Shanghai Beach", Zhao Yazhi was pregnant with her second son, Huang Guangyi, and she said that she would deliberately ask the director not to arrange some fight scenes for her.
This is Zhao Yazhi, is a zhao yazhi who always takes the family children first, the reason why she is liked, in addition to her own beauty, but also her wisdom, she always knows what she wants, what is most important to herself.
01 The dream of "Zhao Xiaosi"
Yi Shu said that the most beautiful beauty is a woman who does not think that she is beautiful, and beauty without self-knowledge is a kind of protection for beauty.
Zhao Yazhi is such a beauty, she was born beautiful, but she never felt beautiful.
Her parents gave her the name Yazhi in the hope that she would be an elegant woman, but when she was a child, she was more like Zhao Xiaosi.
Zhao Yazhi's father is a businessman, her mother is a housewife, and she has an older brother and two older sisters above, and a younger sister below, she is the fourth oldest in the family.
When she was a child, Zhao Yazhi was simply a boy, and the place where their family lived at that time was a place with mountains and fields, and these places became her paradise.
She often runs in the fields, can climb mountains and trees to pick wild fruits, can go down to the river to fish and move things, she runs everywhere, falls everywhere, and there are scars on her feet.
Childhood Zhao Yazhi
Is it difficult to associate such a naughty child with the gentle and elegant Zhao Yazhi now?
But that is really her, so she has not been spared her parents' sticks since she was a child.
But after being beaten, she still likes to play with boys, and she doesn't look like a lady at all.
The mother thought that she was not saved, so she simply let her go, it didn't matter if she wasn't a lady, maybe she would grow up.
It is also very strange to say, before she grew up, at the age of 13, Zhao Xiaosi suddenly clanged, the whole person changed, she became a kind of quiet student that her mother liked, loved to read books, watch movies, and no longer ran and jumped outside.
Looking at the previous "Zhao Xiaosi", who went to the house to reveal the tiles without playing for two days, suddenly became an elegant lady,
At first, her mother was still a little unaccustomed, and she thought that she was stimulated by something, or that she had fallen in love early?
In fact, Zhao Yazhi in middle school did not have much interest in love, and her biggest dream at that time was to travel the world.
God seems to be extra fond of beautiful women, she heard Zhao Yazhi's call, and when she graduated from high school at the age of seventeen, a Japanese airline came to Hong Kong to recruit flight attendants.
Zhao Yazhi was eager to try, but she did not have much confidence in herself, but her mother knew and encouraged her to go boldly, even if she did not succeed.
Zhao Yazhi recently took a photo
02 Zhao Yazhi's choice
Zhao Yazhi's first dream of traveling around the world came true,
At the same time, during her training in Japan, she learned japanese, first aid, etiquette and other aspects.
This laid a solid foundation for her to participate in the Miss Hong Kong pageant two years later.
In 1973, Hong Kong TVB held the first "Miss Hong Kong" beauty contest, with the support of her mother, 19-year-old Zhao Yazhi participated, but unfortunately only achieved the fourth place.
Second from the left Zhao Yazhi
But Zhao Yazhi was remembered, and she was beautiful for more than sixty years.
She told the emcee that she actually liked a longer skirt, and she was criticized for being inconsistent;
Then someone asked her why she wanted to run, and she honestly replied that her mother told her to come, so she came, so she was criticized for having no personality, you know, in that era, what came out to the pageant was avant-garde and personality.
But these two points do not seem to be well reflected in Zhao Yazhi, but she is also very indifferent.
And compared to the champion and runner-up of that year, who remembers them? I think the answer is no.
After the beauty pageant, Zhao Yazhi did not directly enter the entertainment industry to develop, but went back to continue to be her flight attendant.
Later, because her flight was long-distance, flying from Hong Kong to Canada, Zhao Yazhi was not adaptable, coupled with the long-term departure from home, she was tired of this life of flying around all day.
Just at this time, TVB invited her to be the host of the show, so she officially resigned as a flight attendant and developed into the show business circle.
In 1975, at the age of 21, Zhao Yazhi made two major choices in her life, one was to become a TVB person, and the other was to become Huang Hanwei's wife.
03 Family is more important than being famous
Zhao Yazhi, who has become a TV person, is very realistic, and she knows that she does not understand the TV industry.
So she offered to start from the grassroots work, when as an assistant choreographer, she was responsible for production, assistant director, drama, props, costumes and other projects, this job allowed her to quickly understand the procedures and operations of the entire program.
After working as an assistant choreographer for a period of time, she became the host of the game quiz show "Big Heart" with her excellent business ability, while she also had to take care of the behind-the-scenes work, and the two-way development made her energy exhausted, so she chose to concentrate on being an artist.
It is reasonable to say that for Zhao Yazhi, who has just changed careers and has just started her career, it is the first choice to concentrate on developing her career, especially if she is so young and beautiful, and has a great future waiting for her.
But Zhao Yazhi did not think so, for her, career is important, family is equally important.
So when she met Huang Hanwei, a doctor 10 years older than herself, she fell in love with him and the two quickly entered into marriage.
However, her married status did not hinder her star path, but made her acting career gradually popular.
In 1976, the fledgling Zhao Yazhi was appreciated by Xu Guanwen and starred as the heroine in the comedy movie "Half a Pound, Eight Twos" co-starring Xu Guanjie, Xu Guanying and Wu Yaohan;
After the film was released, she became the annual champion of Hong Kong films that year, Zhao Yazhi became a hit, and then several Production Companies in Hong Kong invited her to star in the film, but because of family reasons, she refused.
Stills on the beach
But Zhao Yazhi did not take advantage of the victory to pursue, but chose to focus on the family, because at this time she was the mother of two sons.
At this time, she was already the mother of a son, and she refused many good opportunities for the sake of the family and to take better care of her son.
In Zhao Yazhi's concept, career and family must choose one, and she will choose family.
Because in her view, all fame and fortune are nothing, and only the happiness of the family and the family is real.
However, there are good dramas, and dramas close to home she will not let go, in 1980, with Zhou Runfa's "Shanghai Beach", Feng Chengcheng, played by Zhao Yazhi, became the "white moonlight" in the hearts of a generation, and the drama ushered in the first real peak for her career.
When the eldest son was born, because it was the beginning of her career, she did not have more time to accompany him to grow, and she did not want to miss the second son's infancy.
But I never expected that such a Zhao Yazhi, who regarded her family very seriously, was ultimately broken because of her work.
Zhao Yazhi is an ice and snow beauty, and in the world of flowers and flowers in the showbiz, there are certainly not a few people who pursue her, but she is stunned that she has not passed on any gossip.
One of them was in 1977, when filming "The Great Revenge", because he had the most supporting scenes with Huang Yuanshen, some scandals came out, and then in 1978, the two collaborated on the romantic comedy movie "Peeling the Wrong Teeth and Removing the Wrong Bones", and the scandal escalated.
Huang Yuanshen
Although Huang Yuanshen was also married at that time, it is clear that
He fell in love with this Zhao Da beauty, who was five years younger than himself and had cooperated twice.
And he wrote many letters, which later became "evidence" of this scandal.
It is said that Zhao Yazhi's husband, Huang Hanwei, knew the boss of a weekly magazine, and after these letters were made public,
Huang Yuanshen and Zhao Yazhi were all disgraced, Huang Yuanshen was even more at home, and his career also fell into a low ebb, and two years later he left his wife and children to cut his hair at The Baolin Temple in Hong Kong to become a monk.
04 Meet true love again
And Zhao Yazhi's marriage has also become dangerous after this battle.
Finally, in 1982, it came to an end. In the event of divorce, in order to win custody of two sons,
Zhao Yazhi did not hesitate to confront her ex-husband in court, and eventually her two sons, Huang Guanghong and Huang Guangyi, were raised by her.
Zhao Yazhi, whose marriage failed, did not have time to sink, because she still had two sons waiting for her to raise, and she quickly put into work again, and had no intention of entering the marriage for the time being.
But sometimes fate is so wonderful, the more you don't care, the more it comes.
Magnolia stills
In 1981, when Zhao Yazhi starred in "Female Black Man Magnolia" with Huang Jinshen, who belonged to the same company,
Wong Jin-sun has developed a crush on her because of the drama, but because she is married, she buries this affection in her heart and gets along with her as a colleague and friend.
Later, Zhao Yazhi divorced, he watched her physically and mentally exhausted because of her son's struggle for custody, and he also felt more and more sad for her.
But he knew that his confession at this time was undoubtedly suspected of taking advantage of the void, so he just silently accompanied her.
At that time, Zhao Yazhi only simply regarded him as a friend and did not care too much.
It wasn't until one time, when Huang Jinshen bought a bracelet for Zhao Yazhi, that she understood his intentions, and the two held hands ever since.
Zhao Yazhi clearly remembered that it was a bracelet of gold and silver, and there were many small diamonds embellished on it.
Zhao Yazhi is a woman who values children and family very much, she does not want to waste her feelings with some unrelated people, once she chooses to have a long affection, her situation at that time, Huang Jinshen is also very clear.
So before choosing to be with him, she had to make sure he didn't mind her divorce as a single mom.
Obviously, for Huang Jinshen, loving her is loving her all, so after the two fell in love for two years, Zhao Yazhi married Huang Jinshen with her two sons.
Wong returned from the United States in 1981.
At the same time, he pays more attention to details and pays attention to family atmosphere, so every holiday, he will celebrate specially, and when he works, he is particularly hard and responsible, and the most important point is that he is very concerned about his family.
Two years after marriage, Zhao Yazhi gave birth to a third son, Huang Kaijie, facing his own son and the other two sons, Huang Jinshen did not treat him differently, for him, both surnamed Huang, are his sons.
The arrival of the younger son made Zhao Yazhi, who had to take care of work and family, busier, in order to better take care of her three sons, after consulting with Huang Jinshen, she decided to temporarily retire and take care of the life of her three sons at home.
Huang Jinshen also agreed, because both people are working outside, it is inevitable that there will be places where they will not be well cared for, and the most important thing for them at present is to educate their three sons.
Wu Tanru said: There is a kind of woman, who will be happy if she marries.
Because her three sons have different school hours, she has to get up very early every day to make breakfast for them and send them to school.
Later, after they grew up, she made a comeback and filmed some classic dramas, such as "The Legend of the New White Lady", "The Chaotic World", "A Hundred Years of Ups and Downs" and other dramas.
Zhao Yazhi is a happy woman, and her happiness is undoubtedly related to her choices and efforts.
She will not give up love because she is young at the peak of her career, nor will she give up her work and give up self-growth because of love, she is a woman who truly knows the advance and retreat, knows the trade-offs, and has the ability to live a happy life.
Her three sons, who have long since grown up to be dancing boys, have better grades than one, look more handsome than one, and make her prouder than the other.
As for why only the younger son of the three sons entered the show business, but neither of the two sons with her ex-husband.
In fact, she did not deliberately arrange, all respect the choice of children, in the road of educating them, she is more severe, she is not sure if she is a good mother.
And she also laughed at the question, should ask the sons to know, of course, she also knows that their answer is yes, because she is an enlightened mother, will respect their choices.
Zhao Yazhi's family
Now the eldest son, Huang Guanghong, works at a newspaper in Hong Kong.
Born in 1977, he has already entered a year of confusion and has his own family;
The second son, Huang Guangyi, is a proper student bully, studying abroad in college, and then returning from his studies to have his favorite job in Hong Kong.
Finally, the youngest son, Huang Kaijie, has embarked on the same path as his parents, so his exposure is more.
However, on the road of acting, Huang Kaijie was not influenced by his parents.
Zhao Yazhi with the youngest son
As the second generation of stars,
Huang Kaijie has heard a lot of words since he was a child, "Your mother is an actor, your father is also an actor, you will definitely enter this line of work in the future".
But the more he listened, the more rebellious he became, "The more others say this, I don't do it." ”
So Huang Kaijie followed his inner preferences, all the way along the path of ordinary people to grow up, in college he chose his favorite major in finance, business administration, and was admitted to the University of Southern California.
During his time at school, he returned to China to study at some financial institutions for a while, but he was frustrated because he had never found the "passion" he had heard his parents say about their careers earlier.
He told his father about this feeling, and he asked him whether he wanted to return to China to work after graduation or continue his master's degree.
Huang Kaijie told his father Huang Jinshen truthfully, saying that he did not know.
At the same time, he also asked what he would do if his father was himself, so Huang Jinshen told his son about his mental journey along the way.
"I worked as a pharmacist after graduating from university, then returned to Hong Kong to shoot dramas, and now I am a lawyer, but over the years, I still like the experience of being an actor the most. ”
Finally, Wong told her son, "If you're interested in acting, you can try it." ”
His father's words made Huang Kaijie wake up like a dream, so he found some relevant materials and finally chose and was admitted to the beijing film academy as a graduate student in the acting department.
Although on the road of actors, Huang Kaijie entered the industry late, and there are not many representative works, and he is still far from his mother's achievements in film and television dramas, but he is still young.
For Zhao Yazhi, she does not expect her sons to do earth-shattering things, as long as they can live a healthy life, can do what they like, can find a person who loves like themselves and their fathers, and rely on each other for a lifetime, it is enough.
Liang Wendao said: Women must have the ability to live their own lives, and it is very important to have things that others cannot take away.
This ability, Zhao Yazhi has, so she can take her two sons into a new marriage, the family is running a good business, while the sons are also educated very well, she knows the trade-offs from beginning to end, which end to pick up, which end to put down, she can make a reasonable choice.
So she lived very happily and lived gracefully.
Because happiness is not in the hands of others, but an energy placed in her heart, she herself lives well,
And know how to solve the problems of life, with reason and peace in the face of possible twists and turns in life, she has what she wants to pursue, know how to take and give,
In other words, women who have the ability to make themselves happy at any time and place are more likely to be happy.
Because everyone's best destination is never others, but themselves, only those earned by their own hands will not be lost.
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