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In this great human world, it is not an easy task to meet someone who truly knows that you know that you love you.
Many times, the encounter has consumed a great deal of fate, to become each other's soul mate, but also need a lot of opportunities and means.
The so-called "soul mate" is what we usually call the "muse", the other party can be the source of all your inspiration, but also can be the trigger for all your joys and sorrows.
For men, life without a soul mate is lonely and lonely.
However, the man is not a kitten or a puppy, and he can eat a piece of meat at will.
The soul mate they seek is not only to understand him and understand them, but most importantly to be able to support them personally.
So, women have to understand that wanting to be a man's soul mate is not so simple a thing, and you need to be familiar with some routines to really touch their hearts.
Perhaps many people will feel that love is not simple with some routines.
But you know, although men are committed to pursuing the only soul mate in life, they are not so sensitive to feelings and can quickly capture the kindness released by women.
At this time, it is necessary for women to learn some routines and means, let him see your excellence, let him accept your goodness, and completely fall in love with you.
So, what exactly do women have to do to become a man's soul mate? Quite simply, if you follow these three routines, you will get what you want:
First of all, when men encounter difficulties, don't extend a helping hand to them in a dignified manner, men are very face-saving, so you have to be secretive and silently help him get through the difficulties.
As the saying goes, the spring breeze is proud of horseshoe disease, and people are of course willing to show themselves extremely when they are bright and beautiful, because in this way they will receive envy and praise from others.
However, once the horse becomes stretched and impoverished, it is no longer willing to expose his scars to people, and for men, self-esteem is greater than heaven.
Therefore, if a woman wants to be a noble person who gives charcoal to a man, then don't put on a charity posture, you have to keep a low profile, otherwise the man will feel that you are belittling him and disrespecting him.
For example, if you see a man so poor that he can't even afford to eat, don't directly punch him in the card or throw the money at him in person, but tell the man that you want to invite him to dinner in the name of a friend and tell him not to think about it.
In this way, you not only give the man help, but also let the other party have the corresponding step down, without feeling embarrassed.
When the man's life trough has passed, he will definitely go back to thank you, not to say how loving a partner you will become, but at least you can become each other's lifelong confidants and friends.
To put it bluntly, all soul mates will eventually become close friends, after all, lovers are always divided and merged, but friends can accompany each other until they are old.
Secondly, we must learn to figure out the unspoken meaning of men, a man who seems to be indisputable on the surface often has more lofty ambitions and ambitions, but under the pressure of reality, he has never spoken his dreams.
There are always such characters in film and television dramas and novels, that is, talents who are dashing and free, not bound by the rules of the world, in the eyes of others, they are the ones who do not want to be in the same stream with the world, and they are a lotus that is clean and not demon.
But in fact, do these talents really not have the slightest dream of entering the career path, and really do not have the goal of rising up from the government for the sake of the world?
Of course, the answer is no, because even Li Bai, who "the Son of Heaven called for no ship", also hoped to be reused by the saints today, but like those frustrated talents who did not meet with talents, he could not fulfill his wishes until he was old.
To put it bluntly, Li Bai borrowed wine to dispel his sorrows and borrowed poems to express his feelings, but he was just hiding his helplessness and unwillingness.
In real life, we often encounter such a thing, when a man says that he is okay, he is not willing to bend for five buckets of rice, and if he fails, someone must have made a terrier from it, you talk to him and tell him that failure is the mother of success, but the reason why the other party will be angry.
Therefore, women should be smart, understand the ambition behind men's discouraged words, and not follow their words to further hit their self-confidence.
You have to fulfill his decency, not to expose his arrogance, and at the same time to give him enough companionship and support to let him know that you support his dreams no matter what.
In fact, what a man desires in his relationship is a woman who can not abandon him and support him without reservation.
Finally, a man's ideal soul mate is always able to tirelessly accompany them and listen to their innocuous thoughts.
It is said that women are sentimental, in fact, men will also have some small emotions of nostalgia in the shadows, but they will be hindered by their own identity and are unwilling to express it, because it is too damaging to their big man's face.
In this case, women should not debunk men, and silently accompany them to enlighten them.
Women have to understand that if you want to really impress men, then don't do those superficial efforts, such as not once a man is sad and sad, you can rush to say something that has no practical effect.
Although your intentions are good, the comfort words that do not solve the problem are at best nonsense, and in the end they will only move you.
Besides, the words of comfort are all the same, you will say that others will say it, so how can you let a man know your sincerity?
The average woman who "explains the language flower" is an irresistible existence of any man, and compared with a woman who has to point fingers at everything strongly, a woman who knows how to listen and is willing to give silent comfort is more likely to enter the man's heart and become the white moonlight he never forgets.
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Really, if a woman wants to be a man's soul mate, it is not enough to rely on beauty, just rely on those sweet words, you have to walk the heart.
Mastering these three routines, namely "not to be silent, secretly help each other", "encourage men to achieve their dreams" and "be a man's explanation flower", will have the effect of doing more with less.
In fact, to put it bluntly, all the routines are summed up as nothing more than "empathetic thinking".
From the perspective of a man to consider the problem, to think about what kind of love he wants, what kind of woman he wants to accompany him,
Knowing this, you will find the right way to get along, and it is a very simple thing to become a woman that men cherish in the palm of their hands.