The pictures in this article are selected from the stills and related character pictures of "Picking Gold" and "The Battle of Inheritance", all of which are from the Internet.
This week 7 days out of 6 days, get up at 4:00 in the morning to catch the car and reply to a little girl's message, she said: Sister Xiaoyi, I want to go to plastic surgery before the New Year, put my face a little more expensive, look rich and powerful.
So I got up early in the morning and said to her: Don't, the rich man's face doesn't look like that.
There are several actors who specialize in "rich people".
In the new drama "Perfect Partner", Wang Yaoqing played the domineering president he was good at for the 108th time, his face seems to be the standard of gold collar and hegemony, which is recognized by the director and the audience as "rich bamboo in the world", and when he appears, he usually represents the wealth ceiling of the whole play. Everyone says that just by looking at Wang Yaoqing's rich face, you can feel his noble spirit.
Stamp: An actor who can't play the poor.
Acting so much that the audience thinks that Wang Yaoqing himself comes from the old money family, he had to explain that there is no money at home, do not wear silk pajamas to sleep, and do not have a background in overseas study, laughing at himself: "I am not the president, I am just the porter of the president's life." ”
And the "female bully", Liu Tao should be counted as a "resident".
Since "Ode to Joy" starred as and returnee female president Andy was welcomed, Liu Tao could not stop on the road of female hegemony.
A cold face, walking with the wind, short hair with expensive suits, a few harsh words can empty a pair of homes, a careless and almost killed by subordinates, but she turned things around in minutes. Because of the high cold and busyness, there were people waiting to pick up the package when she arrived at the company, but she did not squint and walked straight past.
If you don't distinguish carefully, you can't even tell which drama this set of styles comes from.
But do successful people really look like this?
Definitely not.
At least most of the entrepreneurs and successful entrepreneurs I know around me are not rich and noble in appearance, and they are not so elegant.
In the "2021 Global Self-Made Women Rich List" released by the Hurun Research Institute, 130 female entrepreneurs with a wealth of more than 1 billion US dollars (6.5 billion yuan) were listed.
We in China are on top of this list, with a total of 85 women entrepreneurs on the list, accounting for 2/3 of the total number of people on the list in the world. Zhong Huijuan of Hansen Pharmaceutical, Fan Hongwei of Hengli, Wu Yajun of Longhu Real Estate, Zhou Qunfei of Lens Technology and Lu Zhongfang of Zhonggong Education, etc., won the top 8 places in the list.
These female overlords, who are concentrated in the age of 50-60, look very approachable, and some even look like neighbor aunts, and have no resemblance to the successful women portrayed in film and television dramas.
Not to mention the old ganma Tao Huabi, who is particularly familiar to everyone, Jiang Peizhen with a golden voice, and Chen Lihua, the queen of rosewood.
Squeezed into the top four of the "2021 Hurun Global Self-Made U40 Rich List", ranking second only to Zuckerberg's ByteDance founder Zhang Yiming, Kuaishou "two-person turn" Su Hua and Cheng Yixiao, these are less than 40 years old Internet upstarts, the appearance is no different from the code farmers next door, and may even look a little anxious because of excessive use of brains.
In short, it is not Yu Xuan'ang.
No one will look for the domineering president Fan hidden in dong mingzhu's photo, because engaging in industry is a real business ability.
These most critical things are understated in many film and television dramas, and a few words have been taken.
Wang Yaoqing, who always plays a rich man, said that he has met many real "overlords" in reality, and looking back at the roles in the script, "I found that the 'overlords' in the script don't seem to care much about what their company is doing." ”
He said that the overlord in the drama only borrowed such a "human setting" to fall in love with the heroine.
At one point, he played a good sales director with a limited budget for costumes, and in order to make the role look more appropriate, he customized the suit at his own expense. Later, after getting to know the real executives and presidents, I found that they did not wear suits, "the real suits and shoes are waiters." (GQ reports)
We often say that poverty limits imagination.
On the surface, it is the limitation of everyone's impression of the rich, and it is also the limitation of understanding a different life.
I always feel that "rich people" should be like that, in fact, many first-generation (self-made) rich people look "not dripping", neither heroic, nor beautiful and cold.
▲ In "Longing for Life", Pan Shiyi rolled up his sleeves to be a carpenter, can you recognize this big guy?
They and their faces are the traces carved by the whole years, they are brave, they are games, they are greedy and cunning, they are determined to treat things, and they are doing their best to treat their goals.
Even if some film and television dramas have been made very realistic, there are still a lot of beautification elements.
My favorite movie about Little Plum is actually "The Wolf of Wall Street", he plays Jordan Belfort, from poverty to overnight wealth, from operator to billionaire, and finally to his own iniquity and imprisonment.
The film is based on the autobiography "The Wolf of Wall Street" written by Jordan Belfort, a stockbroker who once dominated Wall Street.
Jordan Belfort
Although very restorative, the real Jordan is far from the charm of the random release of little plums, he is more like the kind of ordinary boy who has no sense of existence, "My biggest insecurity is due to my late development, I am smaller than my peers (171cm), and I was very inferior in high school." 」 I thought that if I became rich, I would be favored by girls. A lot of people think that way. Later, I succeeded, and there were many beautiful girls around me, but I found that even if I became rich, my inner uneasiness would not change. ”
There is also Little Plum's most famous "Titanic", there is a Mrs. Brown, her husband because of the gold rush to riches, by the ship's high people all kinds of look down, she is also the only first class passenger enthusiastic about Jack, but also lent him her son's dress to wear, let him attend the ball with dignity.
Mrs. Brown was based on Margaret Brown, who knew Chinese and helped survivors find their family and friends on the passenger ship that came to the rescue until they had received medical and emergency assistance. Subsequently, a Committee of Survivors was established to raise funds for poor survivors.
However, the real Mrs. Brown does not have such a rich face as actress Kathy Bates (of course, Bates has also played a lot of small characters, acting like what), if it is not a Chinese costume blessing, she is a middle-aged and elderly housewife in a remote town in the United States.
Mrs. Brown became the hero of the Titanic affair
Therefore, in all aspects of life, where there is anything standardized, not to mention that a face can judge whether this person is Tengda or not.
Dong Zhujun, the founder of jin jiang hotel played by Li Yuanyuan, has also added a filter compared to himself.
▲Teacher Li Yuanyuan stills
Dong Zhujun's fate was bumpy, at the age of 13, she was sold into the Qinglou as a singer, after marrying to the east to Japan, she completed her studies, after returning to China, her husband was promoted, she became the respected dudu lady, but it did not take long to divorce.
After the divorce, Dong Zhujun took four young children and did Shanghai drifting. In the years of war, she founded Jinjiang Restaurant with her talent and ability. Later, he donated all the tea rooms and garden houses of the restaurant he had operated for many years to the state.
Dong Zhujun is often praised for not losing Lin Huiyin, but this life is floating and sinking, starting from scratch, and even the best-looking face will be full of vicissitudes.
▲Dong Zhujun himself
Therefore, the first generation of female rich people are desperately working hard, where is how much time to pick up this face all day long.
Of course, the second generation will appear in the prototype of miss noble princes, but most of the second-generation female rich people who are serious about their careers are also transformed earlier than the sisters he chao feng and Meng Wanzhou.
The TV series filmed the romantic bridge section of He Chaoqiong's love with the noble princes when he was young, but he could not imagine He Chaofeng, who was worth tens of billions, dressed as a passerby, fluffy hair, standing in front of the small shop and eating cones freely.
▲ He Chaoqiong when he was young
▲ He Chaofeng and her boyfriend went shopping together to eat cones
Of course, I am not saying that the real rich are all bumpy, but the image of the rich in film and television dramas is still stuck in the Mary Sue period, which is both misleading and funny.
I read the preface to the Chinese edition of Poor Charlie's Book, written by the famous investor Li Lu, and talked about a small thing:
He had a breakfast party with his richest investor, Charlie Munger, at 7:30 a.m., and when he arrived on time, Munger was already sitting there reading the newspaper for the day.
The second time he was a quarter of an hour ahead, he found that Munger was still reading the newspaper. The third time he was half an hour ahead, and Munger was still there reading the newspaper.
▲ Rich father and son in "The Battle of Succession"
Until the fourth time, he sat there at half past six, waiting, and at six forty-five Munger came in, with a stack of newspapers in his hand, and sat down without looking up, completely unaware of his presence.
He did not expect that a rich man who was so successful would be so punctual in making breakfast with his young juniors, and he would arrive early.
Another time, Li Lu met Charlie Munger at the airport, and when he saw him through the security check, he was always alerted by the detector, so he had to drag his huge body back and forth to accept the security check, tossing and turning for half a day, and did not catch the plane.
He was not in a hurry, so he took out the book he had brought with him and sat down to read it, waiting for the next flight.
▲ The rich father and son in "The Battle of Succession" and the Murdoch father and son innuendo are completely different from the so-called "hegemonic image"
He traveled alone, in economy class, both for business and private business, but when he traveled with his wife and family, Charlie would fly in his own private jet. He explained: My wife has raised so many children for me all her life, paid a lot, and her health is not good, I must take good care of her. ”
Even Charlie Munger couldn't stand being out of touch with reality because he had money, he didn't want to fly private jets, he didn't want to monopolize the entire floor of the giant office.
Appearance is not directly proportional to wealth, do not be full of illusions about the rich.
A man, whether richer in money or in thought, must have put in many times more effort than others. More importantly, the opportunity and luck of catching up with the times.
There is no money on the face, and it will cost more money to move the face.
After moving your face, don't move your hands, don't use your brain, wait for your life to change, that's even more of a loss.
If you want to watch a luxury drama for entertainment, I recommend you to watch "The Battle of Inheritance", "Pearlescent", "Downton Abbey", and the novel "Crazy Asian Rich" adapted from the movie "Picking Gold", to see how poverty limits our imagination, look at the blood-colored life in wealth, think that you are actually not holding, you will cherish the ordinary life more.
Had a great weekend.
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Li Xiaoyi is a writer and founder of "Woman with a Fragrant Soul". Author of "What is Emotional Intelligence", "Life Lesson", "First Make a Living, Then Seek Love", "Beautiful Women Are Fierce Characters", "Women with Fragrant Souls", "Where does the aura come from", the new book "Emotional Self-Control" is on sale, 10 kinds of out-of-control emotions are resolved one by one, 10 different types of personalities are analyzed one by one, get rid of internal friction physique, and find a way to live without anxiety. Wu Xiaobo, Yang Tianzhen, Fu Seoul, yi Nengjing sincerely recommended.