A divorce was torn so badly that it was estimated that Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei did not expect it. Watching the New Year's Eve drama, a wave of uneven waves has risen again, but the "Lei Shen" real hammer has been delayed, this melon season is somewhat long, and the melon-eating masses have begun to lose their appetite.
The plot has come to this day, not standing Wang Lihong, nor standing Li Lianglei. The love and marriage of adult men and women, involving childbearing, is not a game of children's family, and when problems are encountered, it is worth treating with the most rational attitude. For the sake of a momentary speed, impulsive fighting to the point of losing both sides is a huge and lasting injury to both sides and the child, and it is inevitable to regret it after calming down.
Most people's love usually dies in marriage. Not because marriage is the graveyard of love, but because love comes with a life cycle, and the life span is short, and it is difficult to continue life unless another person starts over.
Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei should have been in love with each other, known each other for many years, and have maintained a secret connection between body and mind. As a high-quality idol who shines in all aspects of the conditions, Wang Lihong, the "Ma Bao Man", with the huge pressure of his parents' strong opposition, decided to marry Li Lianglei, who is mediocre in appearance and has also been criticized by birth, which shows the power of love. It's just that a man's love is too short, and he has quietly disappeared before he can even enter the marriage.
Li Lianglei loves Wang Lihong more, endure him and other girls before marriage, willingly give up her career and her own life after marriage, give birth to one child after another, and the whole person is buried in the endless cycle of preparing for pregnancy and giving birth to a baby. But it was even this kind of humiliation and burden, and it did not stop Wang Lihong's continuous cheating affair, under the guise of busy career, and did not care about the child not going home for many years.
Widowed marriage and widowed parenting are the fate of many full-time wives behind male celebrities, and Li Lianglei has not escaped this disaster.
Obviously, the divorce was initiated by Wang Lihong, and he did not hesitate to pay his ex-wife and children huge maintenance, and he also resolutely divorced the life "under fear, extortion, and threats". It can be seen that the marriage has been completely abandoned, and the love for Li Lianglei has been completely gone.
Wang Lihong is doing three or four things outside, often using work as an excuse not to go home, not caring about his wife's feelings at all, the real situation of marriage indifference, doesn't Li Lianglei know?
In the small essays that Li Lianglei has successively issued, Wang Lihong is a completely typical "scumbag", a man without moral bottom line and family responsibilities, and a sheep in wolf's skin. Such an unforgiving man, a normal woman should be eager to leave early, why is Li Lianglei still willing to guard the child, counting the days and looking forward to his return home?
Li Lianglei's explanation is that she grew up in a family without a father, the original family is incomplete and unhappy, she does not want her children to repeat their tragedies, so she wants to keep the marriage at all costs, so that the children can grow up physically and mentally and healthily in a complete and harmonious family environment.
Paradoxically, she adds that "a physically and mentally unhealthy father is more terrible than an absent father", and speculates that a husband who does not respect his spouse in a disloyal marriage is also more terrible and less worthy of nostalgia than an absent husband.
So the question is, Li Lianglei has received huge child support, luxury car nanny driver, and the high living expenses paid monthly, why is she still reluctant to leave the scumbag and give up the marriage? Could it be that she still loves Wang Lihong?
A few days ago, I also thought so, because Wang Lihong did not love it at all, so he did business on official business, and everything obeyed the guidance of lawyers. And Li Lianglei is not willing to give up because her old love is not yet gone.
Behind the tearing, in fact, everyone can see that as long as Wang Lihong promises to give her the title of "Mrs. Wang" again, she will definitely be willing to continue to bear the burden of humiliation and let him cheat today and tomorrow.
From this point of view, Li Lianglei actually did not love Wang Lihong for a long time. Because love is selfish, a true lover will never tolerate sharing a partner with someone else, and will never tolerate a partner's infidelity. Only if you don't love, can you be blind and pretend that you haven't seen anything, that nothing has happened.
The worst outcome of marriage is not that there is no love, but knowing that love is no more, for the sake of profit and face, we must maintain the false shell with each mind, and be the most familiar stranger under the eaves.
Marriage protects not love, but interests. Li Lianglei's nostalgia for marriage is not so much for the sake of the children as it is for the sake of profit.
Love is short-lived, marriage is unreliable, and only interests are permanent and worth fighting for. Marriage can protect interests, who is the biggest beneficiary of marriage, who is the most reluctant to let go.
The vast majority of celebrities or public figures, in order to image and reputation in order to continue to send careers and financial paths, marriage problems, basically will choose to be good and scattered. Like Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei, dragging mud and water to your death and me is really rare.
Love is no more, and interests such as property and children have become the only focus of contention. One creates profits to earn wealth, one leans back against a big tree for shade, although the value of a full-time wife cannot be ignored, but it is obvious who supports the family's economic support. The economic foundation determines the superstructure, and in marriage, the one who provides economic support has the right to speak, and the person who reaps the dividend will do everything possible to keep the marriage.
You can have a vendetta against your partner, but no one wants to have a vendetta against wealth. In marriages that are not easy to divorce, there is usually a huge disparity in external conditions such as wealth or status between the two parties. For example, "married" or "married" marriages are easy to tear up when separated. So as a woman, if you have the ability to be independent, try not to be completely dependent on men and marriage. Leave yourself a way back, in order to move in and out freely, do not look at people's faces.
In fact, Li Lianglei has already surpassed the vast majority of women. Although the marriage is no longer there, but there are children who have money, ability, freedom and youth, it is better to be free, like Gloria in "Love Myth", "rich and idle, husband missing", don't be too spiritual.
Fighting around is nothing more than interest and that tone. But in the long run, if you tear it up regardless of your face, you will eventually suffer losses to yourself and your children.
As for that tone, Wang Lihong doesn't care, netizens don't care, except for Li Lianglei herself, who cares?