Wen 丨 love words at 10:30
I'm here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
In love, there are many men who are not blessed in the blessing. Often complain that women are "stingy", feel that they are too much and too wide, feel that they have lost their freedom, feel that this kind of life, let themselves feel a little bored and depressed.
It is precisely because of this that men also hope that women can be "generous", more tolerant of themselves, and don't care so much.
In fact, in the feelings, it is a kind of happiness to be able to meet this kind of "stinginess". The more women love you and care about you, the more they like to manage you.
Because she wants all your love, wants you to spend more time with herself, and wants your eternal love... This kind of "stinginess" is born of love and will also die because of love.
It is said that after a woman changes her mind, she will be "generous" in 3 aspects. At this point, the woman's "stinginess" ushered in the end. But is this "generosity" really the result that men want?
Turn a blind eye to ambiguity
Possessiveness in feelings, whether men or women, is intense. When a woman loves you, there is always some suspicion.
Even if you fall in love again, she will be curious about who you ate with, who you exchanged messages with, and even who your circle of friends liked... She couldn't stand the ambiguity.
If she finds out that you're getting closer to the other members of the opposite sex, she'll be a little jealous. Even if she said nothing on her lips, there was a little jealousy in her words to express her dissatisfaction.
Perhaps, for such a "stingy" woman, you will feel a little annoyed. But when she really chooses to turn a blind eye to you and other members of the opposite sex, it means that your feelings are over.
You have to understand that only people who really love you will care if you have an ambiguous relationship, and a woman who turns a blind eye has long since stopped loving you.
Her heart is no longer on you, she will no longer care about you, whether there is some ambiguous relationship, and will not hold on to you and get angry at you.
People who don't love you, only have a heart for you that wants to escape, where there is still care and possessiveness.
Ignore your body
The woman who loves you will always control you. She is always paying attention to everything, worrying that you are not eating on time, and afraid that you "want to be graceful and not warm". In addition, she also likes to see if you are too close to the other opposite sex.
This kind of management of you may make you feel a little bored and feel that she is rambling. But what woman would want to look like this?
If it wasn't for liking you, how could she care and care about you so much?
On the contrary, if she always ignores you, she should get your attention. When a woman doesn't love you anymore, she doesn't pay so much attention to you anymore.
Even if you do something that hurts her body, she won't be nagging bitterly anymore.
At first, you might feel like this feeling is really free. But when time passes, you realize that you have lost her. Therefore, do not be in the midst of the blessings and not be blessed.
Ignore your temper
A woman who still loves you will care a lot about the tone of your words to her. If you lose your temper with her, she will be very aggrieved and feel sad. Furthermore, she will coax you with a spoiled child, or she will be very angry and resist.
You may even find that you are throwing a tantrum at the beginning, but in the end you always end up coaxing her. This makes you a little speechless, but it is also a harmonious and beautiful scene in love.
But if she ignores your temper, then you must understand that she has changed her mind.
A woman who has a changed heart no longer cares about your temper with her. She also doesn't want to use the coddled way to alleviate the contradictions between you. Yes, only a little bored and indifferent.
Such a woman, it seems, can always "tolerate" your temper and let you go. But the reality is that she doesn't care about you anymore.
True inclusion is to respond, even if you are angry, and you are willing to give you the opportunity to accept your apology, not this kind of disregard.
Love Words:
In love, "stinginess" is not a bad thing. The more "stingy" a woman is to you in these aspects, the more she loves you; and her "generosity" is only because she has changed her heart.
Therefore, love always has two sides of it, one is the sweetness of love, and the other is the bitterness of running-in.
People who truly love each other can balance the two well, enjoy happiness at the same time, and not forget to tolerate each other. However, don't wait until you lose it and regret it.
A woman's "stinginess" is a manifestation of loving you. Maybe you feel a little bored and depressed, but please look at her with your heart.
She's not jealous for the sake of jealousy, she's not trying to control you, she's not angry for being angry, she's just because she cares about you.
Therefore, cherish the woman who is "stingy" to you in these three aspects. She loves you very much. If she is "atmospheric", she has changed her mind. Fish and bear paws can not be combined, love and "freedom" are at your disposal.