Recently, a video of a pregnant woman in Chongqing using scissors to cut the wedding dress of a wedding dress shop went viral on the Internet, and the incident continued to attract attention. The cause of the incident was because the woman came to the store to ask for a refund of the deposit, and after being rejected, the woman cut more than 30 wedding dresses to vent her anger. According to the store, the clothing is worth more than 100,000 yuan.
The video transmission on the Internet shows that when the woman cuts the wedding dress, the clerk on the side of the store said while taking the video, "You have to think clearly, a wedding dress is thousands" and "this is tens of thousands". But the woman said, "Thousands, tens of thousands, let you bully me." Afterwards, the clerk said that because the woman was pregnant and holding scissors, her emotions were still in a state of excitement, so the clerk had to verbally dissuade her and did not dare to make too many moves.
The progress of the incident continued to arouse concern, and the police station under its jurisdiction also intervened in the investigation at the first time and organized the two sides to mediate.
On January 14, Ms. Jiang, the woman who cut the wedding dress, said that after mediation, the two sides had shaken hands and made peace, "and became friends", and said that both parties were victims of the incident, and that they were also impulsive at the time. The reason why the deposit was originally refunded was because the wedding banquet originally scheduled for last year's National Day was cancelled due to the epidemic, and if the delay in handling the children was born, the wedding would be laughed at.
Xiaoxiang Morning Post (weChat: xxcbbaoliao) reporter noted that at present, under the coordination of the relevant local departments, the two sides have shaken hands and made peace, and reached an agreement to compensate 50,000 yuan. Ms. Jiang said that the reason why she has not appeared before is that she does not want to be an "Internet celebrity", and her family relationship with her husband is also very good, and many online rumors are untrue. Ms. Jiang also said that both sides of this incident are victims, hoping not to affect each other's business, and hoping that everyone can understand her mood at that time.
The voice of the party: The original wedding was cancelled due to the epidemic, and the hotel refunded the deposit but the wedding store has not returned
On January 14, Ms. Jiang detailed the incident, Ms. Jiang said that because she wanted to hold a wedding banquet, on April 23, 2021, she booked a wedding celebration on October 5 of that year at the wedding dress shop involved, when the price given by the wedding store was 8,000 yuan, and paid her a deposit of 3,500 yuan on the same day.
"The manager said that there were three parts to give, the first part was the deposit, giving 3500 yuan, giving 3500 yuan on the wedding day, giving 1000 yuan after the wedding, they did not tell me that the deposit could not be refunded." Ms. Jiang said that maybe the store did not encounter the matter of returning the deposit, so it did not say anything at that time.
But soon after, because of the local epidemic, the banquet could not be held regularly, ms. Jiang contacted the store and explained the situation to them to see if they could postpone it until next year, and the other party quickly agreed.
Ms. Jiang said that in December, when she was already pregnant for several months, the family said that pregnant can not be done, and after having a child, she will do others to joke, so she found the wedding store again.
Ms. Jiang said, but the other party said that it could not be refunded, but it could be used in the future, and the deposit could be used when making a baby feast. "I didn't say anything at the time, and then I asked the hotel, and they actually refunded me in full, and I wasn't embarrassed at all." Ms. Jiang said that at that time, the hotel there was a deposit of 3,000 yuan, the wedding shop was also recommended to her by the hotel, and then she told her family about the situation on both sides, and the family said that the hotel was refunded, why the wedding could not be returned, even if the baby banquet was held, there was no need to invite the host, nor did it need to arrange the scene, 3500 yuan can do a few more tables, and then use this money is not necessary.
After that, Ms. Jiang asked the wedding store, but they still said that they could not return, "the hotel is the hotel, they are them", and also said that the money has been paid to the "four big Kong", the so-called "four big King Kong", that is, the wedding host, makeup artist, photographer and other types of work, but Ms. Jiang did not believe, asked the other party to provide payment vouchers, if you can provide, she does not intend to ask for this money, but the other party has not provided.
"A small thing made a big joke and both sides were victims"
Until January this year, Ms. Jiang personally came to the store again to communicate the matter, but the two sides still did not reach an agreement.
"Their store manager said that she is not easy, the monthly cost is also very high, what is the lease fee, just say that the deposit I paid they have paid in advance, but did not show me the payment voucher." In fact, at that time, I also understood them, because the business of the epidemic was not easy to do, what the boss said was true, really paid the money, showed me, I really wouldn't say anything, but he just wouldn't show me. Ms. Jiang said that at that time, she was also very angry, thinking that the other party was lying to me, and the other party said that she also had her principles, so that she could solve it in her own way.
"I felt particularly helpless when I heard it, and I didn't know if it was the reason why I was pregnant, I was very sad at that time, my heart was particularly fragile, and the tears came out at once, very depressed, and I was also very wronged at that time." Ms. Jiang said that she was also particularly impulsive at that time, so she ran downstairs to buy a pair of scissors, and when she came back, she began to cut the wedding dress, and then it was the same look in the online video.
Ms. Jiang said that after the incident, it received great attention from the outside world, and after the accident, she also regretted it.
"It is said that impulse is the devil, so you must accept the punishment after impulse." In fact, usually I am a person with a particularly good personality, and I am also very good at talking, I don't know what happened at that time, I am particularly excited, and I am particularly impulsive. I obviously don't have to vent my emotions in such a stupid way, it is ridiculous that a small thing was caused by my own impulse to make such a big joke. Ms. Jiang said that she later actively cooperated with the police, and she had to bear the wrong thing anyway.
At the same time, Ms. Jiang also responded to some Internet rumors, and there were internet rumors that Ms. Jiang had done a "shrunken-headed turtle" afterwards, and family relations were not harmonious, resulting in extreme personality and so on.
Ms. Jiang said that the reason why she did not appear before was because she did not want to be an Internet celebrity, "what to say on the Internet is up to him, after all, I have said thousands of mouths alone." In addition, she felt that she could solve things privately by herself, why should she be known to everyone.
For the family relationship, Ms. Jiang said that her husband also loves her and has been concerned about her situation, "husband also said that he also regretted that he did not accompany me that day, otherwise this kind of thing would not have happened." Ms. Jiang said that her mother-in-law was also very kind to her and usually treated her as a daughter-in-law.
In response to the incident itself, Ms. Jiang said that afterwards she and the store both sides regretted it, because at that time, it was because of some small things, it may be that communication was not in place, which triggered an incident that the whole network paid attention to, "let the whole world see the joke", "they are also the injured party, I am also the injured party".
Ms. Jiang said that at present, she and the store have shaken hands and become friends, and she also hopes that this matter will not affect the store's future business.
"It wasn't easy for them, and I hope you can understand how I felt at the time." Ms. Jiang said.
According to China News Network, on January 14, under the mediation of relevant departments, Ms. Jiang and the store have reached an agreement to compensate 50,000 yuan. "Don't want to force others to the end of the road, we each share some better, we bought a wedding dress on the cost of more than 100,000, 50,000 is our sincerity, but where she has money will not come to refund the deposit, (we) are really soft-hearted." The person in charge of the store said.
Xiaoxiang Morning News reporter Cao Wei
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