Many scum thorough, but Sun Tong, too, is also very sad, not a good match!
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After watching a movie "Half a Comedy", I wrote Zheng Duoduo in the film a few days ago, but today I want to write about Sun Tong.
The ending of the movie "Half a Comedy" is the same as its name, half joy and half sadness. Many people feel very cool when they see it in the end, because in their opinion, Sun Tong can finally stand up and be a person, and finally he can say what he wants to say, and fight with Zheng Duoduo to stir up his wedding with Gao Lu. The humble little people are finally not oppressed, and they can still hug the beauty and reconcile with Momo.
Many girls said after watching the movie that Sun Tong was too handsome, and even envied Momo for having a boyfriend like Sun Tong, and felt that Sun Tong was a very good man. But to be honest, this is also the movie, put into real life, like Sun Tong's "phoenix man" is definitely not a good match.
Is Sun Tong a good man? He didn't have Zheng Duoduo's scum, but he wasn't necessarily much nobler than him.
"Half a Comedy" on the Douban score is not low, 7.5 points, this movie is indeed very good, is a love light comedy, the plot is very compact, the actor's acting skills are also good. At first, everyone was not very optimistic about this movie, but the reputation was good, but everyone who had seen it said that it was very good.
There are three protagonists in the story.
Male protagonist, Sun Tong: A small-town youth, single family, the college entrance examination re-studied for three years before being admitted to Beijing. With the help of zheng duoduo's family, who is three years younger than himself, in order to have a stable job in Beijing, he pleases the other party everywhere and has to help him "cover up", and tells a lot of lies. Sun Tong lived like a humble dog in front of Zheng Duoduo, but there was nothing he could do, because he was a young man drifting north and a phoenix man, so he had to please Zheng Duoduo.
Although Sun Tong is a small-town youth, but the family conditions are not too bad, we said through the grandmother that "selling the house in the hometown can pay the down payment of a house in Beijing", such family conditions will be worse? It's just that compared to other characters in the movie, Sun Tong's family conditions are not good and relatively ordinary.
The heroine, Momo: a middle-class only daughter with a privileged family, went to the United States to study in high school. 29 years old, an older leftover girl in Beijing. She works well, works at the Bank of Beijing, and it can be seen that her position is not low. She has her own house in Beijing, and in addition to that, her parents' home decoration is also very good. Including her spending a lot of money, etc., we can all judge that Momo's family is very well-off.
Momo belongs to the only child of an older city who has a lot of money. There is a pursuit of love, but it is also sexually open, and after reuniting with Zheng Duo for a long time, you can simply sleep with him. Then when you are deceived, you will feel very wronged. Afterwards, he was touched by Sun Tong and was with Sun Tong again.
Male second, Zheng Duoduo: Rich second generation, a complete scumbag. Rich people are also handsome, the key is very talkative, will please girls, no bottom line will be soft, emotional intelligence is very high but not used in the right thing. There are many girls like male second people who will like it, because they are "soft in the ears" and can't tell what is true and false love. Zheng Duoduo likes to lie, likes to play, for him, love is nothing, marriage is harmless, he likes to seduce more women, in his eyes there is no word "loyalty".
He has a relationship with Momo, but only because Momo was the goddess he had a crush on when he was in junior high school. At that time, he did not catch up, and later wanted to complete his long-cherished wish. But he can have a one-night stand with the opposite sex at will, even if he has a girlfriend, he can also interact with several girls at the same time. He saw playing with women as a pleasure and a conquest, sleeping is sleeping, without taking on any responsibility and talking about love.
He likes Gao Lu, but he loves himself more, and the reason why he wants to marry Gao Lu is only because people are "right at home" with him, and a girl like Gao Lu is a good girl at first glance.
See no, a man like Zheng Duoduo has very low requirements for himself, but he has high requirements for his wife. He is very possessive, Andro just wants to go to the gym to work out, and he will be jealous because the gym instructors are all men and play with her temper and not let her go. He is not in love with Golw, but possessive.
Whether there are similar scenes of emotional teasing in reality, we will not explore. I would like to talk about a "phoenix man" like Sun Tong.
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Sun Tong such a "phoenix man", seems to be very motivated, honest, kind, filial piety, although not very good at talking about love, but singing is not bad, but also quite romantic, it is reasonable to say that with him should be a good choice. But this kind of "phoenix man" is just a gentle trap, you think he is in all aspects of the conditions, and even forgive him for the wrong things he had to do before, but you know, we have to look at the lowest point of a person's character, he can bow his knees for so long, it proves that this person is not so simple.
Sun Tong and Zheng Duoduo are good buddies, but the relationship between the two is also a mutual use.
Zheng Duoduo can help Sun Tong provide a superior job and a Beijing hukou, allowing Sun Tong to live in his home for free, and his clothes Sun Tong can wear as long as he wants. The relationship between the two is good, but there are potential inequalities. Zheng Duoduo is arrogant to Sun Tong, and Sun Tong is more of a "flattering and humble" mentality towards Zheng Duoduo.
What Zheng Duoduo gave to Sun Tong was not given in vain, and he hoped that Sun Tong would listen to him in everything.
Zheng Duoduo sun tong and Gao Lu, the three of them are college classmates. Sun Tong has always had a crush on Gao Lu but does not dare to confess, and as a result, Gao Lu becomes Zheng Duoduo's girlfriend. Zheng Duoduo likes to play, but is afraid that Gao Lu knows about his dirty things, and these things have to be covered by Sun Tong for him. Does Sun Tong really like Gao Lu? Instead of liking it, he loves himself more, and in order not to fall out with Zheng Duoduo, he cheated Gao Lu again and again.
Zheng Duoduo slept with many women, Sun Tong knew, but he would not tell Gao Lu. And he will also be a peacemaker and help Zheng Duoduo get through one difficulty after another. All in all, Sun Tong can help Zheng Duoduo do anything without a bottom line for the sake of work and hukou. He was conflicted and knew it was wrong, but he didn't dare say it.
What is Sun Tong's first scum? For the sake of practical benefits and timidity and humility in the face of love.
A "phoenix man" like Sun Tong knows better how to seek advantages and avoid harm, he helps Zheng Duoduo to cover up for not a day or two, knowing that Zheng Duoduo wants to marry Gao Lu, but still chooses to help him lie. Because if he broke up with Zheng Duoduo, wouldn't his hukou and work also be in vain?
At the beginning of the film, Zheng Duoduo tricked Momo into bed, and then after succeeding, he looked indifferent. Momo was in pain after learning the truth, and when she wanted to tell Gao Lu, Sun Tong covered Momo's mouth and wouldn't let her say it. What does this mean? Even though Sun Tong struggled internally, he still chose to deceive. He does not tell Momo that Zheng Duoduo has a girlfriend, nor does he let Momo tell Gao Lu the truth. Sun Tong was very timid and afraid of things, and lived carefully.
Such a man will bow down to you when he is not powerful, but a person who has been humble for a long time will be self-righteous once he has gained power. Many "phoenix men" can have no dignity for their own interests, but they are not willing, once they are oppressed for a long time, they will also resist, and they will rebel very extremely.
Sun Tong later fell in love with Momo, their love is very open, and two people can have a relationship when they like their feelings. Sun Tong was late for work the next day.
Because Zheng Duoduo is very possessive, he absolutely cannot tolerate his buddies being with the women he has slept with, even if he does not want this woman. Because of this, Zheng Duoduo has been forcing Sun Tong and Momo to break up. At this point, I despise Zheng Duoduo, what a scumbag, you don't want it yourself and don't let people want it.
Friendship and love, coupled with pressure from his mother, Sun Tong flinched, and he was ready to break up with Momo. Sun Tong's mother is even more of a "shameless" person, although she says that she is for her son, but she has been forcing her son to do things he does not like, even if his son is very humble. She is very snobbish, commanding the waiter, and when she sees Zheng Duoduo's father, she is very flattering, that is, a bad mother-in-law who "hates the poor and loves the rich, and tends to be inflamed and attached".
In order to make her son reconcile with Zheng Duoduo, she will pretend to be ill, and even be unreasonable.
In the scene where Sun Tong and Momo broke up in the hospital, Sun Tong said: "People like you just can't understand the situation of people like us." ”
To illustrate, when he divides himself into two kinds of people, the so-called class gap is not so easy to cross. Even if you and Momo are very compatible for a while, they are in agreement, but the three views, the future life may not be smooth, not to mention there is a mother-in-law, Momo and Sun together, definitely not a good marriage, there will be more trouble in the future.
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Momo is a woman who is very simple about love, but she is also quite open to sex. For her, as long as she likes it, she can have a relationship very naturally. Momo is very naïve, can't learn to protect himself, loves too fast, and it's no wonder he will be deceived by scumbags. She doesn't like to lie, and she can't do something if she feels wrong. In the workplace, she will not be humble, her temperament is very straight, and she is also straight with the leader.
A girl like Momo and Sun Tong are not the same person, and the two people and three views are not in harmony.
Even if Sun Tong was forced to "please" Zheng Duoduo at the beginning, it also showed that he had no principles, he could do anything for the sake of profit, and he was willing to be a dog of Zheng Duoduo. A man who can live so reclusively, what do you think he can't do. He can help Zheng Duoduo "cover" for his own interests, while having a crush on Gao Lu but helping to deceive, he seems to be kind, a gentle little sheep, an honest man, but in fact, he is the worst. Thinking only of oneself, no principles and no bottom line. I am not very brave for love, and in the face of love and filial piety, I dare to say that love is his last choice.
Sun Tong came from a small town to a big city, he has a difficult life, but he can't get rid of his outlook on life and values that have penetrated into the bone marrow since he was a child. I dare say that if Momo was not the only daughter of a big city and did not have a Beijing hukou, it is estimated that Sun Tong would not be with her. Girls like Momo are not short of money, only love, but they are the most easily deceived.
There are some "phoenix men" who hope to ascend to heaven one step by one step through love, if they have made a rich girlfriend, he does not have to struggle, and everything can be in place in one step. He didn't have to buy a house, he didn't even have to give a bride price. But such men often learn not to be grateful. In particular, Sun Tong, who has a certain "black background", is more likely to repeat the same technique in the future. In the past, there was no dignity, and after the efforts were developed, they may not know how to be grateful.
What's more, Sun Tong also has a mother who is "inflammatory", he is a bit of a "mother treasure", if there is a conflict between his wife and his mother, he will definitely choose his mother. When you are in love, you feel good, and when you get married, you will feel miserable. Your marriage is a kind of poverty alleviation, if you are too strong, he will feel that he has no dignity.
Don't look at the ending is That Sun Tong and Momo are together, and the two people are still excited to buy mattresses, but it may not be good, and it is most likely a tragedy.
Women still have to have long snacks, talk about love slowly, and don't have a relationship with them too quickly. Don't think that you can fall in love quickly when you are young, or you have to think clearly. It is not so easy to know the relationship, but it is still necessary to take into account many practical factors.
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A "phoenix man" like Sun Tong, it is best not to marry, too selfish, and very utilitarian.
About marriage, you have to think about it, character is always the first, remember Sun Xiucai in the TV series "Do You Know It or Not"? Sun Xiucai is a man who eats soft rice and hard food, has a very bad character, and does not respect women. His fate was also very tragic, belonging to "the poor man must have something to hate."
Marriage should be cautious, and both men and women should consider character. Like Sun Tong's "phoenix man", you have to get along with him well, look at his pattern and how to deal with people, get along more, and not flash marriage. It is more important to look at what kind of person his mother is, and families with good family style can often raise children with good character. Consider clearly, the "phoenix man" may not be avoided.
But Sun Tong is not optimistic about it, and half of the reason is because of his mother.
Today's topic: Do you think Sun Tong is a "scumbag", and will he have a good marriage with Momo? Welcome to leave a message.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.