With the rapid development of social economy, people's material level has also improved, and long-term desk work has also made people feel tired. To relax, you will go to some places for acupressure massage.
While our intentions are good, some masseuses have no work ethic and have a relationship with their customers.
And the incidents of masseurs having relationships with customers are endless. What is the reason behind it?
Today we will talk about the incident of Jiangsu male technicians having relationships with female customers and filming videos to blackmail women.
What's going on here? How does this happen between them and how do they deal with it later?
01, the origin of the event
The female customer's surname is Yang, she often comes to this shop for massage, and after a long time, she and the male massage therapist Xiao Liu became acquainted.
Tuina teacher Xiao Liu, is a young man after 90, young, he dropped out of school very early, in the society for more than ten years, gave him a lot of social experience, long-term drilling lifestyle and early dropout, did not shape him a correct three views.
By chance, he entered the massage parlor, learned massage, had a craft, although the man came to be a masseuse, it did not sound very good, but the masseuse's salary was very high.
Because they often massage Ms. Yang, the two also have feelings for each other, but because Ms. Yang already has a family, there is no result between the two of them.
Unless Ms. Yang chooses to divorce her husband voluntarily.
It may still be the gap between material conditions, Ms. Yang did not choose to divorce such a husband, after all, her husband's conditions may be much better than Xiao Liu's.
She chose to continue to communicate with Xiao Liu, and the two had a long period of contact, and when they came and went, they had a relationship.
I thought it was over.
Will Ms. Yang regret betraying the marriage and choosing to end the relationship?
No, she continued to choose to interact with Xiao Liu privately and had relationships with him many times.
But often walk by the river, where are the shoes that are not wet? Where is Xiao Liu such a simple person?
He recorded a video of his relationship with Ms. Yang. He pretended that his mother in his hometown was sick and needed 100,000 yuan, but Ms. Yang did not give it to him.
So he said what was in the video, and Ms. Yang still did not choose to give.
Xiao Liu exposed his nature and intensified his threat to Ms. Yang, if Ms. Yang did not give, he would send out the video of this matter, and tell the people around Ms. Yang that she was cheating.
Ms. Yang saw that the situation had deteriorated and there was no way, so she called the police. And Xiao Liu was eventually captured.
02. The result of the handling after the case is reported
After Xiao Liu was caught, he confessed to the crime he had committed, and the procuratorate believed that Xiao Liu's extortion involved a huge amount of money for the purpose of illegal possession, and he would be held responsible for the crime of extortion.
Because Xiao Liu has attempted to commit a crime and has a good attitude of admitting his mistakes, he will be given a mitigated punishment or a lenient treatment if he actively confesses to the crime he committed.
But Xiao Liu has been tainted for life for the crime of extortion, and the final waiting for him will be the pronouncement of the law.
I hope that those who are about to commit crimes on the verge of sin can stop the cliff and turn back to the shore, and not be mistaken for a lifetime because of some things.
Think more about your family, life in the world, there is no obstacle can not pass, grit your teeth, endure the past, you will find that those things that were once difficult to survive, not as difficult as imagined.
Don't commit a crime because you are sad for a moment.
For Ms. Yang, the timely alarm saved the loss. However, his behavior of cheating in marriage and having a relationship with a male technician is bound to have an indelible impact on his children's families.
I hope that Ms. Yang can remember her married identity, think carefully when doing things, and stop losses in time.
Don't trample on the love of your family.
Of course, Ms. Yang's case is not unique. There are also female masseuses who have sex with male technicians. Some people are forced, and some are confused like Ms. Yang.
03. Analysis of responsibility for the occurrence of the incident
The reason for this kind of incident, I think, we have to analyze it from the following aspects:
For women:
First, when going to massage, try to choose a female technician and make decisions from the source.
Second, women should keep in mind their identity, always be vigilant, and distinguish between public and private with technicians.
On the one hand, if you really like the technician, you must choose well, do not hide it from Ms. Yang, I think it is still necessary to stop the loss in time, after all, there are responsibilities in the marriage.
On the other hand, you have to pay attention to whether he really likes you or takes advantage of you.
For technicians:
Be careful to follow professional ethics, do a good job, and don't have too much to do with customers. But after all, it is a male technician, and massaging women is also a challenge for him.
But male technicians should remember not to take chances, if you do something illegal because of this, what awaits you will be severely punished by the law and regret for life.
If you think about it, it's a bit costly, so would you still do something like that?
For massage parlors:
Operational norms should be strengthened, supervision should be strengthened, and supervision posts should be designed to inspect them to prevent similar illegal things from happening in the workplace.
There must also be certain standards for the selection of technicians, raise the threshold for selection, and improve the work quality of technicians.
In the business model, let customers choose male and female technicians by themselves, rather than mandatory female customers, must be male technicians.
But these are only measures, and if we want to make a fundamental decision, we still rely on the conscious action of each of us.
I hope that Ms. Yang's affairs can bring us a wake-up call.
Life is long, and no one can be sure that they will love only one person in their lifetime. Fidelity is a choice, and once we enter marriage, we have to consider not only love, but also responsibility in marriage.
When you are doing something that hurts your family, I hope you can make a careful decision, it is possible that you are blinded by the emotions of the moment, and you have not yet seen your true heart.
But if you really don't love it, then please let it go, and give it the greatest respect to others.
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