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We asked everyone the other day, "How old were you ten years ago?" If you had a time machine that could go back to ten years ago, what would you like to say to yourself ten years ago? ”
Backstage received a lot of messages from 30+ year old fans, and they had a lot of things they wanted to say to their 20+ years old self. And these may be life advice for people aged 20+. We have selected 25 of them for you who are watching.
Let's take a look.~
01.
At this time, the most important question you want to know is "where is my boyfriend", but in the future, I will not say anything hehehe. Rest assured, you will eat the bitterness and sweetness of love, patience, are the best arrangement.
02.
Don't die and live for a scumbag. Ten years from now you'll just think ridiculously stupid. Listen to your friends, they won't hurt you. Be sure to break up firmly, the person who really loves you will come up.
03.
I got married at the age of 26, divorced at the age of 30, I will say to myself ten years ago, it is not that you have to get married when you are in love, men are not all the same, don't worry, take your time, talk about a few more... Now I'm an 8-year-old son, a 36-year-old single mom who has only been in a relationship once so far.
04.
Don't marry him, and don't have children with him. To face your own life problems, to take on your own responsibilities, to find a place in society. Marriage will not be your safe haven, and putting on the wedding dress with an escapist mentality will be the most regrettable thing in your life.
(How far can you get married?) |KY Interview: 100 Prerequisites for Marriage, Click to Read )
05.
Ten years ago, I just left my hometown and changed to a city job, and I had no friends in a new environment. I want to tell the girl who feels lonely: in the future you will meet a lot of good people, and you will gain a lot of warmth in this city.
06.
I want to say to myself that next year you will meet two important people. Explore it, don't ruin it. Make a choice, or you'll live in regret and regret for the next decade and beyond. Choosing the right person, or choosing neither, at least won't hurt anyone.
07.
Went to the wedding of the graduate roommate a few days ago, if you have the opportunity to say a word to yourself ten years ago, I would like to say: don't be too harsh on the graduate roommate, there is no perfect person in the world, cherish the person who cherishes you, grow up you will find that there are not many such people.
08.
The Son wants to raise and does not wait. It has been ten years since my father died this year. I want to tell him not to worry, this is still a world of love, even if it is not in a space, I still love you.
09.
Listen to your mother's words, even if what she says is not reasonable and unrealistic, you must first listen carefully and carefully, don't hurt her emotionally, don't argue with your mother, she is really the person who loves you the most in the world. She is just an ordinary person except for her mother, she has held your hand for many years, and many years later she will change you to hold her hand and go on.
10.
"Cherish every day you don't have to work to earn money, although you don't like to study, but studying in school is actually a very happy thing." 」
11.
Ten years ago, when I was 23 years old, under the "strong recommendation" of my parents, I chose to stay in the public institution in the small county of my hometown to work, while my college roommates stayed in Beijing. I often see their dynamics in the circle of friends. I want to tell myself ten years ago: Try Beijing, if you don't try, you will regret it for the rest of your life.
12.
Stick to your own choices, complete your graduate studies, and give yourself more perspectives on the world.
13.
Ten years ago, I was 18 years old and took the college entrance examination. When I was in high school, I gave up on difficult courses, many subjects, a little bit here, a little bit there, and you ended up in a third-rate university. After graduation, you are more reluctant to learn, waste your youth, nearly thirty years old, and know the importance of knowledge and skills. Can't give up anymore!
14.
Ten years ago, when I was 35 years old, when I was the class teacher of the senior high school graduation class, I looked at a class of hard-working children and only hoped that they could be admitted to their ideal school and have a good future. If I could travel back ten years and have the opportunity to talk to me once, I would tell myself that your wish has come true, and these children are excellent.
15.
If I could travel back 10 years, I would say to the 23-year-old: stay in my hometown, or be closer to home, first-tier cities are not so beautiful. Life is their own, and people who are wandering outside have a heart that wants to go home.
16.
I just want to say to myself ten years ago: stock recession, Shanghai house to understand? [Editor: Is it still too late? 】
17.
Study hard, work hard, and get married later.
18.
I would say to myself ten years ago: you don't have to change anything, you work hard to make up for one regret, and then you will spend time making up for that regret and leave another regret, no matter what you do, you will definitely leave regrets, so just be happy.
19.
Ten years ago, I first started to see a doctor, slowly learned about depression and anxiety, and fumbled with psychology on my own. At that time, it seemed like I was crying every day, and the family was also jumping, and I couldn't even work for a while. But looking back, I survived. I'd love to say to myself who couldn't find meaning in life at that time: Trust me, everything will be fine.
20.
I just turned 30 ten years ago and hadn't had a baby yet. I go to piano lessons on weekends and hear beautiful music coming from between my fingers, which is when I'm happiest. But after giving birth to a child, I can only watch the piano at home gradually fall to ashes... I would like to say: whether it is a career or a child, you should not give up your own time.
21.
Before listening to Eason sing for ten years, I always felt that ten years is so long that only adults can talk about ten years, and now my life has several decades, and I have become an adult. If I could, I would like to say to myself ten years ago: Don't grow up, it's a trap. 【Editor:emo】
22.
I want to tell myself ten years ago: be brave for love, or anything else.
23.
Ten years ago, when I was 25 years old, I was just starting to lose sleep. If I have the chance, I would like to say to myself: You are still very young, everything is too late, relax and get a good night's sleep.
24.
Ten years ago, I just turned 20. I was always in a hurry, but I didn't seem to be able to do anything. It wasn't until later that I saw Haruki Murakami's words, "I thought I was in my twenties and would go to see the mountains, rivers, and seas, and the sunset." But in fact, I was still looking for myself. "So I want to say to myself: take your time, don't be in a hurry, take your time to find yourself, one day you will find it."
25.
Doing what you want to do, other people's eyes really don't matter. Really useful for learning English well. If you have time and money, go out and walk around. Learn what you like. Protect your teeth. If you have money, you will get your teeth straightened out as soon as possible. In fact, so much is also said to the current self, and it is not too late from now on.
Ky authors say:
After reading everyone's message, I thought of the sentence of "Golden Age": "I was twenty-one years old that day, and in the golden age of my life, I had a lot of extravagance. I want to love, I want to eat, and I want to turn into a half-light and half-dark cloud in the sky in an instant. ”
In the many messages sent to the past, there is a message like this:
"I can't say a word, and every stumble or attempt is an important factor in who I am now." Anything I say about the past will affect me now, and isn't the joy of life the myriad possibilities unknown? ”
Maybe everything is the best arrangement.
I don't know what we will become in ten years?
Today's Interaction: If you had the chance, what would you like to say to yourself ten years ago?