The world of feelings comes and goes, you send me a rose, I send you a piece of chocolate. Two people are like sitting on both sides of a seesaw, and only balance can stabilize the feelings. If one is on top, one must bear more. Some people are very accommodating in their feelings, but such people often do not get true love, because the feelings of fearlessness do not last long. Everyone has a fluke mentality, and so does the relationship, get it too easily, or be forgiven all the time, and the chance becomes uncaring. Because this relationship does not need to pay anything, for this person this relationship has no cost, as if it was picked up on the street, even if it is discarded casually, there will be no loss. And the person who pays may not understand why the feelings they are trying to maintain are so weak until they lose. In fact, it's not that you don't do a good job, it's just that you are too accommodating to the other party, resulting in the more you pay, the less you get.
There are four things in Cancer's life that cannot be left behind, that is, eating, drinking and having fun. They are lazy, but they never spare their energy on these four things. However, in the relationship, Cancer seems to have changed into a person, if they really like a person, it will be very accommodating to each other's feelings, even if they are wronged, they will not make the other party unhappy. In the relationship, Cancer is a relatively timid sign, dare not say their own opinions, and even sometimes let people look very wronged.
Coupled with the fact that Cancer does not care about men and women, they have to go up to the hall and the kitchen, and they can do the housework in an orderly manner, so it is inevitable that people feel that they are a "nanny". And the heart is soft, even if it is bullied, others will stay softly after a little retention. Over time, they give more and more, but get very little. Many people will miss Cancer after a breakup, because they are very gentle in the relationship and will make each other very comfortable. But in fact, such feelings are all exchanged for Cancer's own commitment to perfection. If you cherish them too, don't live up to their efforts.
Pisces in life are kind and kind-eyed, but in fact, none of them believe in them. The same is true in relationships, it is very difficult for Pisces to trust someone, so they are always suspicious at the beginning of the relationship. However, the desire for feelings will make them desperate, and at this time, Pisces's suspiciousness will be committed, always suspicious of ghosts, and the energy that should have been placed in feelings was placed on speculation. At this time, their efforts have been a lot, and after finding that the other party has no two hearts, Pisces has entered a mode of unconditional trust.
They will listen very carefully to what the other party says, as if some of what the other party says is correct. And this time Pisces pays for trust. But many Pisces do not expect that their other half is easy to escape, after all, no one wants to be asked by Pisces every day. A few Pisces will realize the problem and then take back some of their energy. And more people can't give up, so they will keep giving, until they wake up, they may suddenly realize. In fact, everyone is an individual, has their own thoughts, if you always live the way other people live that Pisces will be very tired, and still get nothing.
Aries enthusiasm can easily make them the one who gives more, and their righteous personality will make them the one who gains very little. Aries in the relationship always wants to take care of each other, and as a result, many things have wronged themselves. Aries are very realistic people, either do not give, or do not pay at all costs, once they have hope for a relationship, then will be very active, will also pay a lot in this relationship.
However, it seems that the happy Aries are either veterans of the love scene or some young couples. And the remaining Aries have a hard time getting enough of the feelings they want in a relationship. In fact, the reason is also very simple, that is, enthusiasm and righteousness, so that Aries no matter what they encounter, they want to solve it themselves, and when they encounter problems, they will only accommodate each other. Such feelings will make Aries very tired after a long time, and the other party will not care about the existence of Aries.
Don't look at Sagittarius is usually smart and clever, but in the relationship they tend to suffer very badly. They can meet each other's requirements, and they can realize each other's ideas. Although such feelings are very favored by Sagittarius in the eyes of outsiders, this feeling is very unbalanced.
Sagittarius touched himself with his own efforts, but made the other party pay less and less attention to this relationship. You may even feel that Sagittarius's efforts are a matter of course. Although many times it is Sagittarius who ends a relationship on his own. But this also does not avoid the result that the more you pay, the less you get. Sagittarius is too taking care of each other's feelings, too accommodating to each other's habits, abandoning everything to meet each other's requirements, making the other party more and more fearless, and making their own efforts cheaper and cheaper.
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