The English poet Blake once said: "A flower is a world, a leaf is a pursuit, a song is a sigh, a life is a person." ”
Everyone should have their own love, the value of love in people's hearts is irreplaceable, but people still believe in secular concepts, so many young people's mate selection concept still stays on the door.
Of course, appearance, height is also the requirement of mate selection standards, with the progress of the times, the most cute height difference couples also have a lot, usually the most cute height difference means that men are higher than women twenty or thirty centimeters, but in Rizhao City, Shandong Province, there is such a couple, also known as "the most cute height difference".
But it is a little different from the most cute height difference in our impression, a tall woman of one meter and seven meters actually married a "dwarf man" of only one meter for love, and what is more surprising is that two people have supported each other for decades without a wedding, is the story of Snow White and the dwarf really exist in real life? So how did the two of them come together?
Love at first sight
This one-meter "dwarf" named Lin Yanhua was born in a rural area in Ju County, Rizhao City, Shandong Province, Lin Yanhua was short in stature due to congenital pituitary dysplasia, which is often referred to as pituitary dwarfism.
With the gradual increase of age, Lin Yanhua's body remained in childhood, but Lin Yanhua was not greatly affected by this, but lived seriously, worked hard, and when he did not meet his wife, Lin Yanhua relied on repairing old home appliances in his repair shop every day to maintain a basic life.
But Lin Yanhua, who reached the age of marriage, did not get married for a long time because of his physical disability, he did not dare to ask for someone to spend the rest of his life with him, he did not dare to expect that someone would like such a self, he thought that he could spend the rest of his life safely, but he never expected that one day in the winter of 2005 changed his life.
On this day, Lin Yanhua repaired the stereo in his own repair shop as usual, and after the stereo was repaired, he was ready to return it to the customer, and on the way to the customer's house, Lin Yanhua met the person he wanted to live for a lifetime.
Lin Yanhua intercepted a taxi on the road, and it was difficult to intercept a taxi, but just when he was sitting in the back seat of the taxi, a woman of one meter and seven meters directly got on the car and sat in the front position, Lin Yanhua was dumbfounded, and his hard-to-stop car was occupied by others. Didn't this man see himself?
The answer is obvious, this one meter seven woman did not see Lin Yanhua sitting in the back of the car at all, a brain sat on the front seat, just wanted to talk to the driver master about the destination, suddenly lin Yanhua behind the shouted "hello", the other party was obviously frightened by the North Pole, and then Lin Yanlin explained that she had gotten on the car before her, and this one meter seven woman realized that before she got on the car, there was already this special "little person" in this car.
This one-meter-seven woman named Chen Guiyun, she had just finished her business and was ready to return, she just saw a taxi and she walked straight over, but before she got on the car, she had confirmed that there was no one in the car, how could a person suddenly appear?
In fact, when Chen Guiyun got on the car, Lin Yanhua was already in the car, and the door happened to block Lin Yanhua, who was only one meter, which made Chen Guiyun mistakenly think that there were no passengers on the car.
In the face of the sudden "dwarf person", Cheng Guiyun did not feel much bored, on the contrary, she also felt that this "little person" was quite cute, although the two people had not met before, but both people invariably put forward the proposal of carpooling.
Through chatting, Chen Guiyun found that although Lin Yanhua was short in stature, this did not delay Lin Yanhua's love of life, positive and optimistic, although the distance between the two people was short, the love of the two people also came quietly at this time.
When getting off the bus, the two people exchanged contact information, since then, the two people have been chatting through mobile phones, Chen Guiyun also often went to Lin Yanhua's repair shop to help, during this period of help, Chen Guiyun found that this short figure actually lived in an interesting soul, and good feelings also came out of nowhere.
After a period of getting along, the two gradually became acquainted, and then became fond of each other, so the two people showed their hearts to each other, after determining each other's intentions, the two people quickly formed a connection, but for various reasons, the two people did not do a wedding, in Lin Yanhua and Chen Guiyun's view, the wedding is just a ceremony, love and wedding have nothing to do with each other, but each other's friends and relatives feel that without the blessing of the wedding, the love of the two people will not go long.
Frothy with each other
After marriage, the husband and wife live very sweetly, but there are still many people who are not optimistic, after all, Chen Guiyun was a salesman in a supermarket in the town before meeting Lin Yanhua, usually responsible for selling daily necessities, clothing, etc., the conditions are superior, so she wants to find a door-to-door person is still very relaxed.
But Chen Guiyun does not agree with the views of relatives and friends, she believes that the door to the door does not necessarily have the same outlook on life, values and world view, the door to the door does not mean happiness, on the contrary, she believes that although the current life is a little bitter, it is happy.
The husband and wife broke through the gossip and began a life of joint efforts, Lin Yanhua did not have his own house, the repair shop was his home, Chen Guiyun did not abandon it, and generously lived in a 13-square-meter repair shop.
Although Lin Yanhua has his own repair shop, the repair shop is full of parts of various home appliances, it seems that the business is not bad, but the fact is that the business of the repair shop is not very prosperous, even if there are customers, the money earned can only maintain the basic life of two people, let alone buy an old TV?
But this does not hinder Chen Guiyun's love for Lin Yanhua, in her opinion, the lack of material life can be created by her hands, and spiritual harmony is the most important thing for two people to be together, so she does not care that the two people's home is only 13 square meters, nor does she care about the two people's living constraints.
Since the material life is missing, then rely on the hands to create their own life, after marriage Chen Guiyun did not put down his work to be a full-time wife, but still in the sales industry to do a good job, the same Lin Yanhua's repair shop is also developing in a good direction day by day, with a common goal, the two people work more energetically, and this has become a catalyst for the two people's feelings to become better.
Like most ordinary people, career love double harvest, the business of the two people is not only getting better and better, life is getting sweeter and sweeter, the busyness of the daily work not only does not make the feelings of the two people in crisis, on the contrary, the two people have almost no quarrel after being together.
Weddings that are decades late
Kung Fu pays off, after the joint efforts of two people, Chen Guiyun and Lin Yanhua's life is getting better and better, the small days are also flourishing, in these decades, the two people have not been knocked down by the plight of chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, on the contrary, the two people in the ordinary life looking for each other's motivation and hope, looking for the extraordinary life in the ordinary life.
When the two were married, many people in the village did not approve of their union, and the 1 meter 7 woman married a dwarf who was only one meter. Such a thing is difficult for many people to accept.
But it is such a couple, they rely on the loyalty of the two people to the feelings, love for each other, positive and optimistic about life, gradually recognized by the villagers, whenever the village mentions Chen Guiyun and Lin Yanhua and his wife, they will laugh and call them model couples, because although their days are a little bitter, but bitter with joy, their feelings are more harmonious, happy and sweet than many couples in the town.
The story of Chen Guiyun and Lin Yanhua's husband and wife soon spread, and many reporters and media in the town also interviewed Chen Guiyun and Lin Yanhua, whose love transcended door-to-door pairs, transcended material life, and transcended worldly views, which is worthy of our praise and learning.
With the successive interviews of reporters and media, the story of the two people was quickly spread to the Internet, netizens are both happy for them, but also sorry for them, happy that their love is unswerving to death, is mutual support, such love is called love.
Unfortunately, when Chen Guiyun married Lin Yanhua, he only received a marriage license and did not hold a wedding, and wearing a wedding dress to marry his beloved person is every girl's dream, and Chen Guiyun is no exception.
After many netizens know this matter, they actively want to help two people make up for their regrets, and the netizens' enthusiasm also reminds Lin Yanhua that he still owed his wife a wedding, when his wife married himself, due to the economic situation and the gossip around him, the two people simply received a marriage license and did not hold a wedding.
Now that life is getting better and better, and the people in the village have recognized the feelings between them, it is time for the wedding that owes the wife to be put on the agenda.
So netizens after lin Yanhua's consent, they spontaneously prepared a wedding for the two people, whether it is the venue or the bride's wedding dress, netizens have thought of them one by one, and helped them do a good job, even a few days before the wedding, netizens came to their town in advance to help the bride Chen Guiyun wear a wedding dress and tidy up the headdress.
On the day of the wedding, Chen Guiyun was dressed in a white wedding dress, he took her hand and slowly walked through the red carpet, followed by the exchange of rings between the two sides, and those sonorous and powerful vows were particularly precious to them.
Because they are different from ordinary people, they have been living together for decades, understanding each other's interests, hobbies, living habits, their eyes are each other, as long as they have a look, they understand and understand, such love is unswerving, is unswerving to death.
At the wedding, Lin Yanhua said that he thought he would end his life hastily, but he did not expect to meet Chen Guiyun, for him, his wife is worth his life to protect, Chen Guiyun also said that being able to meet his husband Lin Yanhua is the luckiest and happiest thing in his life.
Pure love is especially precious
On the Internet, the love story of Lin Yanhua and Chen Guiyun is very popular, which also allows Lin Yanhua's repair shop to increase a lot of passenger traffic, and the two people are also developing in a better direction, Chen Guiyun and Lin Yanhua's love is special in our eyes, so where is it special?
When Lin Yanhua and Chen Guiyun first got together, the people around them were all opposed opinions, whether it was the village or the friends of two people, they all felt that the love of one meter seven marriage and one meter was hot for three minutes, and it would not last long, after all, in their opinion, Chen Guiyun was completely worth finding a door to be right or a better condition.
In addition, the combination of Chen Guiyun and Lin Yanhua is neither a door nor a pair, Lin Yanhua's family situation is not superior, nor does he have an outstanding appearance, some are just an optimistic heart and love life.
Chen Guiyun said that the reason why she chose to be with Lin Yanhua was entirely because of love because of the spiritual fit, which in her opinion attracted her more than money, figure and appearance.
In real life, it takes courage to choose love without hesitation, to be able to choose the person you love beyond material conditions, we usually mix material and love, thinking that with material there is love, but in fact, it is not like this.
Material does not represent love, but love represents material, if two people have determined a goal, they will work hard for this goal, and each other is each other's motivation.
Therefore, it can be said that Lin Yanhua is brave, he is not afraid of the world, he is not afraid of material life. He has a positive and optimistic attitude. It is this kind of mentality that gives him a unique charm that others do not have. And Chen Guihua is attracted by such a unique charm.
Although Lin Yanhua's height is only one meter, Lin Yanhua replaced the physical defects with this mentality, and he did not take the physical defects as the reason for his pessimistic life, nor did he lose courage and faith in life because of the physical defects.
More importantly, he never thought that he was inferior to others because of his physical defects, in his eyes he was equal to anyone else, and he was also capable enough to be worthy of Chen Guiyun, a dare to embrace him without hesitation, a dare to love her, this is the love of Chen Guiyun and Lin Yanhua.
It has nothing to do with the world, just two simple people, just simple love, just simple use of this love to promote two people to move forward together, this is probably the most beautiful look of love.
Later, Lin Yanhua and Chen Guiyun were interviewed by the central government, and in the process of the interview, the two people always held each other's hands and felt each other's heartbeat, they did not care about the voices of external doubts, did not care about the worldly gossip, only cared about each other.
Lin Yanhua and Chen Guiyun have been together for more than ten years, under the premise of no wedding, they can support each other, and walk through countless spring, summer, autumn and winter, which is what shocks all of us, and it is also the place where everyone is moved, and love is such a thing, once your righteousness is correct, then you will harvest happiness that is more precious than anything.