Text/Xiaohe
Recently, I read an article about a woman in a small town who set up a grocery stall:
The woman looks like she is in her 30s, and her husband works as a handyman on the construction site. In addition to keeping the land to earn living expenses, she also has to serve her paralyzed mother-in-law and raise two children who go to school.
A woman who comes out of such a family should, according to the theory, have a sad face and a depressed look. But when she appears on the street every day, she wears a plain cheongsam, with delicate buns, refreshed and smiling.
Although the fabric of the cheongsam is ordinary, it can be worn on her body in a good style. Men and women in the town like to come and chat with her, and women especially like to discuss with her the style of the cheongsam and the matching of hairstyles.
At the end of the day, everyone will happily buy one or two small items to take away.
Later, the woman's life became more and more prosperous, and the family bought a car and built a building. But she still maintains her original outfit: a plain cheongsam, coiled hair, still refreshed, smiling.
In life, there is always a kind of woman, who does not apply powder, but still gives people a clean and noble feeling.
Such a woman has a noble temperament reflected from her bones, whether poor or rich, always makes people feel comfortable.
This noble temperament, clean, clear, pure, has a natural attraction and is not swayed by any environment or foreign objects.
You will find that the more noble a woman is, the cleaner she is.
Noble women will keep the dwelling clean
Home, as a private place for individuals to live, can best reflect a person's real state of life.
A noble woman must have a clean, comfortable home that hides the good upbringing and character of her master.
Zheng Nian, a "generation of famous women", was once known as the "last nobleman", who has experienced ups and downs but maintained a lifetime of elegance.
After the death of her husband, she independently took on the responsibilities of the family and began to earn money to support the family, ensuring that the furnishings of the home were not degraded by the economic income. The following is a corner of Zheng Nian's former residence in the eyes of the people at the time:
"The outer windows are covered by canvas tents, the balconies are draped with green beaded curtains, the curtains are stacked on top of each other, and the bookshelves along the walls are neatly lined with ancient and modern Chinese and foreign classics."
She once proudly told her friends that although her residence was not called a beautiful house, it was also quiet and elegant.
When Zheng Nian was 51 years old, he was unfortunately put in a prison cell on the charge of "false accusations" and was subjected to inhuman abuse and torture.
But even if she is in prison, she must do her best to arrange her life and living clean and comfortable.
She managed to borrow brooms and water from the guards, cleaned the entire cell, scrubbed the dusty glass windows, beat the saved rice into paste, and pasted the hand paper on the wall of the bed so that the bedding on the bed would not get dirty; she also borrowed needle and thread, sewed old towels into toilet mats...
It is not surprising that the nobility fed by the brocade and jade food is even more impressive, and it is even more impressive to be elegant in the dangerous and low places.
True aristocrats never attach themselves to favorable material conditions, but love themselves more in a harsh environment, not casual, not perfunctory, even if they are at the end of the road, they must maintain a clean and elegant wind bone.
Cleanliness is a character, but also an ability.
Vulgar women, even if they live in luxurious villas, have expensive furniture and decorations, they will not bring people a sense of luxury, but will only make people feel shallow and flashy.
And the noble woman, with her own pair of clever hands, no matter how simple and rude the place, will become beautiful and lovely because of her presence and arrival.
Noble women will keep their appearance clean
There is an old saying that "a woman is pleasing to herself."
Many women pay attention to the appearance before marriage, especially during the hot love period. Before each date, you have to carefully dress up before you come out to meet people.
After marriage, becoming a wife and mother, raising children, and taking care of housework takes up a lot of time, and some women lower their requirements for themselves and begin to be informal, everything from simple, even sloppy.
But I don't know that cleanliness is the bottom line for women to maintain a noble temperament. When the years bring youth away and you no longer pay attention to appearance, the crisis of marriage is slowly approaching you.
Some netizens complained, after getting married, they found that they married a wife who was both lazy and sloppy, she could not take a bath for three consecutive days, did not wash clothes for a week and did not wash her hair, and the socks were actually worn on the front and the back, making him have the urge to divorce every minute.
A woman's face can not be beautiful, and her figure can be non-standard, but her appearance must be clean.
Noble women, no matter what age they are in, no matter what state of life they are in, they always clean themselves up and are responsible for their external image.
The charm and demeanor of Lin Huiyin, the goddess of the Republic of China, exudes a noble and elegant temperament, regardless of whether before or after marriage.
When she was studying abroad, she dressed intricate fashion: her hair was meticulous, her shoes were spotless, and she was once praised by an American girl as "like a fine piece of porcelain."
After getting married, she always liked to wear a well-fitting cheongsam in her life, which was simple and elegant; when she went to school to teach English literature to students, she changed into a suit and wore coffee-colored high heels on her feet, modern and fashionable.
Even if she is tormented by pneumonia and seriously ill, she will not wear clothes indiscriminately, and the bean-green silk coat sets off her pale and cool face, and the charm is still the same, and the charm is not reduced.
The gauge is the business card of a woman walking. The elegant connotation of a woman is reflected in her appearance and demeanor; the noble temperament of a woman is reflected in her words.
Noble women all pay attention to the cleanliness of their appearance, but they never follow the trend, but have their own pursuits and tastes, always maintaining decent clothing, exquisite makeup, elegant conversation, and a meticulous attitude towards beauty.
Noble women will keep their souls clean
A person's external temperament is a comprehensive embodiment of education, self-cultivation and good nature.
True nobility lies in the soul. When the heart is pure, it is beautiful.
When Audrey Hepburn is mentioned, the first thing that comes to mind is her clear and charming eyes and sunny smile.
In fact, Audrey Hepburn's inner world with the power of meditation is the root of her independent aristocratic temperament.
Hepburn is attentive in everything he does: when he tries on clothes, he concentrates on trying on clothes; when he reads, he concentrates on reading; he never does like others, smoking and eating sandwiches while getting their hair.
Even after guiwei, she still treats each role seriously and religiously: working 16 hours a day, learning to ride a horse, coming into contact with lepers, and even being bruised in order to play a blind girl.
People with pure hearts and clean souls always understand what they want, know what they want to do, understand their strengths and not be arrogant, but be diligent and focused on doing themselves well.
In addition to her beautiful countenance and graceful posture, another aura that hangs over Audrey Hepburn, the angel of the world, is her uninhibited, enterprising and pure heart.
At the age of 59, Audrey Hepburn officially served as a UNICEF Goodwill Ambassador and embarked on a new journey to save children.
Just like chasing her dreams when she was young, she went all out, did not hype her reputation, did not shout empty slogans, and made it her duty to help others, and until the last moment of her life, she still cared about the children who were still suffering.
A noble woman, indifferent to fame and fortune, with a humble heart of benevolence. They are not in a hurry to make quick profits, nor do they flaunt and flaunt themselves. No matter at any time, whether they are people or doing things, they are selfless and open-minded.
Clean and the best look for a woman:
In addition, whether it is the environment, the living room or the manners, the makeup, are simple and simple, generous and decent, do not have to be magnificent, do not need to wear heavy makeup, and never change is the pursuit of beauty and the yearning for quality life;
Inside, be the most frank self, regardless of age, money, regardless of appearance, always maintain the purity and tranquility of the heart, even in the world, through the wind and frost tribulations, still have a good and kind mind about the world and the future.
A woman, the more noble, the cleaner.
May the rest of your life, both inside and outside, be a clean woman: not only have a good-looking skin bag, but also pursue a beautiful and noble soul with its own fragrance.
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