After three weeks, Li Lianglei sent a long article again accusing Wang Lihong late at night.
The main point of this long complaint is only three things.
First, accuse Wang Lihong of being inconsistent in his appearance and continuing to attack himself on the Internet;
Second, Wang Lihong brought people home, threatening the safety of himself and his children;
Third, the dispute with By2.
Li Lianglei, who is regarded by everyone as the "God of Lei", can not tell three things bluntly, but once again sprinkles thousands of words in a foreign language, and writes everything in a thrilling, fearful, and awe-inspiring in justice.
In Li Lianglei's pen, what kind of person is Wang Lihong?
"Powerful public figure", "despicable". After exhausting all kinds of means to slander and slander herself and threaten herself, the child was scared to cry, and it also made her "shake her hands until she couldn't stop at night."
It can be said that Wang Lihong is unforgivable, and Li Lianglei's orphaned and widowed mother has been bullied.
(i)
In every long text, the child is li Lianglei's focus, and it is still the same today, and every word is not separated from the child.
In her opinion, everything she does is for the sake of the child, for the sake of the child.
Li Lianglei has two appeals:
First, make proper arrangements for your child's physical and mental health.
Second, to ensure the quality of life of children.
The first point is long gone, and the second point is material needs.
Throughout the process, Li Lianglei downplayed the second point and magnified the first point. Because the second point is not difficult to guarantee, in fact, it is a matter of the distribution of benefits, in Li Lianglei's view, if these are mentioned excessively, it is easy to be led by the nose, so she knows how to avoid risks. The first point is to start from the perspective of a mother, easily attract sympathy, and be able to win the support of public opinion for herself from the moral high ground.
And how did Li Lianglei do it?
First, when their marriage breaks down, there is no guarantee of the first point. This is an objective environment that will not allow children to have a good growth environment. Of course, Li Lianglei has her own method, that is, to try to maintain the emotional relationship between Wang Lihong and the child. Such as saying that Dad is good, letting Wang Lihong video call with children and so on. Of course, this is only a temporary method, not a long-term solution. Because the truth will eventually be revealed.
As Wang Lihong continued to "harass" them, in Li Lianglei's article, Wang Lihong also exposed the appearance of the child, so that in Li Lianglei's view, the child was involved in this divorce storm. She said it was something she didn't want to see. I hope that the child can return to the original peaceful life.
In this way, it is a bit self-deceptive. For the objectively affected is not shaken by subjective will. So there are the words that follow.
(ii)
After the child was involved in the storm, she had two worries about the child Li Lianglei.
First, children continue to grow up in an environment of mental violence and unprotected physical and mental health at such a young age.
Second, how should children face the news on the Internet when they grow up.
The occurrence of the first point indicates that Li Lianglei's previous appeal for the first point can no longer be realized. And the second point is something to be faced no matter what.
Of course, Li Lianglei also has her own statement.
Li Lianglei talked a lot about her children's education. She believes that she must cultivate her child's strong psychological quality and resilience, stand up on her own strength, and psychological quality is also a thing that her family has always attached importance to, so she believes that her children will be able to face what happens physically and mentally in the future.
That is to say, according to Li Lianglei, everything is to let the children face their own burdens. Because objectively things have happened, they can't sway, so they can only face it calmly and bravely. Whether she can face it is another matter, but Li Lianglei believes in children.
The argument about the child can indeed resonate and sympathize with many people, but in fact, it has no effect, because in the end, the child himself has to face it. As a parent, it is to assist in companionship, and can no longer be hurt, so for Wang Lihong's various words and deeds, Li Lianglei believes that she is hurting her children.
(iii)
After today's long talk, there is still no real hammer landing.
Later, after Wang Lihong's brokerage company responded, Li Lianglei posted again that if Wang Lihong agreed, she would release evidence.
However, nearly a month has passed and has not landed, so it is only consuming the patience of the public again and again.
There have been a lot of anti-phagocytic remarks on the Internet, Li Lianglei's current situation is embattled, and the direction of public opinion is quietly changing.
In the eyes of the public, Li Lianglei is using the public opinion offensive to seek her own interests, and even if these interests are considered to be her own deserved, they are also the purpose, saying that it is for the quality of life of the child, but how to ensure that it is not a matter of money? The most critical problem, the custody of the child has not yet been put in place, has not yet been resolved through the judiciary, such a problem has no practical significance, but for the sake of the second half of their own life, get enough money, even in Li Lianglei's view, this money is also deserved. For other problems are just excuses.
Here the child is pushed to the cusp of the storm for no reason, which is inevitable, and both husband and wife have an unshirkable responsibility. One party cannot simply be blamed, but needs to be resolved through negotiation or recourse to justice.
The problem of children should not be put on the surface to talk about the solution, the focus is on solving private problems, disputes, that is, whether there is a betrayal of marriage, as well as the distribution of divorce benefits, etc., only these are controllable, and for other public opinion is uncontrollable.