A few days ago, Uncle Oxy brushed the news of the marriage of a Japanese sumo wrestler and found that the wife of the sumo wrestler in the picture was still quite beautiful.
It is said that this girl is the daughter of the sumo wrestler's master, belongs to the sumo wrestling family, and has also worked as an actor in the Takarazuka Opera Troupe before, with a small head, a small face and a long neck, and a unique temperament to sit there.
Then I found out that the role of "the wife of a Japanese sumo wrestler" was surprisingly "full of beautiful women".
Few people associate "beauty" in the traditional sense with sumo wrestling, but looking back at the wives of every Japanese sumo wrestler, you will find that no matter what their status and profession, they can almost be called "beautiful", standing with their husbands, and have a strange atmosphere of beauty and beasts on both sides.
I see a platform netizen once commented on this: "How beautiful women can't think like this", but an information difference is: in Japan, "marrying a sumo wrestler" is something that thousands of girls dream of.
Even sometimes the Japanese public will think that roles such as celebrities and flight attendants are not worthy of sumo wrestlers, and that Bai Fumei and sumo wrestlers are also the right ones to be good.
Japan's popular sumo wrestler was photographed falling in love with the second daughter of a sumo wrestler
Previously, when the Japanese popular actress Riki Miyazawa and the 65th generation yokozuna (the most powerful dan) in the history of Japanese sumo wrestling were engaged (later did not marry), some netizens said that "Miyazawa Rie is not worthy of Guinaka".
Rie Miyazawa...
So... It turns out that in Japan, such a beautiful woman who wants to marry a sumo wrestler will be picked and chosen???
But why do Japanese beauties still have such a mate orientation?
Today Shu will take you from the perspective of reality, re-observe this slightly peculiar aesthetic of mate selection, perhaps this article will slightly refresh your mate selection standards.
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The beautiful wives of sumo wrestlers
A big condition is that because of the importance of sumo wrestling and the degree of national fanaticism, sumo wrestlers have a very high social status and a very high income.
This makes sumo wrestlers very popular in the mate market, and there will be various marriages with the art world and so on.
"Sumo Fan Girl"
But when you look at the looks of at least 10 or so sumo wrestler wives and gossipy girlfriends, they only prefer two specific types of styles: soft jade face and dignified wife face.
Riki Miyazawa, who is in love with Guinaka, is the first type, with a rounded face structure, a short atrium, apricot eyes, and an overall juvenile state, and when she first debuted, she was a jade idol.
She and the national idol Kanohana met when they were very young, when they even had the news of the engagement, when Miyazawa Riki loved Guinaka so much that she did not look away from Guinaka in all the photos.
But love can't stand the impact of reality.
On the one hand, Guinohana's social status is extremely high, and there are reports that the sumo family behind him is not optimistic about his "useless" relationship with Riki Miyazawa;
On the other hand, Miyazawa's mother was constantly a demon, fearing that she would lose her financial resources after her daughter got married and retired, and entrusted others to persuade Miyazawa Toki to cancel the marriage contract.
After breaking up with Riki Miyazawa, Kinohana married her host, Keiko Kono.
Compared with Miyazawa Riki, Keiko Kono's obvious jaw twist lines, narrow face, straight nose, and slightly longer atrium, but her eyes are straight, which makes her face style more dignified, more like the appearance of a virtuous wife expected by a large family.
Also sumo wives of the same kind of virtuous wife are Chiba Arishina, the daughter of a sumo master, who married the well-known sumo wrestler Ōseki Takayoshi, and after announcing her marriage, she completely suspended her work and devoted herself to the family.
By the way, her mother-in-law also looks like a completely virtuous wife, next to her husband.
Generally speaking, the more high-ranking sumo wrestlers are, the more interference he suffers in the choice of mate, the greater the demand for "door-to-door pairs", and the more the aesthetics of mate selection tend to converge.
Like Chiba Akina and Ōseki Takayoshi, it is in the hearts of the Japanese people that they are extremely matched, and langcai is a woman.
The wife of the 69th generation Yokozuna Bai Pengxiang is a beautiful and rich consortium of thousands of gold, and she is still dignified.
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Aesthetics of mate selection influenced by realities
Therefore, since they are rich and good-looking, and their love will be examined, why would these beautiful women not marry sumo wrestlers?
Here we need to ask you a question: Do you think that in the aesthetic of mate selection, beauty is really the first element?
In fact, sometimes realistic factors can influence aesthetics more.
First, the aesthetic of mate selection that has been changed to meet substantive needs
At the beginning, we said that sumo wrestlers have a very high social status and wealth, which is the real need to influence the aesthetics of mate selection.
While this sounds cheesy, it is indeed an extremely advantageous hard condition in the mate market. (Both sexes will look at this condition)
Sumo wrestlers earn a fixed monthly salary of 2.82 million yen, in addition to countless sponsors and advertising endorsement fees.
One year, The Japanese Yokozuna player paid more than 1 billion yen for the advertising endorsement of the Year of the Green Dragon.
He remarried last year
In addition, this profession is extremely popular in Japan, and the fanatical sumo culture makes sumo wrestlers more sought after than star artists, and they can be noticed by the emperor and the prime minister, and they are surrounded everywhere they go, which is also incomparable to the simple "rich".
I remember that there was a line in "Love Myth" that was "rich and idle, husband is missing".
There is something similar about this statement in the mate-choosing situation of sumo wives.
Because of professional reasons, sumo wrestlers need to gain weight, most of the players will overdraft their physical health early, Japan has statistics that their average life expectancy has been lower than 57 years old, high status, high income, high heritage...
For this reason, the wives of most sumo wrestlers have high hopes.
The public hopes that since they have gained, they can also do a good job of helping them control their health, and have a good image that is dignified and generous enough to be worthy of the status of "national hand".
High emotional stability, high easy-going, and high conscientiousness, which also explains why sumo wives are mostly soft jade women's faces and dignified virtuous wives' faces.
In the aesthetic of mate selection, we cannot throw away the realistic components required for this mutual extraction, and talk about beauty and feelings alone.
Second, the aesthetic of mate selection that changes to meet emotional values
In addition to being affected by substantive needs, the aesthetic of mate selection will also be affected by "emotional value".
This thing sounds very vain and unrealistic at all, but it also brings a big plus in the absence of "material".
As an example, Japanese monks are also superior in their aesthetic of mate selection (there are really many strange things in Japan).
Yes, Japanese monks can get married, but the point is not on monks, the point is that Japanese women like to marry monks.
Although monks cannot meet the substantive needs like sumo wrestlers, the monk's profession makes Japanese women think that "they will not cheat, they are extremely loyal, they have a gentle personality", which is the aura of mate selection given to them by emotional values.
By the way, they are still civil servants and have a stable job
Social statistics show that compared with men, women are more likely to be affected by emotional values and interested in the opposite sex, and women are more likely than men to pay less attention to each other's appearance because they have good personality labels.
This point is also well verified from the mate selection of Japanese actresses, and funny male artists are also popular.
And the sumo wrestlers we mentioned earlier, because of the small training, family discipline, social constraints, most of them are also very loving wives and children, which belongs to the substantive needs and emotional value of the two ends, the mate's demand for their beauty can be greatly reduced.
When choosing a mate, it is actually very important to recognize your first needs.
If beauty is valued, then make a trade-off between reality and emotional value; Valuing value, then adjust the emphasis on other options according to your purpose.
There's nothing wrong with talking about value, whether it's money or emotions.
Why men can generously say "partners who like to be teachers because they can take on the burden of family responsibilities, and they can take care of children when they are not busy... And women will feel ashamed when they are sober and realistic to choose?
In the process of mate selection, I think that "knowing what you want, and knowing what you have, and daring to make choices" is the best way to make your aesthetic not easily affected by others.