Faye Wong, the diva of the Chinese music scene, has countless popular songs.
Compared with the musical path of singing all the way, Faye Wong in terms of feelings has experienced many ups and downs.
Before and after, she has experienced three relationships, and there are countless points and combinations, and now, she has two daughters, Dou Jingtong and Li Yan.
Although it is Faye Wong's genes, the two daughters are very different.
In the 90s of the last century, the Black Panther band rose up, performing in bars and other places, which attracted many people, including Dou Wei.
He loves to write songs, he loves to sing, and he loves rock and roll.
Dou Wei was performing in a small venue, he watched the people in the audience clap their hands and applaud, and the smile on his face could not be suppressed, and there was another person, Guo Chuanlin, who also noticed him.
Guo Chuanlin wanted Dou Wei to enter the Black Panther Band and serve as the lead singer, and Dou Wei looked at the other party's fierce eyes and thought about agreeing again and again.
Becoming a member of the Black Panther Band, Dou Wei performed more, became famous, and recognized Faye Wong.
It's just that at that time, Faye Wong was still in love with the keyboard player in the team, but unfortunately the good times were not long, and the two quickly separated.
Shortly after this, Faye Wong formally met Dou Wei, and in 1996, the two were officially married, and a year later, her daughter Dou Jingtong was born.
But after marriage is not much sweet, Faye Wong is famous, the itinerary is more and more, there is no time to see Dou Jingtong at home, and Dou Wei because rock and roll began to decline at that time, there was no performance, and could only take care of Dou Jingtong at home.
Gathering less and leaving more makes the feelings between the two people more and more weak, and meeting is also an endless quarrel. Finally, in 1999, the two went to divorce.
At the time of the divorce, Faye Wong competed for dou jingtong's custody, and finally, as she wished, dou jingtong followed her.
However, Faye Wong had many trips and performances, and there was no time to take care of her, so Dou Jingtong was placed in her grandmother's house and lived with her aunt.
The aunt also loves music very much, singing and humming every day, under the influence of the aunt, Dou Jingtong gradually became curious about singing.
She often followed her aunt, learning the way she was, humming the minor tunes of songs.
As for her father Dou Wei, Faye Wong did not want her daughter to see him.
On the mother's side, Faye Wong met Nicholas Tse, and the two of them divided and merged for three years, and broke up again in 2003.
Dou Jingtong didn't know why her mother was so entangled with a man, she didn't understand, and she didn't want to understand it immediately.
In 2005, Faye Wong and Li Yapeng got married, and Dou Jingtong immediately went from one home to another.
From being cared for by his grandmother and aunt, calling it a familiar home, to a strange home, Li Yapeng was very good to Dou Jingtong.
Although he was not biological, Li Yapeng did put himself in Dou Jingtong's shoes.
When it was time to go to school, Li Yapeng wanted Dou Jingtong to go to the best school.
In order to go to a good school, Li Yapeng walked around Beijing, preferably stopping in front of a school, he wanted to see the principal, but he could only wait, he paced in the cold wind, one step or two, and then looked up at the school gate from time to time, his eyes were full of anxiety and anxiety.
After waiting for three hours, the school gate slowly opened, Li Yapeng saw the principal, and after some telling, Dou Jingtong finally entered the good school.
But after only a month of schooling, Dou Jingtong felt bored, she felt that there was no interest in school, there was nothing she was pursuing.
So she consulted with her mother again, and Faye Wong's first reaction was not to agree, but looking at Dou Jingtong's firm eyes, she still chose to obey her daughter's will.
After a while, the parents went from school to school, hoping to find a new school for Dou Jingtong.
After that, Dou Jingtong went to the new school, but it was not long before she wanted to drop out of school again. "I don't want to read anymore." One day, Dou Jingtong said to his parents.
Faye Wong had supported Dou Jingtong's ideas countless times, but she still felt incredible.
"I want to go abroad, I want to make music", Dou Jingtong's words made Faye Wong and Li Yapeng not know how to continue, even the family knew.
The family members felt that Dou Jingtong was going to enter the entertainment circle, and dou Jingtong was warned at both ends of the three days.
However, the family's rotation did not repel, but instead strengthened his inner thoughts, looking at Dou Jingtong's undead heart, Wang Feisuo agreed with her idea, and the parents quickly gave Dou Jingtong a foreign formality in the class.
At that time, Dou Jingtong had not yet cut his short hair, and he had long dark hair and a childish face.
But despite this, Faye Wong's discipline of her is still very strict, and when she plays outside, Faye Wong will call or send a message to Dou Jingtong and ask her to hurry home.
"Don't forget the access time".
Even once, Dou Jingtong and the boy went out to play, and as a result, they were photographed and immediately appeared in the gossip tabloids, and This matter Faye Wong also knew.
Dou Jingtong also successfully received a warning from his mother.
Later, Dou Jingtong officially began to make music, and at the same time she began to dye her hair, get tattoos on her body, cut her hair short, and appeared in front of the public again and again, all labeled as rebellious.
But she would also go to her father's shop to help when she was fine, dress modestly, and ask the guests what to order.
Even if the guest asks for boiling water, Dou Jingtong will carefully ask whether it is cold water or warm water.
She is rebellious, but also has an unknown care.
In the marriage of Faye Wong and Li Yapeng, they also have a new little life.
When Faye Wong learned that she was pregnant, she was very happy, she wanted to give birth to the child, and her faith would not let her throw the child away.
"What do you think?"
"Don't you want it yet?"
Faye Wong listened to Li Yapeng's words and asked rhetorically, seeing Faye Wong ask like this, Li Yapeng did not have the following, thinking that since this was the case, she would start preparing for pregnancy.
On the day of Faye Wong's birth, it alarmed a lot of media, and many reporters and paparazzi were outside, wanting to get the news of the first-hand baby.
Li Yan was born, which made Faye Wong and Li Yapeng very happy, but soon found out that something was wrong, Li Yan had congenital cleft lip and palate.
This is not a good thing for the family.
But the first problem is to silence the reporter. In order not to let the reporter see the child, even the family rarely sees Li Yan.
In order to treat the child, the two people did not hesitate to spend energy and time, but also to treat Li Yan.
But there were still reporters who knew about the matter and were making a big report, and soon Faye Wong and Li Yapeng's friends came out to speak.
Kids are good, you. Li Yapeng looked at the friends who defended the child, and his heart was warm.
After all, they have not yet met the child and believe that the child is perfect. But the reality is not.
In order to be able to change emotions and take better care of Li Yan, Faye Wong and Li Yapeng also enrolled in classes to study.
Day after day, Li Yapeng and Faye Wong accepted the child, "God gave you this scar, and I will make this scar your glory."
"I think she's beautiful."
When Li Yan was three months old, she flew abroad for an operation, and in October, she had another operation.
And it is Li Yan's condition that makes the two have new ideas, they set up the Yanran Angel Fund, they want to get out of the predicament for more patients with cleft lip and palate.
Smile again.
For the activities of the fund, her parents do not force Li Yan to participate, only when Li Yan wants to participate, they will take her.
Once, Li Yan and Dou Jingtong walked to the high mountain together, Li Yan had altitude sickness, and her small face became red and fluttering, but she still wanted to go forward with an excited face.
In normal times, Faye Wong and Li Yapeng would take Li Yan to climb the mountain and watch Li Yan stride like an enclave rushing in front, and they knew that their daughter's self-confidence was cultivating little by little.
Even, Li Yan will participate in the catwalk with the encouragement of her parents, although the scars are not complete, but her eyes are full of confidence.
It's just that the family of four fell apart in 2013, and Li Yan followed her father Li Yapeng, and since then, Faye Wong has rarely seen Li Yan.
Li Yapeng took Li Yan to live with her mother.
This is a divorce, Li Yapeng expressed great sadness, "too much failure, did not give Li Yan a complete home."
Without the company of his mother, Li Yapeng was even more attentive to Li Yan's education, and he never scolded Li Yan.
Li Yan studied with the teacher, and after a period of time there will be a music theory exam, Li Yan signed up to take it, and vowed that she would definitely pass.
But the result was not as good as Li Yan thought, she did not want to take the test again, "I don't take the test", Li Yan returned home and said to her father sullenly.
Dad listened, did not refute but went along with the words, "If you don't want to take the test, then we won't take the test, anyway, you tried your best."
When it was time to eat in the evening, Li Yapeng suddenly talked about his own affairs, "I passed the exam this time, I can pass the exam by one point, I scored eighty-nine points, and I recently have to read books again."
Li Yan did not pay too much attention to her father's words until the next day when she saw that her father was indeed reading.
Li Yapeng went to the examination again, and when the results came down, Li Yapeng had a bottom in his heart, looked at the results, and passed with full marks.
He was very happy in his heart, and when he ate with his daughter, his smile increased.
"People always have to try to know how many possibilities there are, I know that you have not passed the music theory exam this time, you do not want to take the test, it does not matter, there will always be countless abandonments in life." 」
Li Yan listened to her father's comfort, and her head nodded slightly, indicating that she agreed with her father's idea.
"But you're only 12 years old, and you want to give up for the first time so early?"
Listening to her father's questioning, Li Yan was blinded, and she ate with her head down and did not speak.
Until the next day, Li Yan's grandmother happily found Li Yapeng, "Today Li Yan and the teacher said that there will be another music theory exam, which is really good."
And Faye Wong will also take some time to see Li Yan, eat and shop, although the opportunity to meet is small, but grasp the time of each meeting.
When she was 13 years old, Li Yan went to study abroad, and in order to better take care of Li Yan, her grandmother also went with her.
At school, she made friends and became more confident, daring to laugh, perhaps because she was away for a long time, Faye Wong and Li Yapeng missed their children very much.
On birthdays, we will always get together and spend a full birthday party with Li Yan.
When he returned to China, Dou Jingtong would also meet his sister, although it was a divorced family, but the family tried to make him feel the warmth of home.
However, perhaps the rare meeting still makes Li Yan and her mother Wang Fei have a gap in their hearts.
Li Yan entered adolescence, Faye Wong took Li Yan out to play, Faye Wong and her friends said very happy, but Li Yan was not very interested.
And Dou Jingtong, still insisting on making her favorite music, and her achievements have been mentioned countless times, compared with her mother Faye Wong.
Whether it can surpass Faye Wong, or whether it is the same as Faye Wong's style.
"After all, I was born to her."
For this question, Dou Jingtong was not annoyed, but just smiled and replied.
There are performances outside, and the audience under the stage is louder than one, some praise, some booing, and some want to play another song.
"Sing a song by Faye Wong" "Yes, come to a song by Faye Wong".
Dou Jingtong looked at the stage, there was no atmosphere, but often opened her mother's song, perhaps she did not understand her mother, but in her growth, she slowly understood her mother.
When a reporter asked about his mother's love affair, Dou Jingtong only replied lightly, "She is happy."
She knows that her mother is overworked for her career and for herself, so why can't she seek her own happiness?
She would participate in the show because of her mother's words, Dou Jingtong sang on the stage, and Faye Wong was very excited below, waving her hands and smiling on her face.
When the host called to the stage, Faye Wong couldn't wait to go on stage, she hugged her daughter, she looked at her daughter, listened to her daughter's song, and felt proud of her daughter.
On the stage, Faye Wong hugged Dou Jingtong and jokingly called "big sister" and "so comfortable". The relationship between the two is mother and daughter, but also sisters.
Dou Jingtong also began to get involved in the film and television circle, for better results, Dou Jingtong was slapped by Zhou Xun, a footage of more than a dozen shots.
In the end, Zhou Xun's hands were numb, and Dou Jingtong's face was also numb and swollen, "Dou Jingtong is a person with a high double quotient."
Many people say this about her.
Dou Jingtong and Li Yan, although they are both daughters of Faye Wong, take the exact opposite route.
Dou Jingtong bears the love of her parents and the sight of people, she is rebellious and equally humble, she uses her own songs to comfort others and become the pride of her mother.
Although Li Yan also bears the eyes of everyone, there are mockery and curiosity in it, and the cleft lip and palate once made her parents very worried.
But Faye Wong loves her, and love makes Li Yan become cheerful and confident.
It's not a different life, but everyone's life has its own wonderful points.