In my lifetime, I am happy to meet each other, click "Attention" above to write more warm stories together.
Hu Jun and his wife Lu Fang
Under the trend of this material supremacy era, Mr. Yang Dai once reminded young friends:
The most important thing in the union of men and women is the feelings, the degree of mutual understanding between the two sides, and the depth of understanding in order to attract, support and encourage each other, and the two are happy with each other.
Indeed, in this materialistic world, most people talk about feelings first think of the material, not whether the two people are really like-minded, often after the impulse to leave a chicken feather, feelings come fast, go fast, especially in the entertainment industry, the flower world, every day breakup, divorce news is not tolerated.
However, there are also those who are loyal and loyal, such as Hu Jun and Lu Fang.
Hu Jun
01 A sense of superiority that does not exist
When it comes to Hu Jun's name, the first person familiar with it may be the "tough guy".
Yes, Hu Jun, who was born in a military art family since childhood, also has a deep affection for the word "tough guy".
Hu Jun's father Hu Baoshan is a baritone singer, his mother is a drama actor, his uncle Hu Songhua is a famous tenor singer, Hu Jun is the son of the family hospital, from an early age his father was particularly strict with him, and he can be said to have been beaten up by his father.
In the eyes of outsiders, he was born in an enviable family, and should have a sense of superiority that was different from ordinary people, but Hu Jun did not.
Stills from Hu Jun's "Changjin Lake"
Hu Jun said that his father's generation was nothing comparable to him, and their honor would not extend to his head.
In his own words: "You are not them, what is superior" It is this low profile and sobriety that makes Hu Jun very successful in his career and family business;
In his career, he transformed from a drama actor to a film and television actor, in the film and television dramas such as "Tianlong Babu", "Chibi", "Zhu Yuanzhang", "Golden Wedding Wind and Rain", "Chu Han Fengyun", "October Siege", "Like Sparks Like Butterflies", "Chosin Lake" to the popular "Snow In the Sword Line" and other film and television dramas,
His image of an iron-blooded tough guy with superb acting skills and domineering style is deeply loved by the audience, and he has been named a national first-class actor, won the Audience's Favorite Actor of the China Television Golden Eagle Award, and the Best Actor Award of the Macao International Film Festival.
Xiao Feng stills
Compared with Hu Jun's fame, his wife Lu Fang is like "no one in the film and television circle".
In fact, she is a very good drama actress, before Hu Jun became famous,
She is already a proper heroine on the drama stage.
02 Bonding
Lu Fang was born in the south of Caiyun, where the temperature is constant in all seasons, the flowers and fruits are evergreen, and it is very livable, and Lu Fang, who grew up here since childhood, is also beautiful and moving.
Lu Fang's life photos
Lu Fang is four years younger than Hu Jun, her parents work in the choir, and under their influence, she has also been interested in art since she was a child.
Later, he was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama and became Hu Jun's little sister.
However, during the school period, the two did not have too much intersection, one is that Lu Fang is three years younger than Hu Jun, and the other is that Hu Jun in the school is a prominent figure.
At that time, he not only had a good family, good study, uninhibited personality and handsome appearance were deeply loved by his classmates, coupled with strong appeal, he was elected as the class leader, and he played the male number one in the graduation drama, which was the male god in the hearts of the girls.
Hu Jun and his daughter Jiujiu
But fate is sometimes fantastic.
After graduation, Hu Jun was assigned to renyi, which is the highest temple of Chinese drama, and naturally there are talents.
In the first few years of entering the art of renyi, Hu Jun could only run the dragon suit, seeing that his classmates Jiang Shan, He Bing, Xu Fan and others had taken on very good roles, and he was not even a supporting role, and he had some gaps in his heart.
However, he was not discouraged, convinced that things were man-made, and finally four years after he graduated, he ushered in a big drama and starred in the male number one in it.
Hu Jun Lu Fang
However, what Hu Jun did not expect was that he graduated four years before he won the opportunity to play the male lead.
And the little master sister who played with him was only graduated as a female number one, and he couldn't help but secretly admire.
In fact, as the big Qingyi of Beijing people's art, Lu Fang's fame is really not smaller than Hu Jun's.
She is Xiao Ding Bao in "The Tea House", the princess in "The Orphan of Zhao", Bai Ling in "White Deer Plain", Rui Jue in "Home", Linda in "Death of a Salesman", and "Antigone".
Stills from Antigone
Every role Played by Lu Fang received a wave of praise after the performance.
In addition to the light that blooms on the drama stage, what she admires more is that no matter how the outside world changes,
She has always adhered to the stage and her own theater world, and she is known as the Chinese version of "Ingrid Bauman", which is well deserved.
03 Like-minded
Lu Fang's obsession and dedication to drama also has hu jun, so the two have become their love work in the first cooperation "Military Train".
At the beginning of the meeting, Hu Jun looked at this little master sister with admiration, just thinking that it was because of her good luck.
However, the two rehearsed the play and found that the other party was a fool like himself, not only had his own cognition and insights but also was very good at acting.
And her cheerful and lively personality, coupled with a smile and bent eyebrows, made him feel like a spring breeze, and he found that he began to have different feelings for her.
So he began to change the law of dating Lu Fang, at that time Lu Fang did not lack people to pursue, because she is not only beautiful and good, the most important thing is to be generous and straightforward, and it is this that makes Hu Jun moved his heart.
Once, Hu Jun invited Lu Fang to dinner, and the two of them chatted while eating at a Korean barbecue stall, and the more they talked, the more they fell in love.
The excitement made Hu Jun can't help but want to drink a beer, so she asked the other party, "Can I have a drink?" ”
Lu Fang replied, "Of course." This generous personality was very appetizing to Hu Jun,But what he didn't expect was that he was drinking it himself, and Lu Fang suddenly said, "Can I have a bottle?" ”
Hu Jun was a little surprised, and quickly said: "Of course", so the two came and went, and one of them drank eight bottles, and they were not fully entertained.
At the celebration feast
Originally, Hu Jun thought that his alcohol consumption was not bad, but in the face of Lu Fang, this Yi girl,
He hadn't even drunk it, he had never seen such a bold girl before, and he said in his heart, "That's it." ”
After that, Hu Jun often invited Lu Fang to dinner, of course, every time it was indispensable to "cook wine on heroes",
Sometimes with the brothers and friends, Hu Jun also pulled Lu Fang up, and sometimes when he saw Hu Jun being overwhelmed by the brothers, Lu Fang helped him block the wine very morally, and no one could drink her.
In this way, Hu Jun and Lu Fang are like-minded, because of the drama, because of the wine, the two hearts are getting closer and closer.
The two then embarked on a four-year love affair.
In 1999, Hu Jun and Lu Fang went to the theater festival with their colleagues.
On the world-famous Roman Forum, by the Trevi Fountain, Hu Jun did a very brave and romantic thing.
Holding a large bouquet of blooming red roses in his hand, he knelt down like a knight and proposed to Lu Fang.
The crowd of people stopped to applaud them, and in the face of the sudden marriage proposal, Lu Fang was a little caught off guard.
She was happy and a little shy at the same time, and this scene reminded Lu Fang of the drama she starred in, "The Wedding of Figaro".
She looked at him affectionately, and as she took the rose in his hand, she said to him, "We must be as unwavering in our love as The Marriage of Figaro." ”
"Necessary" Hu Jun did not hesitate.
After the successful marriage proposal, they can't help but share the happiness of this moment with the world.
When Lu Fang first made a transoceanic phone call to her mother, she also quipped: "You should let him wait 3 months before agreeing." ”
Lu Fang said with some excitement: "I am afraid that he has repented." "There is no better love in the world than to go in both directions like this.
A family of four
On May 1, 1999, Lu Fang married Hu Jun.
After marriage, they were active on the drama stage together, although they were not in the same play,
But the two of them are filming upstairs and downstairs, they will often string each other upstairs and downstairs, look at each other, observe each other, and return home to discuss each other's roles together, and that sense of happiness is not something that words can express.
So even though they have been married for 22 years and have given birth to a son and a daughter, the feelings between them have not faded with the passage of time, but have become more and more intense.
In 2019, the family of four returned to the Roman Forum where they originally proposed marriage and took a group of family portraits.
In the photo, Lu Fang and Hu Jun are still as affectionate as they were then, but the difference is that they have changed from two people to four people.
On the day of the shooting, they threw a coin again next to the wishing fountain of the young girl who proposed marriage that year, which was particularly meaningful.
04 Happiness and happiness
20 years ago, that coin witnessed the happiness of their love, and 20 years later this coin witnessed the happiness of their marriage and family.
Still
Although both are obsessed with drama, after "Military Train", the two have hardly shared the stage.
Until 2018, the two once again performed "Hamlet" on the same stage.
In order to arrange this play, the two also began a "separation" life, because Hu Jun played "Hamlet" in the play, and Lu Fang played two roles, one is Hamlet's mother, and the other is his lover Ophelia.
If they are lovers, they need to have a process of relationship change, but they are husband and wife, and they are too familiar with each other in life, which will destroy the relationship between the characters and it is not easy to perform.
Hamlet stills
In order to maintain that sense of alienation, Hu Jun simply moved from home to the hotel.
Usually rehearsing and going to the theater, the two will go separately, and rarely discuss each other's roles.
This deliberate distancing does not end until the relationship between the two characters in the play is established.
Lu Fang and Hu Jun are envied not only by their marital feelings, but also by their relationship with their children.
Nine-Nine and Kang Kang
As we all know, Hu Jun is a proper "daughter slave",
Since the birth of his daughter Jiujiu, he has not hidden his love for his daughter on any occasion.
To what extent Hu Jun's love for his daughter, what clothes to wear when going out, what shoes to wear, he had to ask Jiujiu.
Under the influence of her parents, her daughter Jiujiu is not only aesthetically unique, but also has a good talent in music and drama.
In addition to his daughter, Hu Jun's love for his son Kang Kang has not been less, and he once said that he may have a preference for his daughter before.
But since he was on "Where Daddy Goes" with his son and spent more time with him, he has learned how to balance.
And Kang Kang is indeed very cute, I believe that people who watched their show are all fans of Kang Kang circle,
His "domineering president" style is a filial and gentle and sensible heart, and now he has grown into a man like his father.
Of course, since it is life, in addition to sweetness, there will also be stumbling.
In the more than twenty years of marriage between Lu Fang and Hu Jun, in addition to the favor of his wife and husband, there will also be times for quarrels.
But Hu Jun has his own set, whether right or wrong, he will be the first to apologize, this is his philosophy of doing things, bowing his head at home, is the wisdom of life.
When asked what is the secret to keeping marriage fresh for more than twenty years, he answered the most is habit.
Because they are used to each other, the other party has long been integrated into their own lives and become relatives, how to keep fresh? Just like your relationship with your parents, will you keep fresh with them?
I think this is also the reason, married life has already made the two people from lovers to relatives,
Although some details in life seem romantic to others, such as holiday blessings, an unexpected surprise, etc.,
These are their daily routines, so there is no such thing as keeping fresh or not keeping fresh, some are habits.
In fact, from Hu Jun's interview, when he talked about the relationship between husband and wife, the most mentioned was the common interests and hobbies of the two.
Back home with endless words, keep their individual, personality and hobbies, and temperament,
In short, it is to maintain relative independence, and each other will not let each other change for themselves because they are husband and wife.
So they can be new every day.
Lu Fang also shared her simple happiness:
Every day I rehearse home, a few small dishes, a little bit of ease, and my husband pushes cups and cups, chats, chats, chats, and talks about drama.
This kind of picture, think about it is beautiful, this atmosphere should not be every home,
Because they are like-minded, because they love drama, they have become confidants in life, with endless words and endless feelings.
Mr. Yang Dai said, "The most important thing between husband and wife is the friendship relationship, even if they can't be close friends.
It should also be a friend who can be a partner or a partner who respects each other. It doesn't matter if the door is right or the other. ”
Deeply believed, may you meet people with the same three views and like-minded people as soon as possible,
Achieve each other and embark on a romantic journey until the end of your life.
Wen | one by one
Image source network, if infringement please contact to delete, thank you.