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In real life, each of us, rich or poor, has troubles, but the troubles are different; trifles at work, physical ailments, emotional bumps... All kinds of worries, one after another, sometimes pressing the gourd to raise the scoop. I can't shake it off even if I want to, and these worries seem to follow like shadows. Can't help but sigh: life is nine times out of ten, it is not satisfactory. Even the extravagant poet Xin Shuyi lamented in "He Groom , Re-Endowment with Former Rhymes": "Sighing life, unsatisfactory things, ten times eight nine." ”
So why do people always feel unsatisfactory? Is it true that in life, there are more annoying things than happy things?
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I was recently reading the book Winner Minds by Chris Parkman, a neuroscientist. From the book, it seems that people can see the answer.
He said that people's lives are always accompanied by happiness and troubles (or unsatisfactory) things, but many people have such a tendency, always dismiss the beauty they have in life, pay attention to things they do not have, are particularly true to negative things, like to aim at the unpleasant things that happen every day, have to discuss the ugly and ugly at the tip of the needle, and compete endlessly for their own mistakes and omissions.
Oh, it's not the lack of happiness in life, it's the lack of a heart to feel happy.
Think about it carefully, our daily work, life, is more happy or more troublesome, I think most of the time is plain, there is no special thing worth being happy, there is nothing special frustrating and annoying, most of them do their daily work step by step, seemingly repeating yesterday's story. It is probably this "repetition" that weakens our ability to feel life.
In fact, a bland day is also a happy day, at least "today" is the youngest day in the rest of our lives, at least we can still dream of the future.
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Of course, looking for happiness is not to let us not correct the "bad" things, nor to correct the "mistakes", nor to ignore the pits we have stepped on. Just don't keep your eyes on the bad "bad" side of life, and when the mood is bad, look for the good, happy side of life.
As the book Winner Minds says, risks in life arise for no other reason than to never be satisfied with one's own progress or to be dissatisfied with one's own gains.
Don't forget to laugh after crying, and if you feel that life is troublesome, don't forget to remind yourself to be happy!