After the "weak" fox and the "strong" deer heard the barking of the dog...

The Seventh Division said

The old pattern is terrible. The old horse can make us familiar with the road and not squint, or it may make us turn a blind eye to change and ignore opportunities and possibilities in a diversified world!

Once, a fox came across a deer in the forest.

The fox said to the deer, "You make me wonder, why are you so timid?" Even the smallest hound can scare you away.

Take a hard look at yourself, tall, don't you have the strength? Even if it's a big dog, no matter how strong it is, you just have to use your two horns to make sure it's on all fours.

People must know the cowardice and incompetence of our foxes, because we lack the ability to fight other animals. But as a tall deer like you, when you encounter an enemy, you should not give in, which is self-evident.

I can say with certainty that whoever is stronger and more powerful than his enemy does not have to hide from the enemy. So, friend, you shouldn't run away, you're far better than those dogs. ”

The deer was very happy to hear this and said, "Really, why didn't I think of it before?" From now on, I will move forward courageously. If the dogs and hunters attack me again, I must resist to the end. ”

As soon as the words stopped, the hunters appeared nearby with their hounds. The sound of the dog's "clanging" echoed in the forest from time to time, and the "weak" fox and the "strong" deer immediately fled.

Editor: I have to say that the fox's analysis is still very adult and rational. After listening to the fox's words, the deer also began to face up to its own advantages and became enthusiastic. Unfortunately, when the dog's "purr" sounded, it immediately forgot its advantages and immediately fell into fear of the dog.

In real life, we are often like foxes and deer, in ordinary times, or when encountering small things, the performance is very adult rationality, once we encounter a major impact on life, encounter a major turning point, we forget our current self, we have a tall body like a "deer", and a brain beyond childhood wisdom..... Instead, he loses his mind and deals with problems like a little baby.

Thus, ta theory holds that if one can slow down one's response to others and the outside world and maintain adult self-awareness, one can jump out of the old pattern and rewrite one's own script.

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