Throw the question first! When a marriage ends in failure, it is often the woman who is hurt more.
In contrast, Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong's 8-year-long broken marriage, Li Lianglei seems to be a victor, personally tearing Up Wang Lihong.
But in fact, she is a loser, the one who is hurt the most.
The pressure of Li Lianglei is coming, Wang Lihong is about to get out, and 3 principle issues are waiting for her to solve!
Where is the pressure on Li Lianglei? What principled questions does she need to address?
First of all, these problems have nothing to do with the public, have nothing to do with Wang Lihong's influence, and have nothing to do with friends and family. Li Lianglei's pressure comes from Wang Lihong, a father of three children.
Private matters have nothing to do with hand-torn marriages, which is the most embarrassing existence of every woman when dealing with marital problems. On the other hand, Wang Lihong, since he has lost everything, what else cannot be lost? He lives alone to solve the problem, and the most he can do is to do a little father's responsibility in the future life.
But Li Lianglei is different, as a woman, living with three children, even if she enters a new relationship, she also needs to live with Wang Lihong's three children.
Therefore, Li Lianglei is facing 3 important problems that need to be solved.
The first problem that Li Lianglei needs to solve is the core of the custody of three children, as Wang Lihong said earlier, he will raise three children with her. It can be seen that they will deal peacefully with this issue, but as for the details of how to pay the maintenance fee and how to distribute the custody, it is obvious that there is a controversial issue between Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong.
Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong have no problem raising three children together, but it involves Wang Lihong's parents and two families, which is not a matter for the two of them to decide, this is the problem that Li Lianglei needs to solve.
The second problem is the issue of property distribution, Wang Lihong gave Li Lianglei a mansion, but Li Lianglei did not want it, but chose to take a fair and just legal treatment. She did it very well, so as not to fall into the name of "wanting a mansion".
Regarding the distribution of property, will Wulihong be willing to take the initiative to give up the joint property of the husband and wife to Li Lianglei, the "enemy" who tore himself? As an iron rooster, Wang Lihong cannot be so generous, which is the second problem that Li Lianglei needs to solve.
The third problem is the matter of living with children, Li Lianglei is indeed accompanying the growth of three children, and indeed giving children a happy life. But the child can not do without the father, the role of the father in the future life, how Wang Lihong to grasp, how Li Lianglei to the child to win the father's role in the child's heart of the sense of existence, this completely depends on Li Lianglei's every decision.
So when the child's father tears each other up, it is the child who is injured, followed by the child's mother Li Lianglei, in the face of the child's problems, Li Lianglei is very likely to make some unfair compromises for the sake of the child, which is the most likely place for mothers to suffer losses.