Family sitting idly, amiable lights, slow cooking life, deep years

Text | Fan Xue

The three-day holiday on New Year's Day, finally in the beginning of 2022 can enjoy time with family. After eating in the evening, probably because of the tacit understanding of "having a sharp mind", invariably, the father-in-law did not go out to chat with his "old buddies", and the mother-in-law did not go out to exercise, while I used the tea brewer I just bought to boil a pot of black tea, put a little tangerine peel, and then put a bag of melon seeds on the table, the whole family gathered together, drank tea, ate melon seeds, talked about the heart, chatted, and had a warm and happy feeling. The two children heard the laughter and laughter here, dropped the beloved toy in their hands, and ran to their grandmother to spoil them together, and they also wanted to learn to pour tea and drink tea like an adult.

I was in a hurry, hurriedly took out a package of yogurt, two teacups, poured a cup of yogurt for each of them, and also met their desire to look decent and learn, and the two little guys were also excited. After drinking happily, the two dolls even touched a cup with their grandmother. Grandma smiled and said: I wish the babies health and happiness! I hurriedly taught them to say auspicious words on the side, and after the two treasures learned it, they would also rush to wish grandma good health, and the childish and childish milk sound coaxed her grandmother to close her mouth happily.

Smiling and looking at the warm picture of a large group of people gathered together and enjoying their harmony, I couldn't help but think of Mr. Wang Zengqi's words: "The family sits idly, the lights are amiable."

Yes, home, there is no need to have luxurious decoration, there is no need to have expensive furnishings, as long as there are people, lights, it is best to have a room, it can be called "home". With people, it is a peace of mind, that is, "my heart is at home"; with a room, there is shelter from the wind and rain, no need to worry about wind and rain, ice and frost attack; with lights, there is a warm rush, without fear of the dark and cold of the night, as if there is a moon and starlight. Home is the place where everyone depends, the cradle of every child's healthy growth, the harbor that every parent painstakingly manages, and the most intimate and warm place under the sky.

I still remember that when I first learned English in elementary school, my teacher explained the difference between "home" and "house" to us: in English usage, the "home" with a family is "home", and the house is just "house". Yes, the house is only an integral part of the "home", a place with a family, even if there is no tile to cover the rain, as long as we sit together completely, accompany each other at that time, share sorrow and happiness, and spend the wind and rain together, this is "home". And as an ordinary member of all sentient beings, it is also a kind of happiness that we can achieve "family sitting idle, and the lights are amiable".

No one can give up the bondage and happiness of "home", and the greatest value of "home" lies in inheritance. Parents pass on their love and dedication to you and me, and you and I give this heavy love to our children, and the deepest happiness and the thickest love are hidden in the "home". Harmonious, harmonious, leisurely, full of warmth, this is what home should look like.

I think that when the family sits idly, only when the family members are healthy, peaceful and happy, will there be the opportunity and conditions to "sit idle"; the amiable is never just the light that is lit, but there are our dearest and most loved people under the lamp, and it is precisely because of the people we love the most that we have a "home" and we have a home. As a passage once read: "Home is like a glass of sugar paper collected as a child, brushing away the dust that has fallen on the paper over the years, and smoothing the lines that are deeply trapped in the paper, but it is still bright." And we, the corners of our mouths are slightly raised, full of joy, only because we smell the smell of home. ”

The first thing in the list of New Year's wishes is: May my family, every of my loved relatives and friends, be healthy, safe, happy and happy. Because only when people are together and happy is the greatest happiness in life!

Family sitting idle, the lights are amiable, slow cooking life, the years are deep, so, very good.

About author:Fan Xue, graduated from Shandong Normal University in 2010 majoring in Chinese language and literature, and now works for Shandong Gaomi Rural Commercial Bank. He loves reading and writing, and likes to use words to record the bits and pieces of life.

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