If you want to know how a person's character is, you must listen to his words, watch his deeds, and observe his color.
Generally speaking, people with poor character will manipulate right and wrong, hate officials and hate the rich, pinch people's sore spots, complain about life, and be hypocritical as soon as they open their mouths, without a single reliable word. He likes to verbally attack others or direct them in the wrong direction.
As the old saying goes, "Dogs that bark don't bite, dogs that can't bark bite people." ”
The people who are defenseless are not those who like to talk, but those who hide in the shadows and come out coldly, catching you off guard.
A person with a very poor character likes to do the following things and is not worth associating with.
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"Unscrupulous": Overdrawing the kindness of others.
I saw a public service announcement: a beggar with "no hands and feet", lying on the side of the road, trying to pretend to be pitiful. Eyes fixed on passers-by for a moment, and on the money in the bowl in front of them.
After a while, a patrol policeman came over and said loudly: "Look, this person is delicious and lazy, don't be deceived." ”
The police quickly ripped off the beggar's pants and sleeves, and their hands and feet were exposed.
People with sound limbs, instead of working, tie their hands and feet, pretend to be disabled, and become professional beggars, which is infuriating.
For a while, Shandong Ramen Brother was sought after by everyone. He insisted on making ramen noodles for more than a decade, and did not increase the price, so that every guest could eat enough.
In this materialistic era, Ramen Brother has infected many people with simplicity and kindness.
Some Internet celebrities surrounded the ramen brother, filmed a variety of pictures, and posed various exaggerated movements to make money. Let the normal life of Brother Ramen be disturbed and miserable.
There is a saying in the "Chronicle of History and Cargo Colonization": "The world is bustling, all for profit; the world is bustling, all are for profit." ”
Kindness is expensive, and once it is overdrawn and controlled by desire, society becomes indifferent. Think about it, if a good person gives money to a bad person, how does he feel inside? After all, aiding and abetting abuse can make people beat their chests.
Kindness to good people is to transmit warmth, if not, it is a cold heart.
And those people with poor character like to be in the circle of good people, with the help of other people's strength, doing their own self-interest.
Shakespeare said, "The land of good hearts is gold." ”
In fact, to overdraw the kindness of others and lose one's own goodness is to lose real gold, but unfortunately people with poor character cannot understand it.
To be a person, we must have foresight, and the way of making money in "thin water and long flow" can bring sustainable benefits; helping good people can achieve good personality.
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"Hidden knife in laughter": face to face set behind one set.
I have seen a fable about a flock of sheep running and grazing happily on the grass.
A wolf approached quietly, but was frightened by the fierce eyes of the shepherd dog and did not dare to act hastily.
The wolf looked at the sheep from a distance, smiled and shouted, "If you drive the dogs away, I will never eat sheep. ”
There were young sheep, feeling that this was an "opportunity to resolve their grievances" and prepared to drive the sheepdogs away.
An old sheep stood up and said, "Wolf in sheep's clothing, do you believe?" Do you believe that ink can be bleached? ”
Yes, the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to move.
The wolf is the wolf, never becomes a sheep, it smiles desperately, in fact, it wants to cover up, it is extremely hateful.
Around us, there are often wolves in sheep's clothing, who are very kind to us on weekdays and help us to do small things to win our trust.
For example, in the workplace, cunning subordinates take a lot of gifts, give them to their superiors, and invite their bosses to drink and sing. With the help of the superior, the subordinates were promoted, and they also took over many projects and signed many contracts. The ugly act of "exchanging interests" has quietly pulled the boss out of the water, and he must not turn over in the future.
There is a word called "coercion and inducement." Coercion can be seen through at a glance, and it can also be prevented in time; the inducement is a gentle knife, and it is also smeared with a lot of painkillers to make you consciously accept the injury.
The person who "laughs desperately" at you doesn't necessarily mean that they're really good to you. On the contrary, those who are outspoken make your ears uncomfortable, but he does not have a malicious heart, but will help you at a critical time.
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"Oil on the soles of your feet": There is no sense of responsibility in doing things.
In life, we often meet such friends: when working together, patting their chests and saying "I am afraid of anything", cooperation fails, facing the problem of loss, he immediately changes his mouth, desperately shirks responsibility, avoids bearing losses; if he makes money, he desperately asks for it and shows his credit.
In love, there is such a dirty thing: the married man swears that he will divorce immediately and be with the woman in front of him. After ten years and eight years, the girls in front of him have become old, he has not yet divorced, let others wait for a fight; there are always women with rhetoric, saying that "love is more important than money", and when men become poor, they will disappear as soon as they turn around.
Tu Lei, the love mentor, said: "What do you think is the responsibility? You think the responsibility is to stay together for life and throw a few dollars at home. The real responsibility is to care about how every minute and every second of your loved one feels. ”
Responsibility and money have a relationship, but responsibility is higher than money. Only by running a sentiment through the whole process of life can we gain a firm foothold in the world of emotions.
Those who are irresponsible. Talking and doing things, are self-centered, never think about others, escape the speed, very fast, you can only look back. If you meet him, keep your distance from him and think like this – he runs away and never sees him again.
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Lincoln said, "Character is like a tree, and fame is like shade." ”
A person's character, like the roots of a great tree, if not well protected, is to give up the end.
There is a way that the thousand-mile levee was destroyed by the ant nest.
Friends, in this life, we must cherish our own character as we protect our own eyes. When dealing with anyone, be consistent and adhere to moral rules.
Even the people in the darkest places will one day be picked up and brought to justice.
May you and I, with our own light, away from the gray.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.