When many boys chat with girls, they either forcibly find a topic or check the household registration, so that the chat seems very unnatural, and may even say something wrong, and finally let the girl lose interest in chatting. Today Xiaobian will share with you a set of universal topics for chatting with girls.
1. Eat
The topic of everyday life is an eternal and less error-prone topic.
But not for you to say
M: "Have you eaten?"
F: "Not yet"
Male: "Oh"
Then there was no further remark.
Or suddenly making a temporary offer, in fact, it will seem very abrupt, especially when two people do not have a relatively intimate emotional foundation.
Eating is a primer.
When it comes to eating, you will learn about her tastes and preferences, so that you can chat about cooking and cooking, and find out if the girl is a person who likes to cook at home, is good at cooking, and it will be more convenient for you at the next offer.
For example, if she likes desserts, you can completely say "I know there is a new Internet celebrity dessert shop, super cute, I heard that it is delicious, I think it must be particularly suitable for you, let's go together one day" Girls will generally be interested.
Because your topic is right on her point of interest, and you have information about her food.
Moreover, when you let the topic go deeper, you can say,
"Opportunity to cook together"
"I especially want to try your craft, you see my saliva is left behind, I don't know if there is this opportunity"
"I just watched you cook like this, it's so happy"...
And so on, then the ambiguous flirtation can be fully expanded.
2. Extend small topics with big topics
It's best to chat with girls easily and happily, teach each other less preachy and a serious tone, and remember that you are equal and respectful.
If you feel that there is nothing to talk about, extending the small topic with a big topic is a universal formula.
Why is it said to be omnipotent?
That is, when you open the topic, start with the big topic, because the small topic is not easy to diverge and associate.
For example, although many girls like small animals, if you date a girl you don't know if she likes it or not, in case she doesn't like it, then it is easy for you to chat about small animals and enter the minefield.
The best way is to use the big topic to test, see the other party's speech tendencies, like or dislike such things, and then change the topic according to the other party's emotional changes.
Chat without purpose, it is best to chat about some topics that do not involve brains.
(If you open the philosophical mode after the relationship is deepened, that is the latter thing, and it must be understood to a certain extent.)
No matter what the topic, it must reflect the "atmosphere", the daily universal topic, basically the things in life, do not involve obvious positions and three views, anything can be, mainly to reflect the relaxed and pleasant atmosphere.
In this way, once the girl removes the atrium, comfortable and natural, she is willing to chat with you.
Tip: Chat general basic formulas can be used with:
The "state + feeling" at that time.
Chatting with girls in this way is never afraid of not having a topic.