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Source | Anban Lang Ruo (ID: anbanlr)
Schopenhauer said: We bear all our misfortunes because we cannot be alone.
Deeply.
A person's time is a comfortable and beautiful, and sometimes, a person can withstand thousands of troops.
Learning to be alone, learning to get along with yourself, and reconciling with life are compulsory courses for everyone.
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Being alone is a feeling
Solitude is the sadness of "falling flower people independent, micro swift double flying";
Solitude is the loneliness of "the birds fly high, and the lonely clouds go alone";
Solitude is the freedom of "picking chrysanthemums under the eastern fence, leisurely seeing the South Mountain";
Alone is the openness of "the boat has passed away since then, and the river and the sea have lived the rest of their lives".
Everyone faces being alone and feels differently.
Or boredom, or loneliness, or pleasure, or calm.
The adult world, too much helplessness, needs a quiet space, release themselves, warm and nourishing.
Unload the exhaustion of the day and give yourself a space to be alone.
Or close your eyes and recuperate, integrate within; or read under the lamp to enrich the soul; or raise a pen to send a message, cook words to heal the wounds.
Live in a quiet corner of time, listen to the drizzle under the porch, admire the flowers blooming outside the window, and taste the fragrance of the years.
Being alone can make a person lonely and unbearable, living like a year; being alone can also make a person quiet and rich, warm and peaceful.
A person is in the best state, enjoys the prosperity, settles in loneliness, endures loneliness, and likes to be alone.
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Solitude is an ability
Throughout the ages, many excellent people have liked to be alone.
The famous writer Zhang Ailing once said: Prosperity fades, and people are lonelier than fireworks.
When you learn to be alone, you have the courage and ability to face life head-on.
Learn to be alone, you will not be afraid of loneliness;
Learn to be alone, and be able to resist setbacks and blows;
If you learn to be alone, you can grow quickly;
When we learn to be alone, we become better, more remarkable.
The German philosopher Immanuel Kant never walked out of Gönigsburg in his lifetime.
He had no wife and no children, lived for decades, guarded every inch, and wrote the Critique of Pure Reason.
Those who will not be alone are often afraid of quiet and leisure. They use busyness to drive away loneliness, and they use noise to drive away loneliness.
They are fragile in heart, timid and afraid of things, dare not face the misfortunes of life, always run away from their hearts, and deceive themselves.
Their days were monotonous and boring, and their lives were barren and desolate.
If you are not alone, you will never be able to recognize yourself; if you are not alone, you will never heal yourself;
You will not be alone, you will not feel the peace and beauty of your heart; you will not be alone, you will not enjoy true freedom and openness.
Excellent people, often like to be alone, mediocre, often afraid of being alone.
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Solitude is a realm
Quiet afternoon, the sun is just right, the breeze is not dry, a book, a cup of tea, a beautiful melody, let a floating heart, slowly calm down, to feel the years quiet, the world is like smoke.
The days are quiet and gentle to the eye.
As I grew older, I gradually learned to cut out the complicated and simplify.
No longer wronged yourself to do things you don't like to do, no longer deliberately pander to others in order to fit into a circle.
More often, I choose to deliberately alienate, away from all the social i don't like, immerse myself in the world of one person, do what I like, let go of my heart, and enrich myself.
On leisure days, I also walked alone in the fields to breathe fresh air.
Occasionally look up at the sky, occasionally pick up a fallen leaf, write the name of the person you like, and clip it in the bookmark of the years to save the flowing years.
Away from the hustle and bustle, seemed to shield all the troubles.
Alone between heaven and earth, the grass is the neighbor, the green mountains are dependent on each other, the bright moon is the companion, spend time together, and count the years.
Solitude is a practice and an ability; solitude is a state and a feeling.
People with abundant hearts like to be alone, and people with desolation at heart are afraid of being alone.
Being alone is a person's joy.
Learn to be alone and be brave to be yourself.
Click [Watching], may you like to be alone, enjoy being alone, and embrace solitude.
Author: Yuanshan Ruodai, like to read, like words, like to record life with a pen, may the rest of your life not stick to the wind and moon, do not provoke emotions, quietly be yourself, source: Anban Ruo (ID: anbanlr). Please contact the original author for reprinting, and half of them will be published with permission.