In 2021
Self-Growth College's Popular List
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In 2021, the most popular content of Self-Growth College, have you seen it? Check it out!
"Out of Your Mind Trap"
Type: Intensive Reading
Author: Scott Adams
Reasons for making the list:
Limited thinking makes us extreme, makes us inefficient, makes us stupid, and makes us lose the ability to think clearly. Scott suggests that through systematic thinking training, let themselves learn the thinking skills of psychologists, artists, historians, engineers, leaders, scientists, entrepreneurs, and economists, carefully identify the so-called "expert" words, and learn to think soberly and rationally in the face of any problem, so that they have the ability to jump out of the dangerous thinking trap and make more efficient and wise decisions.
The Power of Empathy
By Arthur Joramikali & Catherine Catherine Cauchy
The author explains the difference between empathy and compassion, how to use empathy to find love, how to be an active empathetic listener, how to use empathy to create lasting intimacy, and how to avoid empathy shady face the bad effects of life. In addition, the authors argue that empathy is an essential part of life and explain how empathy can be achieved through eight behaviors: honesty, humility, acceptance, tolerance, gratitude, belief, hope, and forgiveness.
The Psychology of Rolling Sheets
Author: Xiao Xueping
Men also want to have children, women actually spend their hearts, the sexual anxiety behind forced marriage, the entanglement of sexless marriage, cheating and being cheated on... Everyone has the need to love and be loved, but different people use different languages to express and receive love, and many misunderstandings, estrangements, and quarrels between the sexes are caused by not understanding or ignoring the meaning behind these actions. Through analysis and exploration of the reasons behind the behavior, including different manifestations caused by different social and personal experiences, this book provides readers with solutions and suggestions to help readers establish a harmonious, healthy and equal relationship between the sexes!
Seven Habits of Highly Effective People
By Stephen Covey
With his keen insight and pragmatic wisdom, Stephen Covey shows people how to better and more effectively use the Seven Habits to build strong and loving family relationships and pass these good relationships from generation to generation. As Covey says, "You're raising your grandchildren as well as you're raising your children." ”
Breaking the Circle
Author: Gu Zhi
This book is a book about cognitive upgrading. Starting from the failure of the study, explain the basic principles of cognitive circle breaking and the 3 steps to break the cognitive limitations. Further refine the law of cognitive circle breaking: get rid of the emotional body, law two: reverse memory body and law three: break through the belief body. Through 3 steps, 3 laws, and 45 real cases, we help readers tailor the three views that are suitable, reshape themselves, and gain the freedom to be born as a human being.
"Underlying Logic"
Type: Abbreviated
Author: Liu Run
The "underlying logic" is not confined to the business world. I hope that after seeing the ever-changing world, you can still have a calm and non-anxious mind, and you can continue to create new methodologies through "underlying logic + environmental variables", and you will always be successful in work and life.
《Perseverance》
Author: Copper mining
This book will help you —
◎ Be the master of [time], not just the user
◎ Weigh the weight of the end and make a better choice than good
◎ Abandon "over-preparation", immediately "action", and increase wisdom in action
◎ Change passive acceptance into active output, and incarnate into a high-level [learner].
◎ Come to the brain "break away", break through the inherent [thinking], and achieve infinite exhaustion
◎ Optimize the way of effort, strategically cultivate acquired [talents], and jump out of the strange circle of "efficient but useless"
◎ [Success] is not a simple copy, opening up a unique path to personal leaps
The Courage to Be Hated
Author: Ichiro Kishimi & Shiken Furuta
The courage to be hated is not to attract the negative energy of being hated, but if this is my life that wants to bloom with beauty, then, even if there is a possibility of being hated, I will go there with my hands and feet. "Because I have the courage to be hated, I have the possibility of true happiness."
Nonviolent Communication
Author: Marshall Luxemburg
As good law-abiding people, perhaps we have never associated conversation with "violence." However, if we pay a little attention to the way we talk in real life, and experience the different feelings that various ways of talking give us, we will definitely find that some words are really hurtful! Verbal accusations, ridicule, denials, preaching, and arbitrary interruptions, refusals to respond, and arbitrary exports of evaluations and conclusions inflict emotional and mental trauma on us that are even more painful than physical injuries. These unintentional or intentional verbal violence make people cold, diaphragm, and hostile. Dr. Marshall Luxemburg has discovered a way of communicating according to which to talk and listen, so that people can communicate and live in harmony, which is "non-violent communication".
"The so-called high emotional intelligence, that is, can talk"
Author: Keiichi Sasaki
Speaking is not just a "feeling", but also a "technology"! Just as cooking has recipes, talk has its "secret recipe". Through the language phnitary skills he has mastered over the years, the author tells everyone how to cultivate their speaking ability and how to improve their speaking level. In this book, you can become a master of speech by becoming familiar with the "7 Breakthroughs" and "8 Techniques" and reading a large number of practical stories, and better mastering and applying the techniques of language phrasing.
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