Jealousy is a destructive factor that has a negative impact on life, life, work, and career, as Bacon said: the evil of jealousy is always secretly and quietly "destroying the good things in the world."
1. Directly affect people's emotions and positive spirit
2, easy to make people prejudiced
Jealousy, in a way, is born and grows with prejudice. How jealousy there is, so is prejudice. Prejudice arises not only from a kind of ignorance, but also from some degree of personality defect.
3. Suppress and destroy talents
In real social life, in the process of evaluating and using talents, they are often disturbed by jealousy, so that some talents cannot be used in a timely and rational manner. A historian once asserted that an important reason why Chinese society began to decline since the Tang Dynasty was the increasingly serious phenomenon of jealousy of the virtuous.
4. Affect interpersonal relationships
Xun Quan once said: "If a scholar has a jealous friend, the virtuous will not be close; if the king has a jealous subject, the wise man will not arrive." Jealousy is a psychological obstacle in interpersonal communication, it will limit the scope of people's communication, suppress people's enthusiasm for communication, and even turn against friends.
5. Affect physical and mental health
When jealousy burns and does not get the right venting, the endocrine system will be dysfunctional, resulting in cardiovascular or nervous system dysfunction and affecting physical and mental health.