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In the novel Lolita, there is a classic line that is widely circulated: "There are three things that cannot be hidden, cough, poverty and love, and the more you want to hide, the more you want to cover up." ”
Why can't poverty be hidden? Because a person is poor, some habits will be deeply rooted in people's hearts, and it is difficult to change in a short period of time.
These habits, although invisible and intangible, will be immersed in your speech and behavior, life choices, and your view of consumption. It can be said that it is closely related to your life.
In the 1950s and 1960s, this generation basically suffered hardships, and no one knew what it was like to be poor than them, and at that time, even eating a full meal became a luxury.
So even if life is more abundant today, they are still unwilling to waste food and spend money indiscriminately.
This is the impact of life environment and growth experience on a person.
If a woman is poor, she will also have some bad habits, and the following three points are particularly obvious. If you can hope that you don't have a single one, because this is not necessarily a good thing for you.
One: Always love to take advantage of small things
People who like to take advantage of small profits are never in the minority in life, they either pick and search when buying things, constantly bargaining with merchants, or like to be calculating in interpersonal communication and want to get some benefits from others.
Such people are often people who are not liked.
If everything is too meticulous, it will appear that people are not so generous and do things less neatly.
But such people, most of whom are also people with stories, know what it is like to be poor, and even if the living conditions are good, it is difficult to completely make up for the psychological lack.
As there is a saying in psychology: Happy people are cured by childhood all their lives, and unfortunate people are cured of childhood all their lives.
Past experience affects a person's later life, if he always loves to take advantage of the small, most likely means that he has not been rich, poor habits, will always live so cramped.
Two: not willing to waste, has always been frugal
Poor people have always been frugal and calculating, and they are not willing to waste. Even if it is a worthless object, it will always feel useful; even if it is an incomplete leftover, it will think of hot and then eat it; even if it is expired food, it will hold a luck mentality and think that it is okay to eat it.
Such characteristics are vividly reflected in the people of the previous generation.
A friend around me told me that they lived with their elderly fathers, and there were frequent conflicts, because the old father always went to the garbage push in the community to pick up things and brought home bottles and cans.
He felt that these could be sold for money, could subsidize the family, felt that modern people have money is too wasteful, there are many good things are directly lost, and he has been chanting:
"I really haven't had a hard life, if I had put it aside, I probably wouldn't have had enough to eat..."
Friends and wives are overwhelmed, afraid that these bottles and cans have bacteria that will affect the children in the family.
This is the difference in the thinking and living habits of people of different generations. Just as many mothers-in-law always like to eat leftovers and always complain about their daughter-in-law's indiscriminate spending, their frugal habits have been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and they may not be able to change it in their lifetime.
Three: There is no reasonable and correct concept of consumption
Poor people do not have a reasonable concept of consumption, mainly reflected in their inability to see the business to engage in activities, if something is discounted, much cheaper than usual, then even if they do not need it for the time being, they will definitely buy it back.
Because what he thinks in his heart is: In case he can use it in the future, the discount is not available every day.
But in fact, this is just a means for businesses to stimulate consumption, and it is precisely your consumer psychology that you think you have made a bargain, but in fact, you have suffered a big loss.
Because these temptations, from the very beginning, are routines, traps dug for you.
In life, there are many such people, such as double eleven when desperately shopping, and the result is that the double eleven of the second year has not been used up, and some have even expired.
If you think about it, do you still feel like you're taking advantage? Hoarding goods will occupy the space in the home, and when it expires, it can only be thrown away, resulting in waste, so why should it be in the first place.
People who have suffered hardships and those who have not suffered, living habits and ideological concepts, etc., are completely different, if a person is poor, some habits will penetrate the hearts of the people, you may not be able to detect it yourself, but it is real.
But it doesn't matter, even if we can't cure childhood, we can be as good as possible to ourselves, when you know how to please yourself, reasonable consumption, life will slowly get better.
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