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Zhang Ailing once described her dislike for her stepmother Sun Yongfan in her own work: "My father is getting married... If the woman was right in front of me, lying on the iron bar, I would have pushed her off the balcony, a hundred times. ”
Sun Yongfan is just an ordinary backyard woman, and has not performed outstandingly in history, but because of the talented woman Zhang Ailing, she is frequently mentioned by the world, and even named "the most evil stepmother of the Republic of China".
Sun Yongfan
Zhang Ailing has always speculated on the motives of this stepmother with the greatest malice, and when she first married Zhang Zhiyi, in order to please her 14-year-old stepdaughter Zhang Ailing, Sun Yongfan once gave Zhang Ailing two large boxes of clothes.
But in Zhang Ailing's eyes, this is the most shameful gift she has ever received, and she once wrote with deep disgust: "There was a period of living under the rule of her stepmother, picking up the clothes she wore to wear, never forgetting a dark red thin cotton robe, the color of crushed beef, worn endlessly, as if frostbite had been born all over her body; winter has passed, and there are still frostbite scars - it is such hatred and shame." ”
Zhang ailing
From Zhang Ailing, we know that Sun Yongfan is vicious and mean, but this impression is like the refraction of light in the water, which will inevitably deviate, after all, compared with Sun Yongfan, Zhang Ailing has a greater right to speak and more supporters.
There is no intention of defending Sun Yongfan, but the evaluation of a person is always multifaceted, and none of us is qualified to make a conclusion before I open my mouth.
In her later years, Sun Yongfan had the opportunity to speak out to reporters, and she said frankly: "Zhang Ailing has become a famous writer, if she is stimulated by me, it is not a bad thing." Evil insults came at me, I am a person in my eighties, as long as I am not ashamed, the notoriety of the outside world I am willing to recognize, everything does not matter."
Sun Yongfan was in his later years
At this time, she lived in a small house of 14 square meters in Shanghai, childless and childless, and her stepson, who was dependent on him, could not return in the suburbs.
In the eyes of the neighbors, Sun Yongfan is an old lady with kind eyebrows and good intentions, who treats people kindly, and children will always give candy when they go to play, which really cannot be spoken with the vicious harem mother in Zhang Ailing's book.
Zhang Ailing was lonely and arrogant by nature, refusing to be thousands of miles away, and there was no warm affection with her biological parents, let alone Sun Yongfan, an insignificant stepmother.
In Zhang Ailing's view, Sun Yongfan always stirred up dissension between her relationship with her brother and father, blaming the family's misfortune on this stepmother, but long before Sun Yongfan married the Zhang family, the family was already in a state of disintegration.
Zhang Zhiyi and a pair of children
Zhang Zhiyi is an authentic late Qing Dynasty widow, not to produce, the biggest hobby is to rely on the family's ancestral property to enjoy, Zhang Ailing's mother and her three views are not compatible, which is the point of divorce.
Zhang Ailing's temperament followed her mother, independent and strong, disgusted with her father's style, could not be a good girl left behind by feudalism, and often quarreled with Zhang Zhiyi. Therefore, even without Sun Yongfan, Zhang Ailing could not have any natural pleasure with her father.
As a stepmother, It is difficult for Sun Toho to do, and it is even more difficult to be the stepmother of a lonely and arrogant girl who is in the rebellious period.
In order to get along well with Zhang Ailing, Sun Yongfan gave her two large boxes of clothes as soon as she married in, which was described by Zhang Ailing as "the most shameful gift".
In fact, the situation is that Sun Yongfan once lived in a large family with many sisters, and the clothes that the sister could not wear to give to the younger sister to wear were an act of expression of closeness, but this was understood by Zhang Ailing as the abuse and suppression of her stepmother.
In contrast to Zhang Ailing, her younger brother Zhang Zijing especially likes to play with the Sun family. Children know best how to seek advantages and avoid harm, although they can't understand the thoughts behind them, but they can choose to be close to the people they like from the superficial good or bad.
However, the brother's simple behavior was described by Zhang Ailing as having no backbone, and even angry at him and mourning his misfortune, and the relationship between the sister and brother became farther and farther away.
Maybe Sun Yongfan would not love Zhang Ailing as much as she hurt her own daughter, but she definitely did not tolerate her thoughts, let alone abuse her, at most Zhang Ailing felt unhappy with her attacks again and again.
Zhang Ailing and younger brother Zhang Zijing
In Zhang Ailing's description, after Sun Yongfan gave her a slap, the relationship between the two completely broke up, but according to her brother Zhang Zijing's recollection, her stepmother Sun Yongfan never slapped her sister Zhang Ailing.
How big its Chinese composition is, it is impossible to study, which is right and wrong, has become the talk of posterity after dinner.
In fact, if it were not for the yin and yang of fate, Sun Yongfan would never have walked into the Zhang family and become the vicious stepmother in Zhang Ailing's eyes.
Once upon a time, Sun Yongfan was also a living lady on the beach, and was a close friend of the famous ladies Lu Xiaoman, Zhao Yidi and Tang Ying, and occupied a place in the social circle of high society.
Miss Seven on the Left Sheng Aiyi Miss Sun Yongfang Right Yuan Shikai Seven Young Milk
Sun Yongfan was born into a famous family, and his father was Sun Baoqi, the inspector of the late Qing Dynasty and the fourth premier of the Republic of China. There are many wives and concubines in the large family, and the children are even more numerous, and the grandson uses the seven to travel seven, known as the seven misses.
When she was a teenager, Sun Yongfan lived a brash and wanton life, but because of a lovely love affair, her life was completely shelved.
She had secretly fallen in love with her cousin, but was opposed by the whole family. In order to show their determination to stand firm for true love, the two elope into the woods and drink poison to commit suicide.
Sun Yongfan was sincere, but his cousin was afraid to run away, and in the end, Sun Yongfan was found by his family in time and rescued, but he became the laughing stock of the world.
When he committed suicide by drinking poison, Sun Yongfan was only 17 years old, living a life of stagnant water at a fresh age, and his reputation was notorious, and everyone became an old girl who could not marry.
Sun Yongben was ready not to marry again for a lifetime, but the girl was old enough to tolerate where in the family, so she could not play with sex, so she found Zhang Zhiyi, who was divorced and had two children.
When she was engaged to Zhang Zhiyi, Sun Yongfan was already 26 years old, and the family was ready to complete her marriage in a dragonfloof, but when her father Sun Baoqi died, according to the custom, Sun Yongfan needed to keep filial piety for three years, and did not get married until he was 29 years old.
Sun Yongfan family photo
Sun used The Lotus as a stepmother who pleased Zhang Ailing, but she was Zhang Zhiyi's favorite wife. Once Zhang Ailing's mother hated him for smoking opium, did not produce, and only knew how to enjoy himself, but Sun Yongfan accepted everything from him calmly, not only did not urge him to go out to find a job, but also accompanied him to smoke opium.
The husband and wife lived by selling their ancestral property, never worked in their lives, and got along happily. For the first time in more than forty years, Zhang Zhiyi found the dignity of being a man here in Sun Yongfan, without the contempt of his mother and brother, nor the nagging of his ex-wife.
Zhang Ailing's biological mother, Huang Yifan
Although self-motivation and hard work are good qualities, we also need to tolerate a group of idle people who only like to enjoy pleasure, which should be the consensus of social progress.
Naturally, Sun Yongfan and Sun Zhiyi chose to live a life of profligacy and leisure, and the consequence was the poverty of old age, but this was their choice, and outsiders had no right to beak.
In addition to a few years of getting along in the old house, Sun Yongfan and Zhang Ailing have never participated in their respective lives in the future, there is no intersection, but the story about the two is constantly circulating in the jianghu.
Sun Yongfan died at No. 28, Lane 285, Jiangsu Road
Zhang Ailing later also said in "Leifeng Pagoda": "Misunderstood and desecrated the good intentions of the stepmother and grandson. This can also be regarded as this lonely and arrogant woman's apology to Sun Yongfan.
Sun Yongfan may not be a kind woman, but she is definitely not vicious, in the trivial life, she is just an ordinary person, maybe we are in her position, not as good as her.
Life is inherently grinding, no one can always smile at the life of dog blood with the clearest eyes, if you can, who does not want to have a stable happiness? But happiness cannot always be stable.