In the past 2021, many unforgettable things have happened, Zheng Shuang's tax evasion, Yuan Longping's death, Henan's heavy rain....
The most controversial in 2021 is the frequent occurrence of "feminist rights" incidents, one after another has set off a wave of confrontation between men and women on the Internet, and newly created and demeaning words such as Guo Nan and Curtain Blade have become hot words on the Internet, and little fairies have become mocking words.
When Xiaobian's circle of friends was filled with Guo Nan's insulting words, Xiaobian felt the need to write something.
First, let's take a look at the more controversial events in 2021:
When a student sister of tsinghua academy of fine arts was in the canteen, she was "touched on the ass" by a 1.6-meter-tall student who borrowed a school bag. At the time of the incident, the student sister roared angrily: You actually dare to sexually harass me? Take out your ID card and student ID card and see which college you have? come.
The apprentice looked innocent: I didn't have me, I definitely didn't. Or, you can call up the monitoring and see if I can touch it?
Then, the sister sent a circle of friends: little things, I really can't beat you up, but I will let you die in my circle of friends first.
Immediately after that, Xuejie sent a circle of friends;
In front of this well-informed student sister, the student did not dare to say a word.
Tsinghua, sexual harassment, "social death", every word is so eye-catching. Soon, the incident became popular all over the Internet, and everyone angrily condemned the salty pig hand apprentice.
But who knows that this incident will soon reverse.
After checking the surveillance, the so-called sexual harassment is just that the school bag of the student touched the ass of the "student sister".
Soon, the student sister sent a circle of friends to respond to this;
The background of this incident is in the campus of Beijing Normal University, as a normal college, there are basically a large number of female students, and the gender ratio is imbalanced and the accommodation is tight, so there is a phenomenon of mixed sleeping between men and women.
Beijing Normal University also arranges the allocation of students' dormitories in this way, in fact, mixed dormitories are still very inconvenient for girls, and they are also worried about their own safety.
According to the demands of the girls, the school also posted a notice that it is not recommended to use the elevator below the 5th floor, and the building management also emphasized that boys can not take the elevator if they do not carry luggage or are not injured, and the students are also tacit before.
Unexpectedly, after the freshman season, some men who lived on the lower floor used the elevator, the reason was because the bath was on the first floor, and the girls and boys who took the bath felt embarrassed to take the elevator together, so they made a request in the group and suggested that the teacher emphasize it.
Unexpectedly, this suggestion caused a dispute between words and tongues later, and boys believed that girls were "gendering" and "privatizing" public resources.
The girls in the group also did not show weakness, a stone stirred up a thousand waves, the boy then directly screenshot posted to the Internet, the result rose to the hot topic of women's boxing.
A boy in Dalian Maritime was put on a "perverted" hat by a girl because he was close to the girl when he was in line, and he was also hung on the confession wall by the girl for a public trial;
On the evening of July 27, alibaba female employees braved the typhoon to go to Jinan for business in accordance with the requirements of the leaders, and after going to Jinan Hualian Supermarket to negotiate business, Alibaba Group Wang Mouwen, Zhou Mou (the female owner involved) and others feasted on Jinan Hualian Supermarket Zhang and others. On the morning of July 28, Zhou mou thought that he might have been abused in a drunken state, and after talking with her husband on the phone, he chose to call the police at noon.
On August 8, due to internal communication, Zhou immediately distributed leaflets in the canteen, and the video was hot on the Internet - Alibaba female employees sent leaflets in the company's canteen saying that they were raped by executives, which caused a hot discussion, and in the live video, female employees shouted that they were raped by executives and no one cared.
After Zhou Mou broke the news, public opinion was largely instinctive sympathy and deliberate belief. Many media have also taken advantage of this mentality of the masses to consciously push the case forward in the direction of a general outbreak of social dissatisfaction with indecency and workplace bullying.
Because they know very well that this incident is not typical enough and not "perfect" enough, but at least the emotions of the masses are real, and there is too much room for exploitation.
Therefore, before the conclusion of the police came out, some media held the mentality of fearing that the world would not be chaotic, claiming that Ali used capital power to remove the hot search on Weibo, and used the most controversial content as the title of the incident, constantly guiding public opinion and creating confrontation.
So that in the post of Wang Mouwen's wife, the police have intentionally reminded that this matter has another explanation, and many people are still sparing no effort to support Zhou.
On August 11, for the first time, things showed signs of reversion: the Atour Hotel involved said that the card for the man was confirmed by ali female employees!
On September 6, the People's Procuratorate of Huaiyin District, Jinan City, Shandong Province, after reviewing according to law, found that the forced indecent act committed by criminal suspect Wang Mouwen did not constitute a crime and did not approve arrest.
That's the end of it. Before the incident was reversed, the insults to the man on the Internet were not uncommon, and the editor often brushed up on the man's very vicious remarks, which can be imagined how much the mental pressure and public opinion of the man's family real life have.
East China Polytechnic girls went to the canteen to eat, occupied the seat with a book and left to eat, and then a boy occupied the neighbor seat with headphones and chargers, and then went to eat, but when the girl returned to her seat, she found that the seat she occupied had another "uninvited guest", so she took away her charging cable. The school wall was sent on the same day;
Subsequently, the girl also put the charger cable in a random place, let the boy go back to get it himself, and said, "Trouble don't embarrass the polytechnic men next time, go get it yourself, don't blame me for stealing your things when the time comes."
When the boy first lifted the headset, the girl said she did not take it, but when the boy posted that he wanted to check the monitoring, the girl suddenly changed her attitude.
"I may have actually taken his headphones, but I accidentally soaked them in my clothes."
But in the end, this matter is not over, although the girl has admitted her mistake, is accidentally took away the other party's headphones, but the use of the record has exposed everything, so that most people think that this 1999 yuan worth of headphones she wants to take for herself.
Many netizens labeled the girl as "stealing", which also brought more distress to the girl, after all, online violence is not something that ordinary people can bear, let alone a female college student.
But the school's ultimate solution was to punish the girl in the school, closing the comment channel and preventing too many people from discussing the matter.
Subsequently, rumors flowed out that the girl won the quota of insurance research, whether it was because of the grades or the peace of mind, the editor did not know,
But at this time, giving the girl a guarantee research is indeed reminiscent of the headphone incident.
Looking at each incident, we can't help but make the editor clench his fists and bring him into anger, but we must objectively analyze the causes and consequences of the incident.
Now the entire Internet platform, only hate male speech, no matter how extremely hot will not be blocked, but also get ten times a hundred times the traffic.
Any other serious discussion can easily invite blocking and banning.
Over time, people will receive subtle influences, affecting their own values, and then affecting people's words and deeds.
The development of the Internet has given people more opportunities to speak out, and the women of the above incidents are undoubtedly intellectuals who will use network tools to speak up for themselves, but most of the real victims are silent:
The incidence of rape in China is 2 in 100,000 (excluding indecency), which is very low compared to other countries, but the reporting rate of rape cases is very low, as can be seen from the fact that Didi drivers have sexually assaulted more than 50 in 4 years.
Because most of the people who use Didi alone are adult women, so this is the reference data for adult women, the report of girls after being sexually assaulted is even more absurdly low, and the report rate of girls after being sexually assaulted by some institutions is only 7.3%.
The women of the above incidents can have a better way to deal with, but they all use the Internet public opinion to protect their rights and interests first, which will only cause harm to the man, there is evidence to prove their innocence, and those who do not can only bear the insult of "indecency".
The misunderstanding is lifted, and the woman will also be attacked by the Internet, | human flesh, so that those girls who have really been violated will suffer more from gain and loss, afraid of happening and defending their rights.
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Xiaobian is a rural child, when I was a child, I saw too many unequal things between men and women, heard that many girls were sexually assaulted but did not dare to call the police, and even saw a girl being molested in front of me....
Xiaobian supports girls to use network tools to protect their rights and interests, but not without thinking and verifying to use the public's sympathy, network public opinion to attack the man, when the "wolf" really comes, you still want to use the network to speak, who will support you? The first reaction is to think that this is most likely false.