A few years ago, a question triggered a hot discussion among netizens: "Are you happy?" ”。 A bland, similar to the homely nagging after a meal, is a potential "why" and "how" soul torture. This is the focus of discussion between netizens and teachers and classmates around them.
They tortured and questioned them repeatedly, and they enjoyed it. Probably because the controversial nature of the topic is never outdated and closely related to the quality of life and the road of life.
It is a cold winter moon, and the bitter cold years are making many young men who are not willing to be lonely confused and sigh, and the author understands them very well, because among them is indispensable to the author's figure.
The ignorant young boy Lang is not much happier than the girl whose love sinus has been opened, and when confusion becomes the main theme of life, the luck of life will become worse. There is a saying called: "The opposite is the opposite", the direction is reversed, and all the previous efforts will be in vain. When you forget the road under your feet, it is not a matter of standing still, and it is often a kind of lonely regression.
Why is life so confused? The author has also struggled to find out. If you can easily walk out of the door of confused truth, you don't deserve to be called confused. The lost lamb cannot keep up with the pace of the flock and is ready to face the manipulation, squeezing and arranging of fate. Fall into the trap of the wolf of destiny.
I love the sun, especially the sun at the end of the year and the early spring, and in my spare time, I move a small bench to stand on the roof or courtyard, facing the sun, waiting for the spring blossoms. Let the sun shine on the face, through the chest, into the hysterical darkness beneath the calm exterior, forgetting, fading, melting, like melting the last trace of cold.
However, these are not cures the symptoms, when the sun recedes, the cold and darkness will return, and loneliness will come into being.
On the question of happiness and unhappiness, teachers and students answered yes and no, and the author did not expect them to give the correct standard answer, because the author is sober, whether it is a general language problem, or a logical mathematical problem, there is no absolute standard answer. What's more, I firmly believe that everyone has a natural performance attribute, which comes from the instinctive decisions of living creatures to survive and foresee dangers.
At that time, "traditional education" and "quality education" were in a state of fierce confrontation, on the bright side, quality education had the upper hand, but no one could sort out the logic, or no one was willing to sort out the logic, in the eyes of the industrious, intelligent and flexible Chinese people, these are small things, or not a thing at all. They firmly believe in their correct judgment and choice. Therefore, unchanging is the best workaround. People who are obsessed with the rules and regulations of the rules are bound by these tangible but invisible rules and fall into confusion.
Therefore, at that time, I often thought about right and wrong, right and wrong, twist and turn, black and white, surface and inside. The turbulence of time, the broken pillars, the collapsing world, it is a twist and turn that loves to think about people.
A few years later, in the same cold winter month, the author met a woman who changed her attitude towards life, a 165-tall, very spirited little beauty. Her smiling face, which was flushed in the cold wind, her simple and white temperament, seemed to be warmer than the sun above the snow. That smile seems to bring the author closer to the world. At that time, the author seemed to recall the hard learning career of junior high school, and every day he relied on memorizing inspirational quotations to wave the flag to himself. The heavy snow disaster in the south lasted for a month, the day when there was no electricity, after falling from the second floor to the first floor due to naughtiness, it was bumpy for a month, and the road would be slipped by ice and snow.
Although the years have passed, passers-by are in a hurry, and their sincerity to the world will make people feel infinite happiness, maybe your small action will become a light in the hearts of others.
At the end of the year, are you happy today? May you meet the most beautiful sunshine in the warm winter of the southern country.