The word hate is difficult to describe, and when we hate a person, we must be clear: the person who is hated is not painful, and the person who hates will be scarred.
In the feelings of love and hate, gentleness and violence are irreconcilable to each other, the two of them are parallel lines that will not cross, love is love, hate is hate, and the best love cannot cover that trace of hate. No amount of gentle treatment can offset a violent treatment, they are opposites and can never merge together, once you find or feel that they are fused together, that can only mean that it is the beginning of torture, you can only take one of the two, which is always to remember, either love or hate; either gentle or violent, once the two are mixed, leaving is the only option.
Why can't a broken mirror be recircularized, and the complete mirror and the broken mirror are two completely different things in performance. In practice, one of our biggest illusions is that we can dilute another thing with another thing, which is often ignored, even if the two components are the same, but the state of existence is different, then it is impossible to be diluted.
![Leader thinking, love or hate, which is stronger? (Truth)[fig]](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAP///wAAACwAAAAAAQABAAACAkQBADs=)