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A rational word healer, I hope you can find a little comfort in my words for life.
The most precious thing in life is a lifetime of peace.
Because of peace, it means that life is full of infinite possibilities; because of peace, everything we have now appears to be full of meaning; and because of peace, what we think can be fulfilled, and what we do can be smooth.
We will always pursue a lot of things, eager to get everything we want, but there will always be something happening, let us understand that getting is not the most important, cherishing is.
It was as if the sudden epidemic had made many people see the preciousness of life.
The time also goes very fast, unconsciously, December is coming to an end again, 2021 has also entered the countdown, and the Christmas Eve in our mouths has come again, I only wish that the people I love, the years are safe, and the years are always happy and healthy.
Every time they talk to their parents on the phone, they will always repeat these few words: "Take care of yourself outside, when the weather is cold, you must dress more", "Don't be reluctant to eat, don't use it, make yourself better", "Parents and what you say must be taken to heart, don't forget".
Seriously, when you listen to these words a lot, if all of a sudden they don't talk about these things, your heart will feel empty.
In the past, they would always be very perfunctory, thinking that the points they emphasized were always a bit of a fuss, and they would also reveal a kind of impatience in their tone. But as I get older, I feel more and more that they are not easy.
Parents have been running for us for most of their lives, when they were young, they were afraid that we were hungry and cold, and now when they grow up, they will always worry that we will not live alone outside, afraid that we are too tired or wronged, even if we leave our emotions to them, they will always love us silently in their own way.
We understand that behind every murmur is their concern and concern.
As it is said in "Knowing or Not": Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans for it. They always want to leave the best for us, even if we are older, in their eyes, we will always be a child, when we are tired and sad, the door of home will always be open for us.
And the more we grow up, the more we will be afraid, afraid that the trees want to be quiet and the wind is not stopping, and the children want to raise and not wait for them.
So I want to say: Dear parents, you don't have to worry about whether I am doing well or not, I am very good, but please also take care of yourself, do not be reluctant to eat and wear, as long as you are there, everything is not difficult, because I know that as long as I turn my head, you will definitely be there.
May all parents in the world have a safe and healthy life.
In life, it's easy for us to meet a few friends, but it's hard to meet a few people who are truly like-minded and understand and considerate of you.
After all, there are too many relationships that are so unreliable now, just like the interest relationship, they may be friends when there is an interest exchange between each other, but once the interests end, then each other may be strangers.
There are also many people, although fortunate to meet, but always have no chance to really enter each other's lives.
So what about true friends?
It will choose to encourage and support you when you are frustrated; it will borrow a shoulder to comfort and accompany you when you are sad; it will hold up an umbrella for you and believe that you have survived those difficult times in those windy and rainy days.
In front of them, you don't need too much disguise, more is to show the most authentic self, although in some cases, there will be contradictions between each other, but there will always be people who choose to be soft, because they understand the value of the relationship.
The passage of time will bring us a lot of people, and it will also make us lose some people.
Those friends who are really good to you and put you in your heart will not be scattered with the passage of time, more like fine wine, which will become more and more fragrant under the brewing of time.
One of the passages I've always loved is what Maugham said in The Moon and Sixpence: The years are long and fleeting, some people look down to see the dust, some people look up to see the stars.
No one can give a concrete answer to the meaning of life.
Then what we need to do is to try to live in the way we like, and to make every seemingly monotonous day as much as possible to live a fun life.
Perhaps, we have had many low days, there have been times of self-abandonment, and there have been moments of confusion and wandering. Fortunately, when we look back now, these have become our experiences, which will make us more tenacious in the days to come.
Like writing, I think the greatest help that writing brings to me is not how much wealth I have created, but more importantly, it makes me more peaceful in the process of writing, makes my temperament more stable, so that I can have a new perspective on every life in the moment.
Year after year, we have experienced too much joy and sorrow, and slowly we have made our mentality more peaceful than before.
We will also always understand that the phrase "all tastes, all are life" says how everyone feels.
Standing on the tail end of the year, may we all have our own interests and hobbies in the future life, can find the ideal state in our hearts, and are willing to continue to work hard for it, see those malicious in life, but still choose to be kind.
On Christmas Eve, may you be safe and smooth, and live in the way you like.
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