If you want to win the respect of others, you have to make yourself strong first

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Today I want to talk to you about respect and strong relationships, let's do the following essay questions first! See what you can learn from this?

While a beggar was begging, a passenger threw the money of the alms in front of the beggar with contempt, and the beggar was dissatisfied with this attitude of almsgiving, believing that it hurt his self-esteem. The beggar said, "I'd rather starve to death and freeze to death than need this kind of almsgiving." According to this matter, please write an essay on the theme of "dignity".

In order to let the students write a good essay, the teacher guides the students. Roughly as follows:

"The right of everyone to human dignity", which does not distinguish between status, wealth or poverty, age;

2. Clarify the meaning, status and specific content of human dignity;

Third, learn to respect yourself and respect others.

There is a phenomenon called the "Matthew effect". [Note: The Matthew effect, which refers to the phenomenon that the stronger the stronger and the weaker the weak, is widely used in social psychology, education, finance, and science. The Matthew effect, a term commonly used by sociologists and economists, reflects a social phenomenon of polarization, with the rich getting richer and the poor getting poorer. The Matthew effect may seem unreasonable, but it is a true reflection of real society. A weak person, in the absence of strength, is difficult to win his dignity. Just like the beggar, although he should theoretically enjoy the same dignity as a billionaire, and he can refuse handouts that undermine his dignity, can he really win his own dignity in this way? No matter how humble his attitude may be, living by begging for nothing is itself a way of life without dignity. Although there are also many people who can take into account the personal dignity of the beggar when giving alms, it is the high quality of the giver himself, not the beggar himself who wins. Therefore, if you want to win the respect of others, you must first make yourself strong. Make yourself strong, knock down difficulties, face setbacks, and win the respect of others.

Xu Beihong, a famous painter in China, was also discriminated against during his study in Europe. [Note: Xu Beihong (1895-1953), formerly known as Xu Shoukang, was a native of Qiting Town, Yixing City, Jiangsu Province. Chinese modern painter and art educator, is revered as the founder of modern art education in China. Together with Zhang Shuqi and Liu Zigu, they are known as the "Three Masters of Jinling" in the painting world. He advocated the development of the reform of "traditional Chinese painting", based on Chinese modern realist art, and put forward the "Theory of Chinese Painting Reform" in the context of the decadence of modern Chinese painting. He is good at characters, animals, flowers and birds, advocates realism, emphasizes the reform of Chinese painting and integrates Western painting techniques, and is famous for "Running Horse". 】

Once, a foreign student provoked Xu Beihong and said, "Chinese ignorant and ignorant, and you were born as a slave to the subjugated country, and even if you were sent to heaven for further study, you would not be able to become a talent." These words infuriated Xu Beihong, who was full of patriotic enthusiasm, and he said solemnly: "Well, I represent my motherland, you represent your country, and when you finish your studies, see who is a talent and who is a fool!"

Since then, Xu Beihong has worked hard, often to the Louvre, versailles and other major museums in Paris to copy the world's masterpieces, once he goes, it is a whole day, and he will never come out until the time of closure.

Where there's a will there's a way. In his first year at the Ecole Nationale Supérieure des Beaux-Arts in Paris, his oil paintings were well received by the French artist Mr. Flamont. Then, in a competitive exam, he won the first place. In 1924, when his oil paintings "Distant News", "Hope", "Flute Sound" and "Piano Lesson" were exhibited in Paris, they caused a sensation in the entire Paris art circle.

At this time, the foreign student who had provoked him had to admit that he was not an opponent.

If Xu Beihong had not worked hard academically and his painting skills had not improved by leaps and bounds, it is not difficult for us to imagine how he could make foreign students really accept defeat just by relying on his righteous and stern words. People who don't want to become stronger are not respected by others.

Let's look again at a story from the Bible Matthew in which a king gave each of his three servants a piece of silver before he went on a journey, and said to them, "When I am gone, you will take this silver and do business, and when I return, you will come to see me again." ”

A few years later, the king returned, and three servants came to see the king happily. The first servant fell before the king and said, "Your Majesty, I have earned 10 ingots of silver that you have given me. The king was very happy to hear this, and gave him 10 cities. The second servant said, "Your Majesty, I have earned 5 ingots of silver which you have given me. The king was also very happy and gave him 5 cities. The third servant said, "Your Majesty, the silver you gave me is still in the house, and I have not dared to take it out for fear of losing it." So the king was furious and ordered that a piece of silver be given to the first servant, saying, "Whoever has little silver, even his only wealth will be taken." Whoever has more silver will give him more wealth. ”

After reading this story, you may feel that the king is unreasonable, and even upset for the third servant. When we face the unfair social reality, do not shout empty slogans to maintain our dignity, but really make ourselves strong through hard work.

Bill Gates once said, "When you don't do anything in society, no one will recognize your self-esteem." "The strong are often respected, with flowers and applause everywhere, while the weak are often blinded, snubbed, and even bullied. When someone violates your dignity, if you lack the strength yourself, no matter how much you argue, it is empty and pale. If we want to get the respect of others, we must make ourselves strong, face setbacks, never shrink back, face them calmly, and move forward. Only in this way can our lives be more fulfilling and meaningful.

Children, knowledge is power, you must study hard, arm yourself with knowledge, and make yourself strong. Only if you are strong enough, can you win the respect of others, and can you make yourself invincible in the future competition!

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