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The top self-discipline in marriage is to maintain a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex

The top self-discipline in marriage is to maintain a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

The top self-discipline in marriage is to maintain a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

The top self-discipline in marriage is to maintain a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

The top self-discipline in marriage is to maintain a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Like Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", she broke the boundaries of the opposite sex, let her boyfriend He Han help take care of her divorced good friend Luo Zijun, and as a result, helped to help, let her friends and boyfriends have frequent contact, and finally was betrayed by both friends and boyfriends.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Like Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", she broke the boundaries of the opposite sex, let her boyfriend He Han help take care of her divorced good friend Luo Zijun, and as a result, helped to help, let her friends and boyfriends have frequent contact, and finally was betrayed by both friends and boyfriends.

It's too late to regret it.

The top self-discipline in marriage is to maintain a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Like Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", she broke the boundaries of the opposite sex, let her boyfriend He Han help take care of her divorced good friend Luo Zijun, and as a result, helped to help, let her friends and boyfriends have frequent contact, and finally was betrayed by both friends and boyfriends.

It's too late to regret it.

In this world of temptation, grasping one's sense of boundaries with others is protection and respect for oneself and others.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Like Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", she broke the boundaries of the opposite sex, let her boyfriend He Han help take care of her divorced good friend Luo Zijun, and as a result, helped to help, let her friends and boyfriends have frequent contact, and finally was betrayed by both friends and boyfriends.

It's too late to regret it.

In this world of temptation, grasping one's sense of boundaries with others is protection and respect for oneself and others.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside the partner should be "affectionate, stop being polite", keeping in mind their sense of responsibility, remembering to take into account their partner's feelings, reducing unnecessary physical contact, and not saying ambiguous words.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Like Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", she broke the boundaries of the opposite sex, let her boyfriend He Han help take care of her divorced good friend Luo Zijun, and as a result, helped to help, let her friends and boyfriends have frequent contact, and finally was betrayed by both friends and boyfriends.

It's too late to regret it.

In this world of temptation, grasping one's sense of boundaries with others is protection and respect for oneself and others.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside the partner should be "affectionate, stop being polite", keeping in mind their sense of responsibility, remembering to take into account their partner's feelings, reducing unnecessary physical contact, and not saying ambiguous words.

You must know that in marriage, there is love and stability, and you also need your common protection and persistence.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Like Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", she broke the boundaries of the opposite sex, let her boyfriend He Han help take care of her divorced good friend Luo Zijun, and as a result, helped to help, let her friends and boyfriends have frequent contact, and finally was betrayed by both friends and boyfriends.

It's too late to regret it.

In this world of temptation, grasping one's sense of boundaries with others is protection and respect for oneself and others.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside the partner should be "affectionate, stop being polite", keeping in mind their sense of responsibility, remembering to take into account their partner's feelings, reducing unnecessary physical contact, and not saying ambiguous words.

You must know that in marriage, there is love and stability, and you also need your common protection and persistence.

The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of the opposite sex keeps the heart.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Like Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", she broke the boundaries of the opposite sex, let her boyfriend He Han help take care of her divorced good friend Luo Zijun, and as a result, helped to help, let her friends and boyfriends have frequent contact, and finally was betrayed by both friends and boyfriends.

It's too late to regret it.

In this world of temptation, grasping one's sense of boundaries with others is protection and respect for oneself and others.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside the partner should be "affectionate, stop being polite", keeping in mind their sense of responsibility, remembering to take into account their partner's feelings, reducing unnecessary physical contact, and not saying ambiguous words.

You must know that in marriage, there is love and stability, and you also need your common protection and persistence.

The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of the opposite sex keeps the heart.

Bi Shumin once said: "Keeping a distance close is the most appropriate way to communicate."

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Like Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", she broke the boundaries of the opposite sex, let her boyfriend He Han help take care of her divorced good friend Luo Zijun, and as a result, helped to help, let her friends and boyfriends have frequent contact, and finally was betrayed by both friends and boyfriends.

It's too late to regret it.

In this world of temptation, grasping one's sense of boundaries with others is protection and respect for oneself and others.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside the partner should be "affectionate, stop being polite", keeping in mind their sense of responsibility, remembering to take into account their partner's feelings, reducing unnecessary physical contact, and not saying ambiguous words.

You must know that in marriage, there is love and stability, and you also need your common protection and persistence.

The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of the opposite sex keeps the heart.

Bi Shumin once said: "Keeping a distance close is the most appropriate way to communicate."

Among ordinary friends, it is still necessary to keep their duties.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Like Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", she broke the boundaries of the opposite sex, let her boyfriend He Han help take care of her divorced good friend Luo Zijun, and as a result, helped to help, let her friends and boyfriends have frequent contact, and finally was betrayed by both friends and boyfriends.

It's too late to regret it.

In this world of temptation, grasping one's sense of boundaries with others is protection and respect for oneself and others.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside the partner should be "affectionate, stop being polite", keeping in mind their sense of responsibility, remembering to take into account their partner's feelings, reducing unnecessary physical contact, and not saying ambiguous words.

You must know that in marriage, there is love and stability, and you also need your common protection and persistence.

The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of the opposite sex keeps the heart.

Bi Shumin once said: "Keeping a distance close is the most appropriate way to communicate."

Among ordinary friends, it is still necessary to keep their duties.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside of marriage should keep a distance and respect each other.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Like Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", she broke the boundaries of the opposite sex, let her boyfriend He Han help take care of her divorced good friend Luo Zijun, and as a result, helped to help, let her friends and boyfriends have frequent contact, and finally was betrayed by both friends and boyfriends.

It's too late to regret it.

In this world of temptation, grasping one's sense of boundaries with others is protection and respect for oneself and others.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside the partner should be "affectionate, stop being polite", keeping in mind their sense of responsibility, remembering to take into account their partner's feelings, reducing unnecessary physical contact, and not saying ambiguous words.

You must know that in marriage, there is love and stability, and you also need your common protection and persistence.

The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of the opposite sex keeps the heart.

Bi Shumin once said: "Keeping a distance close is the most appropriate way to communicate."

Among ordinary friends, it is still necessary to keep their duties.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside of marriage should keep a distance and respect each other.

The philosopher Zhou Guoping also said:

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Like Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", she broke the boundaries of the opposite sex, let her boyfriend He Han help take care of her divorced good friend Luo Zijun, and as a result, helped to help, let her friends and boyfriends have frequent contact, and finally was betrayed by both friends and boyfriends.

It's too late to regret it.

In this world of temptation, grasping one's sense of boundaries with others is protection and respect for oneself and others.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside the partner should be "affectionate, stop being polite", keeping in mind their sense of responsibility, remembering to take into account their partner's feelings, reducing unnecessary physical contact, and not saying ambiguous words.

You must know that in marriage, there is love and stability, and you also need your common protection and persistence.

The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of the opposite sex keeps the heart.

Bi Shumin once said: "Keeping a distance close is the most appropriate way to communicate."

Among ordinary friends, it is still necessary to keep their duties.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside of marriage should keep a distance and respect each other.

The philosopher Zhou Guoping also said:

Love is the treasure of life, when we use the marriage ship to carry the treasure of love, our mission is to avoid the reef as much as possible, avoid the wind and waves, and reach the destination safely. Whoever deliberately faces the wind and waves can certainly get the pleasure of adventure, but it also shows that he or she does not cherish the treasures in the ship.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Like Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", she broke the boundaries of the opposite sex, let her boyfriend He Han help take care of her divorced good friend Luo Zijun, and as a result, helped to help, let her friends and boyfriends have frequent contact, and finally was betrayed by both friends and boyfriends.

It's too late to regret it.

In this world of temptation, grasping one's sense of boundaries with others is protection and respect for oneself and others.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside the partner should be "affectionate, stop being polite", keeping in mind their sense of responsibility, remembering to take into account their partner's feelings, reducing unnecessary physical contact, and not saying ambiguous words.

You must know that in marriage, there is love and stability, and you also need your common protection and persistence.

The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of the opposite sex keeps the heart.

Bi Shumin once said: "Keeping a distance close is the most appropriate way to communicate."

Among ordinary friends, it is still necessary to keep their duties.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside of marriage should keep a distance and respect each other.

The philosopher Zhou Guoping also said:

Love is the treasure of life, when we use the marriage ship to carry the treasure of love, our mission is to avoid the reef as much as possible, avoid the wind and waves, and reach the destination safely. Whoever deliberately faces the wind and waves can certainly get the pleasure of adventure, but it also shows that he or she does not cherish the treasures in the ship.

May we in the adult world, with some stopping in our deeds, our bounds in our words, and our measures in all things.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Like Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", she broke the boundaries of the opposite sex, let her boyfriend He Han help take care of her divorced good friend Luo Zijun, and as a result, helped to help, let her friends and boyfriends have frequent contact, and finally was betrayed by both friends and boyfriends.

It's too late to regret it.

In this world of temptation, grasping one's sense of boundaries with others is protection and respect for oneself and others.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside the partner should be "affectionate, stop being polite", keeping in mind their sense of responsibility, remembering to take into account their partner's feelings, reducing unnecessary physical contact, and not saying ambiguous words.

You must know that in marriage, there is love and stability, and you also need your common protection and persistence.

The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of the opposite sex keeps the heart.

Bi Shumin once said: "Keeping a distance close is the most appropriate way to communicate."

Among ordinary friends, it is still necessary to keep their duties.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside of marriage should keep a distance and respect each other.

The philosopher Zhou Guoping also said:

Love is the treasure of life, when we use the marriage ship to carry the treasure of love, our mission is to avoid the reef as much as possible, avoid the wind and waves, and reach the destination safely. Whoever deliberately faces the wind and waves can certainly get the pleasure of adventure, but it also shows that he or she does not cherish the treasures in the ship.

May we in the adult world, with some stopping in our deeds, our bounds in our words, and our measures in all things.

Please let the boat of love sail in the safe seas.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Like Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", she broke the boundaries of the opposite sex, let her boyfriend He Han help take care of her divorced good friend Luo Zijun, and as a result, helped to help, let her friends and boyfriends have frequent contact, and finally was betrayed by both friends and boyfriends.

It's too late to regret it.

In this world of temptation, grasping one's sense of boundaries with others is protection and respect for oneself and others.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside the partner should be "affectionate, stop being polite", keeping in mind their sense of responsibility, remembering to take into account their partner's feelings, reducing unnecessary physical contact, and not saying ambiguous words.

You must know that in marriage, there is love and stability, and you also need your common protection and persistence.

The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of the opposite sex keeps the heart.

Bi Shumin once said: "Keeping a distance close is the most appropriate way to communicate."

Among ordinary friends, it is still necessary to keep their duties.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside of marriage should keep a distance and respect each other.

The philosopher Zhou Guoping also said:

Love is the treasure of life, when we use the marriage ship to carry the treasure of love, our mission is to avoid the reef as much as possible, avoid the wind and waves, and reach the destination safely. Whoever deliberately faces the wind and waves can certainly get the pleasure of adventure, but it also shows that he or she does not cherish the treasures in the ship.

May we in the adult world, with some stopping in our deeds, our bounds in our words, and our measures in all things.

Please let the boat of love sail in the safe seas.

Clicking "watching" and grasping the sense of boundaries between yourself and others is the protection and respect for yourself and others. May you meet that person sooner, who will not make you sad and disappointed, who cares about your feelings and cares for you everywhere.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Like Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", she broke the boundaries of the opposite sex, let her boyfriend He Han help take care of her divorced good friend Luo Zijun, and as a result, helped to help, let her friends and boyfriends have frequent contact, and finally was betrayed by both friends and boyfriends.

It's too late to regret it.

In this world of temptation, grasping one's sense of boundaries with others is protection and respect for oneself and others.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside the partner should be "affectionate, stop being polite", keeping in mind their sense of responsibility, remembering to take into account their partner's feelings, reducing unnecessary physical contact, and not saying ambiguous words.

You must know that in marriage, there is love and stability, and you also need your common protection and persistence.

The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of the opposite sex keeps the heart.

Bi Shumin once said: "Keeping a distance close is the most appropriate way to communicate."

Among ordinary friends, it is still necessary to keep their duties.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside of marriage should keep a distance and respect each other.

The philosopher Zhou Guoping also said:

Love is the treasure of life, when we use the marriage ship to carry the treasure of love, our mission is to avoid the reef as much as possible, avoid the wind and waves, and reach the destination safely. Whoever deliberately faces the wind and waves can certainly get the pleasure of adventure, but it also shows that he or she does not cherish the treasures in the ship.

May we in the adult world, with some stopping in our deeds, our bounds in our words, and our measures in all things.

Please let the boat of love sail in the safe seas.

Clicking "watching" and grasping the sense of boundaries between yourself and others is the protection and respect for yourself and others. May you meet that person sooner, who will not make you sad and disappointed, who cares about your feelings and cares for you everywhere.

Author's bio: This article was first published by Uncle Fuji (ID: dashu259), a single beautiful uncle who combines reason and emotion, funny and warm heart, focusing on weaving night dreams for girls. Uncle WeChat: fox2223, welcome to pick up. The copyright of the pictures in this article belongs to the original author.

Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Like Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", she broke the boundaries of the opposite sex, let her boyfriend He Han help take care of her divorced good friend Luo Zijun, and as a result, helped to help, let her friends and boyfriends have frequent contact, and finally was betrayed by both friends and boyfriends.

It's too late to regret it.

In this world of temptation, grasping one's sense of boundaries with others is protection and respect for oneself and others.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside the partner should be "affectionate, stop being polite", keeping in mind their sense of responsibility, remembering to take into account their partner's feelings, reducing unnecessary physical contact, and not saying ambiguous words.

You must know that in marriage, there is love and stability, and you also need your common protection and persistence.

The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of the opposite sex keeps the heart.

Bi Shumin once said: "Keeping a distance close is the most appropriate way to communicate."

Among ordinary friends, it is still necessary to keep their duties.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside of marriage should keep a distance and respect each other.

The philosopher Zhou Guoping also said:

Love is the treasure of life, when we use the marriage ship to carry the treasure of love, our mission is to avoid the reef as much as possible, avoid the wind and waves, and reach the destination safely. Whoever deliberately faces the wind and waves can certainly get the pleasure of adventure, but it also shows that he or she does not cherish the treasures in the ship.

May we in the adult world, with some stopping in our deeds, our bounds in our words, and our measures in all things.

Please let the boat of love sail in the safe seas.

Clicking "watching" and grasping the sense of boundaries between yourself and others is the protection and respect for yourself and others. May you meet that person sooner, who will not make you sad and disappointed, who cares about your feelings and cares for you everywhere.

Author's bio: This article was first published by Uncle Fuji (ID: dashu259), a single beautiful uncle who combines reason and emotion, funny and warm heart, focusing on weaving night dreams for girls. Uncle WeChat: fox2223, welcome to pick up. The copyright of the pictures in this article belongs to the original author.

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Author | Snow Plum Soul Source | Uncle Fuji (ID:dashu259)

Ending song: Fang Datong - Red Beans

There are many troubles in the world, and there is a kind of trouble called " self-"doing" and being sentimental.

Recently, there was a male classmate Xiao Yang who had a good relationship with the opposite sex and complained to me about his troubles.

His so-called annoyance was: the loss of freedom.

It turned out that on Sunday, Xiao Yang invited the female subordinates of the department who were about to leave the department and their daughters to dinner, and were met by the parents of Xiao Yang's daughter's classmates, who secretly took a photo of the "family of three" who had changed his wife and daughter to have lunch together and sent it to Xiao Yang's wife.

Xiao Yang's wife received the photo, remembering that her husband told her to deal with the work at noon, let her take her daughter back to her mother's house for lunch, but did not expect that this job was to form a "family of three" with female subordinates to have lunch.

Xiao Yang's wife found xiao Yang and this female subordinate through various channels, and had eaten and drunk coffee alone more than once.

She couldn't stand her husband talking with other members of the opposite sex, from the stars and the moon to the ambiguity of life ideals. Since then, he has been keeping an eye on Xiao Yang's every move.

Xiao Yang thought that his wife was too careful and had a farewell dinner with her female subordinates before leaving her job.

I asked him: Have you ever wondered if you have maintained your due measure in this whole thing?

When you decide to enter marriage, you must keep the distance you should have from the other opposite sex and take a good grip on the interaction with the opposite sex.

Xiao Yang has a close past with the opposite sex, causing misunderstandings from acquaintances and causing dissatisfaction from his wife, which is a typical person who lacks a sense of boundaries with the opposite sex.

In this world of temptation, maintaining boundaries with the opposite sex outside of marriage is a respect for your partner and a responsibility to yourself.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

There is a sense of proportion of distance

Remember that there was a popular test question on the Internet that "twisted bottle cap":

In a movie theater, you and your girlfriend are watching a movie, and suddenly a beautiful woman next to you reaches out and hands you a bottle of water to help you screw the cap, what will you do?

It should be noted that this is a send-off proposition, because the answer is not good, and it is likely to die on the spot.

Girls just care about this detail. And the details determine life and death.

Luo Zhenyu gave a textbook answer in Logical Thinking:

Holding the mineral water bottle in the correct position, he said, "Wife, do you want to help her with this?"

And my wife said, "I can't screw it either."

"Good wife, I'll help you unscrew it."

Lao Luo's words not only show his attention to his wife, but also prompt others: "See? I only have my wife in my heart, you have no drama."

He uses the "sense of boundaries" to avoid stickiness and avoid the shearing in the emotion.

What is a sense of boundaries?

The sense of boundaries is the measure, scale and temperature that are maintained in interpersonal communication.

The sense of boundaries with the opposite sex is that married people must have the most basic self-consciousness of "I am married", but this is not to completely cut off the connection with friends of the opposite sex, but to maintain the distance and sense of proportion that friends should have.

This is a respect for the partner in the marriage, but also a maintenance of friendship.

After all, all trust is based on self-awareness and respect.

This is also why people who get married should wear a wedding ring on their index finger, because the wedding ring is the best invention of the sense of proportion.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is the greatest respect for marriage and partners

In the entertainment industry, the relationship between men and women between celebrities has attracted much attention, and the sense of proportion is extremely important, equivalent to the traffic lights of traffic rules, so it is also a high incidence of scandalous car accidents, but some people, with the convenience of work, do shameless things.

Not long ago, Li Xiang's ex-husband Wang Yuelun, who was on the hot search because of the "divorce" announced by the tea official, was photographed many times ambiguous with the opposite sex.

The day before he announced his divorce, he was photographed hugging her back to the hotel.

Perhaps it was photographed by the media again on an ambiguous date, Wang Dao was anxious, and only then did he officially announce the divorce on Weibo to prove that he was a free body and that it was normal to interact with the opposite sex.

However, he was photographed pulling and pulling with beautiful women during his marriage, but not once or twice.

The first time it was filmed was on October 8, 2018.

On August 14, 2020, a woman was photographed on the KTV wall.

Under the premise of having a family, Wang Yuelun has fought with the opposite sex again and again, and his marriage with Li Xiang, who lacks a sense of boundaries, has come to an end without suspense.

Speaking of this, I have to mention that Huang Lei, another good man with extremely high emotional intelligence in the entertainment industry, has cooperated with countless actresses, but the scandal is zero.

In the TV series "I Love Male Girlfriend", Huang Lei and Chen Shu brilliantly interpreted how to develop from girlfriends to lovers, when asked by reporters whether there are girlfriends of the opposite sex, Huang Lei directly said that he is a married person, and there are absolutely no female girlfriends in life.

It is precisely because Huang Lei soberly distinguishes between real life and film and television creation, and clarifies his sense of boundaries in his interactions with friends of the opposite sex.

There is a clear line in the marriage, so he knows what to do and what not to do, and his marriage will remain fresh for more than ten years.

In marriage, a person's sense of boundaries for the opposite sex outside the partner also reflects a person's cultivation and character.

Taking the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex, leaving the shoulders, arms, arms, and co-pilot to one's partner is an emphasis on marriage and a respect for one's partner.

Only those who know how to respect their partner are worthy of being loved.

Maintain boundaries with the opposite sex outside of your partner,

It is self-discipline that sticks to the heart

Classic old question: Is there pure friendship between men and women?

Personal opinion: It is not that there is no pure friendship between friends of the opposite sex, but that pure friendship must have enough boundaries.

This boundary is to take into account the feelings of the partner, know how to grasp the measure, and know how to avoid suspicion.

Although the philosophical hero Jin Yuelin was attracted by the talent of the talented woman Lin Huiyin, he knew how to restrain his behavior and grasped the measure of this relationship, starting from the heartbeat and ending at reason.

And the intelligent and rational Lin Huiyin also knows how to be honest with Liang Sicheng and fully take into account her husband's feelings, so that Liang Sicheng can trust his wife and respect Jin Yuelin.

The two families lived next to each other, and the three became lifelong friends, gaining friendship and mutual respect.

But in real life, many people often ignore the sense of boundaries when interacting with the opposite sex, and even break the boundaries themselves.

Like Tang Jing in the TV series "The First Half of My Life", she broke the boundaries of the opposite sex, let her boyfriend He Han help take care of her divorced good friend Luo Zijun, and as a result, helped to help, let her friends and boyfriends have frequent contact, and finally was betrayed by both friends and boyfriends.

It's too late to regret it.

In this world of temptation, grasping one's sense of boundaries with others is protection and respect for oneself and others.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside the partner should be "affectionate, stop being polite", keeping in mind their sense of responsibility, remembering to take into account their partner's feelings, reducing unnecessary physical contact, and not saying ambiguous words.

You must know that in marriage, there is love and stability, and you also need your common protection and persistence.

The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of the opposite sex keeps the heart.

Bi Shumin once said: "Keeping a distance close is the most appropriate way to communicate."

Among ordinary friends, it is still necessary to keep their duties.

Interacting with the opposite sex outside of marriage should keep a distance and respect each other.

The philosopher Zhou Guoping also said:

Love is the treasure of life, when we use the marriage ship to carry the treasure of love, our mission is to avoid the reef as much as possible, avoid the wind and waves, and reach the destination safely. Whoever deliberately faces the wind and waves can certainly get the pleasure of adventure, but it also shows that he or she does not cherish the treasures in the ship.

May we in the adult world, with some stopping in our deeds, our bounds in our words, and our measures in all things.

Please let the boat of love sail in the safe seas.

Clicking "watching" and grasping the sense of boundaries between yourself and others is the protection and respect for yourself and others. May you meet that person sooner, who will not make you sad and disappointed, who cares about your feelings and cares for you everywhere.

Author's bio: This article was first published by Uncle Fuji (ID: dashu259), a single beautiful uncle who combines reason and emotion, funny and warm heart, focusing on weaving night dreams for girls. Uncle WeChat: fox2223, welcome to pick up. The copyright of the pictures in this article belongs to the original author.

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