I wonder if you have read the book "Ai Erlan Coffee"? In the book, such a touching love story is told:
A man who works as a bartender at Dublin Airport meets and falls in love with a flight attendant who he thinks is like Irish whiskey. He was good at mixing cocktails, and wanted her to drink a cocktail he had made himself. But the girl drank only coffee, and then he finally came up with a way: to combine Irish whiskey and coffee and name it Irish coffee, a process that was very elaborate, whiskey and coffee should have a certain ratio, to have a certain heat. The girl ordered Irish coffee a year later, and when he first made her Elan coffee, he shed tears of excitement, and he drew a circle around the mouth of the Irish coffee cup with tears, so the first taste of Irish coffee was fermented with longing
Which woman is it? You can taste the love of such a well-configured, such a long wait, such a perseverance and a man who does not ask for anything in return! In this fast-moving modern society, who still misses the persistence and long waiting of love?
Phone, WeChat, web chat tools... Technology makes our love life more and more fast and simple, knocking on the keyboard a letter to fly to the other side of the earth, a random symbol can tell each other, you are crying or laughing, the information age not only makes people's work efficiency improve, the pace of life is accelerated, even the attitude towards feelings is simplified, into the direct era of rapid love.
According to the DUres Global Love Survey, 45% of people around the world have had a "one-night stand", of which the largest proportion is in developing countries, and the popularity of the Internet has become a hotbed for people to solve their primary physiological needs. In this case, falling in love has become a sprint, and I am eager to do it in one step.
According to Lloyd's psychoanalytic theory, the desire for a "one-night stand" stems from the call of the "original self", which is an outpouring of human instincts. Therefore, "one-night stands" are also an instinctive desire and desire, and it is also a common human feeling. However, the purpose of "one-night stands" is more to vent and relieve stress, which is also an "urban disease" with great competitive pressure.
Compared with the "don't care about the sky for a long time, only care about the slow love of the "Ailan Coffee" style of love mode "Ailan Coffee", it pays more attention to the "Qin Shi Mingyue Han Shi Guan", it believes that love needs time to be slowly cultivated, needs to spend before the moon, needs romance and poetry, needs patience and waiting, and needs to be guarded and insisted. When the expression of feelings goes to fast food, love may be swallowed up like a hamburger, but it cannot taste it, when the love of the fast food era runs to bed at the speed of life and death only once they meet, or even eight minutes on a date, the proponents of slow love insist that feelings need to be cultivated slowly.
The famous master of traditional Chinese studies, Jin Yuelin, never married, and once he pulled many good friends to eat in a restaurant near Peking University. At that time, the treatment of teachers was still very low, and everyone asked this master why he was like this today when he ate happily. Jin put down the chopsticks for half a day without saying a word? Then he said slowly with tears in his eyes: Today is Lin Huiyin's birthday. The crowd was silent. Mr. Jin Yuelin has treasured his love for Lin Weiyin all his life, which makes the world move.
We may really not understand, now the increasingly fast-food love trend, perhaps we appreciate The kind of love that Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai style is as clear and eternal as the stream flowing to the sea, then in the long love journey to understand each other, integrate with each other, let love become your unique cup of Irish coffee, slowly taste the thoughts and bitterness brewing in it, and also experience the excitement in the cup of tearful coffee. Then you will find that the whole process of love is so rich and endless, it seems to become a fan, but it makes people willing to indulge.
In this era of fast-food love, we ignore many simple beauty and light joy, and fall deeper and deeper into the strange circle of impetuosity and shallowness. What is love? The silhouettes of the couples with their faces full of ravines and silver hair in the sunset roadside park should be the best interpretation of the true meaning of love.