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"It is better to make people happy at first, but not to make people tired for a long time." This is a sentence in the Ming Dynasty Chen Jiru's "Small Window Youji". This means that instead of giving people the joy of seeing each other at first sight, it is better not to annoy the other party in the long future interaction. "Not tired" is a more vivid word, it is as glamorous as ever, it is timeless, and it does not fade for a long time. But in life, it is often easy to make friends at first, and it is difficult to get tired for a long time.
Drinking too much will be boring, but drinking water will not, because the water is light and tasteless. The ancients said, "the big taste must be light", thin can last forever, and "the five tastes are refreshing", no matter what kind of delicacies are delicious, continuous eating will be bored, if you eat too much, it has become a medicine for rotting intestines.
There is a kind of love called long-term and not tired. If life is only as it first saw, how good! After half a lifetime, he returned as a teenager, wading through mountains and rivers, and arriving not at a distant place, but at the place where his heart first set off. For a lifetime, it is so watery and milky, not far away from love, looking at each other tirelessly, eyebrows to pick fireworks to live a lifetime. Ren Nianhua is in a hurry, and true love can always withstand the baptism of ordinary years.
In fact, there is another situation that we see a lot, that is, we get bored over time. It was true that I loved you before, and now I don't love you anymore, and it is also true. With the growth of time, the more shortcomings are exposed, so many that you can't stand it, you don't love it, and your feelings have long been destroyed. How much I once liked it, how much I hate it now, as Zweig said in "A Letter from a Strange Woman": "To your soul, whether it is the countless mountains and valleys separated by countless mountains and valleys, or the only line of separation in our eyes, in fact, it is the same distance." ”
Good books are not tired of reading hundreds of times, for people who love words, a good book that is readable is composed of vivid and vivid words, arranged into beautiful and flexible sentences, and then carefully cooked into a pleasant thing. Touch it gently, as if there is a dark incense floating, the words penetrate into the heart, and the soul runs into the book, making people tired for a long time. Before Lu Xun's death, Su Xuelin also said that his articles were "not tired of reading a hundred times", however, less than a month after Lu Xun's death, Ms. Su said that her articles were "not enough". Sometimes, like or dislike, tired and not tired, just like The Sichuan drama changes its face, all in one's own thoughts.
Li Yu, a talented man of the Qing Dynasty, was a man of great interest in life, and in the Nanjing Mustard Garden, he used the "frame view" technique of "painting can also be painted by the mountain, and can also be used as a window" to design the styles of scale windows, heartless windows, plum windows, etc., that is, to open fan-shaped windows on the cabin and frame around. Boats drift with the current, any thing, the lake and mountains outside the window have become the pictures flowing inside the window, and the rapid changes, and infinite updates, reaching the realm of "changing yesterday into today, turning the board into life, before the eyes and ears, the carving seems to have vitality flying". What a lovely literati, how can he get bored with such a person?
In life, a yellowed diary recorded my experience of reading and growing up; a rattle that dropped a small ball, which was my plaything to tease my daughter; a watch that could still move around, which was the first gift that My husband gave me... These old objects carry too many good memories of me, and for many years, I am reluctant to throw them away. Why bother?
Everyone has different preferences, different personalities, can withstand the wear and tear of the years, long or a lifetime of unswervingly like a thing, love the same person, that is into the heart, is really caring, true feelings. There are thousands of red dusts, may everything be as warm as ever, and never tire of being there.
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