With Wang Lihong's public apology at noon on December 20, the dispute between him and Li Lianglei is expected to come to an end.
Li Lianglei suddenly attacked this time, no wonder for several reasons, vented her grievances, retaliated against the Wang family, and was compensated. When she gets all the results she wants, she will naturally stop. Therefore, with Wang Lihong's apology, withdrawal from the circle and promise of compensation, Li Lianglei also gave up more drastic means such as prosecution, and this matter can basically be regarded as a turning point.
Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei just turned the page, where Wei Ya tax evasion and tax evasion was fined 1.3 billion yuan of big melons were thrown out, it is said that there may be other people immediately, the public's attention was immediately attracted away, Wang Lihong can only sigh in vain, you play me, right? Why did you go earlier? Also, the laborious Bara mixed entertainment circle for more than twenty years, the family property is less than one billion, and the people Ofia have evaded taxes in two years with six or seven billion, where to reason.
Then again, even if the dispute between Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei is declared over, there are still some problems between them that have not been clarified.
Why would two people who have talked so badly about this marriage be together for eight years?
Why can such an unhappy couple have three children in five years?
Why did Wang Lihong, a "high-quality idol" who has been popular for more than 20 years, collapse so quickly?
If many things are only seen from the surface, they are actually similar, money and women in the entertainment industry are never able to get around, but if you look closely, Wang Lihong's things seem to have something deeper, and the details of his five years of finding five psychologists may be able to get a glimpse of the end.
1. Self-lover case
According to some of the diagnosis books posted by Li Lianglei, Wang Lihong has a narcissistic personality, which is a complex personality disorder in psychology.
At present, there is no absolute standard narcissistic personality diagnosis standard, but from Li Lianglei's revelations, we know that some of Wang Lihong's daily performances are indeed very consistent with this personality.
For example, Wang Lihong likes to direct others, talks to Li Lianglei in a commanding tone, enjoys privileges at home, lacks compassion, and has a tense marital relationship and parent-child relationship.
This is just what we see from the limited exposure, if combined with some daily performance, I believe that the psychologist diagnosed him as a narcissistic personality is also more reliable.
Second, gas lamp people
The psychologist also used a term in Wang Lihong's diagnosis book: the gas lamp effect, the simple understanding is that the manipulator has long instilled false, one-sided or deceptive words into the victim, making the victim doubt himself, questioning his cognition, memory and mental state, and finally the manipulator achieves the purpose of controlling the thoughts and behaviors of the victim.
This term comes from the American 1944 movie "Under the Gas Lamp", some people understand it as "PUA" is also a certain reason, but obviously according to Li Lianglei's revelations, Wang Lihong's approach seems to be more radical than PUA, he not only manipulates Li Lianglei's psychological state and life, such as installing surveillance cameras at home to direct Li Lianglei and other behaviors, but also he also spreads Li Lianglei's mental bad remarks, Wang Lihong's father believes that his son lives in a bad marriage, probably Wang Lihong's "masterpiece".
Therefore, according to Li Lianglei's revelations, Wang Lihong undoubtedly meets the characteristics of a typical "gas lamp person", which probably explains why Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong can maintain their marriage for eight years, and at the same time have three children in five years, if Wang Lihong's "gas lamp effect" takes effect, then Li Lianglei is undoubtedly in a state of manipulation of thoughts and behaviors in the marriage, and having several children is naturally Wang Lihong's decision.
3. X addiction
The most eye-catching thing in the psychiatrist diagnosis book exposed by Li Lianglei is undoubtedly the "X addiction", many people may have heard of this term for the first time, in fact, the word has been popularized as early as the Exposure of a large number of peach-colored news by american golf star Tiger Woods.
Interestingly, according to the media and Zhuo Wei and other people's breaking news, Wang Lihong does not seem to be harsh on women when doing skin and meat trading, not necessarily young and beautiful tender models, middle-aged women he will also accept all orders, which is very similar to tiger Woods' peach news that year.
In general, X addiction is mostly concentrated in men aged 30-40, when this symptom onset, he will give up all work to find a venting partner, if not satisfied, it will produce anxiety and anxiety of painful feelings.
Judging from the situation exposed by Li Lianglei and the media, Wang Lihong's frequency of doing this kind of thing is quite high, and it is more reasonable to be diagnosed by doctors as X addiction.
Fourth, the dumping of high-quality idols
If the psychiatrist's diagnosis is correct, then why does Wang Lihong have a narcissistic personality, a gas lamp person and an X addiction syndrome?
The author believes that this may be related to Wang Lihong's family, experience and personality.
Wang Lihong was born in a Kochi family, the elders of the family can learn from all over the world, Wang Lihong himself in terms of talent is not to let go, this family origin and personal conditions give him a very strong self-confidence.
At the same time, Wang Lihong's personal appearance is also very good, in addition to the face shape is slightly longer, from height, appearance, figure to quality, he can be regarded as a standard handsome guy. If this handsome guy is also proficient in music and musical instruments, it is an invincible idol in the girl's heart, which may also be the biggest source of Wang Lihong's narcissistic personality formation.
Because Wang Lihong's conditions in all aspects are good enough, he was positioned as a "high-quality idol" almost as soon as he debuted, which brought him at least three aspects of influence.
1, rave reviews, make money to the soft, flowers bloom to become the girls' Prince Charming.
2, more self-confidence, may also lead to more narcissism.
3, two-sided personality, people need to maintain the "quality idol" of the person, can not release the nature.
The impact of these three "high-quality idols" is undoubtedly a double-edged sword for Wang Lihong, and it also lays the foundation for the final collapse of his personal image.
Rich, stylish, and artificial, let him enjoy too much praise and greeting, which will make his desire for manipulation greatly enhanced, unable to accept criticism, more egotistical, more narcissistic.
Long-term maintenance of the "quality idol" persona will make him fall into a state of mental tension, too easy to obtain money and girls will enhance his male hormones, and eventually through sexual disorder and other behaviors to satisfy their X addiction, alleviate mental pressure and release human nature.
A mixture of unhealthy and abnormal psychological symptoms has turned Wang Lihong into a complex person, he is Prince Charming in front of fans, he is a husband who controls everything in front of his family, in the dark corners of private he has become a man who vents hormones everywhere (note that this does not belong to the wind), high-quality idols, gas lamp husbands, cheating men Three fragile eggs barely maintain a balance.
Finally, when Wang Lihong officially announced the divorce and could not appease Li Lianglei, everything was superimposed, Wang Lihong, who stepped on the three eggs and danced, could no longer hold on, the fragile egg of the family was first broken, after losing its balance, the egg in the dark corner was also broken, and finally, the last egg of the high-quality idol could not bear it, and it was also broken into a beach that could not be cleaned up.
This is probably a process of Wang Lihong's "high-quality idol" being dumped.
In the final analysis, in the entertainment industry, too easy to obtain honor, money and pursuit will corrode a person's healthy psychology, maintaining too perfect a person will ruin a person's normal life, Wang Lihong in this game of drunken fans what role is it?
In 2021, there are too many "quality idols" in the entertainment industry that have fallen, and I don't know who will repeat the same mistakes in the future.