Eating melon this year has already been injured, so much so that when I saw Li Lianglei tearing Wang Lihong with her hand, I didn't even feel a little surprised.
Li wrote in the small essay that Wang had all kinds of unbearable details before and after marriage, such as powder, leg splitting, cheating, dating, and prostitution, all of which were actually in the previous entertainment circle explosions, we have already seen it, which is not unusual at all. What actually interested me more was the real relationship between Wang and Li and the role Lee played in the family.
Li Lianglei tore Wang Lihong's Weibo
Filtering out Li Lianglei's emotional expression in the exposé, in terms of the fact part described by it alone, it actually coincides with the various scandals of Wang Lihong exposed by the media over the years, so I am more inclined to believe what Li Lianglei said, at least the real ingredients in her revelations are more.
From these detailed descriptions, combined with the exposure of the media, it is obvious that Wang Lihong has actually regarded Li Lianglei as a tool person for so many years. Like what:
1, the name Li Lianglei is made up, paraphrasing the name of a woman with the same name and surname at Columbia University, and her academic qualifications are also supplemented after marriage. Wang yi handled all this with his own purpose, only to build his own Kochi personality, he is Kochi, and his wife should naturally be Kochi.
2, the reason why Wang wants to marry Li is only to have children. Married for 8 years and had three children. In addition to being pregnant and taking children in the past few years, Li has not actually done anything serious.
When the public show of love
3. Before marriage, wang had great economic power in the hands of his parents, and Wang used Li as an evil person to gradually regain economic power.
4, whenever Wang has a scandal, Li will be pushed to the forefront, the two sides together in the spotlight to show a love, dispel rumors, maintain Wang's image, but also to save his acting career and brand value.
5, Li Ren is old and yellow, the surplus value is insufficient, the king began to transfer the property, sweeping her out of the house.
In fact, Li should also know that he is a tool person, and the two sides should have had such a tacit understanding before. She knew all the things that the king was unbearable, and she could endure it for many years. It was only recently that I felt that I deserved more, and more here was not limited to money, and the king did not want to give, so he broke out.
Wang's divorce statement
In a marriage, one party uses the other party as a tool person, which is actually an increasingly common phenomenon in modern marriage.
The original intention of the birth of the marriage system was actually to tie men to the home and raise offspring with women. After all, in ancient times, women would not be able to support themselves independently for a long time, from pregnancy to childbirth. Only by returning men to their families can the survival and reproduction of human beings be guaranteed.
As a result, men are gradually given all kinds of privileges, whether actual or illusory, nothing more than fooling men, so that they don't run around like wild dogs to keep seeds.
Li Lianglei gave birth to three children
Because the level of human social economy has long hovered above the poverty line, this relationship in marriage has been maintained. It is only with the rapid take-off of the modern economy that a large number of people with a large amount of wealth were born. The situation changed when the wealth held by men and women in marriage was no longer an order of magnitude. It is this change that gives rise to the situation in which one spouse in a marriage uses the other as a tool.
The marriage of a man and a woman necessarily involves property issues. In order to prevent the dilution of his property after the marriage, the party with high assets began to take various measures, such as signing a premarital property agreement or transferring assets after marriage, with the purpose of not giving the other party money.
Of course, the more direct way is naturally not to marry and maintain a sexual partnership. If you choose to get married, there will be a situation where one party uses the other party as a tool person, such as the relationship between Wang and Li. Both parties make an appointment, and after marriage, they are responsible for their own affairs, and then they go their separate ways. In short, look at individual needs.
Of course, speaking of this, it is estimated that some people will scold men for not being how things are, talking about the oppression of women in a patriarchal society, etc., which is very boring. This is the case in reverse, such as when a high-asset woman finds a tool man to marry.
Talk about a kind of celebrity marriage that you have seen not long ago, and experience a situation in which men are used as tools.
For example, if a big boss looks at a female star, the two sides cannot get married for various reasons, but the female star is pregnant with the boss's child, and the boss also hopes to give birth to the child. What to do? Find a male star to marry a female star and give him some money to subsidize. The male star gladly took the order, and after marriage, the child was born smoothly, and after a while, the two found a reason to divorce, one and two wide.
In the final analysis, whether it is not married or tool people, although they are a minority phenomenon, the number of occurrences has increased. Not only in China, but also around the world, and the impact on traditional marriage and traditional morality is also increasing.
We understand marriage as a man and a woman who love each other, but what we see and hear is that this traditional value is gradually moving away, and how to maintain marriage and family is really a big issue.