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As society continues to develop, technology is also advancing rapidly, so some things that were previously thought impossible are also happening. When it comes to having children, the first thing that comes to everyone's mind is definitely the combination of parents and mothers, and then the embryos are conceived and the children are born. But what would you think if you were told that you could have children of the same sex?
Recently, there were news reports that a lesbian in the United Kingdom and her lover had a baby, which was conceived with the wombs of two people. Hearing such news, I believe everyone is very curious and a little confused.
It turned out that one of the people gave birth to a baby from the fertilized eggs hatched by his wife, which was the first case in the world where two uteruses jointly conceived an embryo, which means that the child has two mothers and is still a mother.
Afterwards, the media interviewed the parties, and one of the mothers, Jia Siming, said that the process made her and her wife Donna feel equal, allowing them to get closer emotionally. The practice of these two mothers has also attracted the attention and comments of many netizens, and some netizens said that this is their business and they should respect their wishes. Some netizens also said that they could not understand that this was not conducive to the future growth of children, and even criticized that this was against ethics and morality.
In fact, with the increasingly open concept of young people and the establishment of sperm banks, the inclusiveness of homosexual families and "coupleless families" is also stronger. The famous female CEO Ye Haiyang gave birth to a daughter alone through the sperm bank and lived a two-person family life of one mother and one daughter, and most people saw their high-quality life and expressed their support. However, some people are worried that such an "abnormal" family will not cause any harm to the growth of children.
1. Children may lack "love" in their growth
It is often said that father's love is like a mountain mother's love is like water, and the happiest time for a family is when parents and children are together. For parents, the family is complete with children, and for children, only if parents are there, children will feel the integrity of home and the warmth of parents.
In the process of children's growth, children need education and companionship from their parents, only in this way can children grow up healthy and happy, if the child does not have the participation of father or mother in the process of growth, then children will easily lack "love". Children growing up in such an environment will have an adverse impact on psychology and will also affect the cultivation of children's personality.
2. Children will be insecure and vulnerable to criticism from others
Children of abnormal families, although there are also parents who love their children, but with the continuous growth of children, children also have his understanding. The child will become insecure, will feel unreliable, and the child will feel that he is different from others, becoming sensitive and vulnerable. At the same time, in learning and life, children will inevitably come into contact with other children, and in the face of some children's criticism and ridicule, children will have inferiority and suspicion.
Children feel inferior to others due to the lack of a father or mother, and are ridiculed and snubbed by others. Children gradually become emotionally sad, withdrawn, cowering, and lack of self-confidence in doing things, which is more unfavorable to the growth of children.
Of course, everyone has the right to choose, but on the issue of having children, it is still necessary to carefully consider and determine that they can let their children live a normal life in such an "abnormal" family, and then give birth to children, which is both responsible for themselves and responsible for children.
What do parents think about "shared mothers", do you think that "abnormal" families have a great impact on their children's growth? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area!
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