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In life, we can see from a person's behavior whether he has good upbringing, and the good upbringing of children is inseparable from the good education of parents when their children are young.
Some time ago, there was a video of a woman riding the elevator that went viral on the Internet: there was a girl in the video, riding the elevator with a friend, but when they were about to leave the elevator, the girl pressed the buttons on all floors of the elevator. Moreover, the girl's friends did not stop her behavior, but instead said and laughed.
After the video was exposed, it was also seen by the girl's family, who after watching the girl's bad behavior, blushed for the girl and also for their lack of education for their daughter. Netizens said to the girl's behavior: it is really not shameful.
In life, we can often see some "bear children", some parents will criticize and educate them, let the child correct his bad behavior, and form a good upbringing in the process of the child's growth. On the contrary, some parents will take the phrase "the child is still young and does not understand things" as an excuse to let the child fool around, which will encourage the child's naughty arrogance, and the child will become a person who lacks good upbringing when he grows up.
In the video, the girl pressed all the floors in the elevator when taking the elevator, which is really the behavior of the "bear child", and the girl's bad behavior also reflects that her personal upbringing is lacking, and also reflects that the girl's parents lack and improper education for her.
1. Develop bad habits
When the child makes a mistake, if the parents do not correct this in time and educate the child, the child will mistakenly think that this kind of thing is correct, and as he grows up, he will unconsciously turn this behavior into a bad habit. In addition, after the child grows up, his bad habits may have a certain impact on his work and life.
2, is not conducive to the formation of a good character
Some parents are too pampered for their children. When the child makes a mistake, he always thinks that the child is still young, or thinks that such a small mistake will not cause any big impact, and when others point out the child's mistake, he does not blame the child, and timely educates the child correctly, but instead shields the child's behavior, and even quarrels with others.
In this case, the child will also not pay attention to his own wrong behavior, thinking that this is nothing, in terms of personality, he will also not pay attention to his own character shortcomings, and even form a bad personality like his parents who are arrogant and unreasonable.
1. Correct the child's mistakes in time
In life, children will always make some mistakes or behave inappropriately because they are curious or do not have a clear concept of the right or wrong of some things.
After finding out, parents should point out their children's mistakes in time, let them understand that their behavior is wrong, and then guide their children to correct them. In such a process, the child will avoid making such mistakes again in the future life, so as to slowly change his bad habits and become a cultured person.
2. Communicate more with your child
Some parents will not communicate with their children frequently due to busy work, and they do not have a good understanding of their children's life and behavior habits, thus lacking the education of their children.
But communication is extremely important between children and parents. As Win Kavilin said, "A heart-to-heart conversation is a display of the heart." "
Only by communicating with their children can parents know what their children think, better understand their children, know which ideas are wrong, and point out and help their children correct them together.
The education of parents to their children is related to the formation of children's upbringing. Parents must adopt the right way to educate their children well, so that their children can have a good upbringing and bring convenience to their own life and work.
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