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The sky does not cross people, only self-crossing. Heaven does not save man, but only self-help.
The human world is a field of suffering. We wander in the human world, after all, there will be such a feeling, unsatisfactory things are often eight or nine, but they can be the same as people.
All the "unsatisfactory" things come to us. And those "ruyi" things are like the bubble of dreams, and no one knows where.
When it comes to "misfortune", I believe we will think of today's post-70s. Their generation is already running for five years, is in the quagmire of life, and is really a generation of "suffering".
If you are a post-70s generation, then you may wish to ask yourself, how will 2021 be? Have you accomplished your goals?
I believe that someone has achieved their goal, while some people are still confused and do not know how to be good. In fact, we don't have to dwell too much.
At the end of 2021, we might as well say to ourselves that it's been hard.
No matter how hard life is, we must be grateful to the self who is desperately struggling. No matter how unfortunate life is, we must be grateful to the people around us who silently support us.
As long as time goes on and life continues to develop, then we can give ourselves a hope: how much suffering we can endure, how much blessing we can have.
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For "suffering", most people's cognition is shallow.
Some people feel that "suffering" is the most unfortunate thing in the world. And some people think that as long as it is related to "suffering", everything will become sad.
Such a "bitter" cognition will only make us live more and more negatively, and finally harm ourselves.
Just think, who has not suffered throughout the ages? As long as it is a person, it will definitely suffer. Those who have the ability, in particular, are usually tempered by heaven.
After the defeat of Gou Jian Hui Ji Shan, he directly became a servant of Fu Cha. There was no way, he could only sneak his life and silently plot to restore the country. For many years, he had eaten "bitter courage" to warn himself, and even tasted the excrement of fu cha to dispel his suspicions.
In the end, he "three thousand Yue Jia can swallow Wu", not only defeated Fu Cha, but also became the last Spring and Autumn Overlord, which can also be regarded as bittersweet.
In real life, we only see the glory of others, but we can't see the pain of others. This, in fact, is a particularly inappropriate practice. There is no trace of happiness that does not require the price of suffering, there is no trace of goodness that does not require the grinding of time.
People, in the end, must accept reality in the "tribulation" and thus have an epiphany about the true meaning of life.
Imagine letting a person with no experience and extremely poor psychological endurance go to power a company, then does he have the qualifications? Not to mention the qualifications, maybe he will have to leave the game in a few hours.
So, suffering is a whetstone. How much suffering you can endure, how much blessing you can have.
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Mencius said: "The heavens will descend upon the Scythians, and they will first suffer their hearts, strain their bones, and starve their bodies." ”
When Heaven entrusts ordinary people with heavy responsibilities, it is absolutely necessary to hone his mind and body, so that he can be reborn from the fire and have great wisdom in life.
He is a workplace white, not even a little work experience, then as a leader, will you entrust important projects to him? Absolutely not, just let him do the chores first, and slowly understand the process of the work.
Everything needs "ability" to bless it. The source of ability lies in long-term experience and training. This is all closely related to "suffering".
Once met a young man.
Because of his good family background, he went straight into a large company through the introduction of acquaintances. He thought it was a matter of ironclads to join the company, but he was brushed off after a 3-month internship.
At that time, he was particularly puzzled, didn't I have a background? How did it get brushed off?
The boss who let him come to the internship told him that I could take you through the interview, which was already giving your father a great deal of face. And your temperament still needs to be polished, which is far from our standards. The master leads the door, and the practice depends on the individual.
The boss has a certain truth. Others can let you cross this threshold, but your previous suffering experiences need to be made up for by yourself. No one can ascend to the heavens in one step.
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Blessings and sufferings are relative.
We all believe that if there is blessing, there will be no suffering. And some people feel that if there is suffering, there will be no blessing. Statements like this are, after all, problematic.
Suffering and blessing are not separate individuals, but complementary beings. The more people who have suffered greatly and experienced it, the more they can feel the happiness of life.
Fellow old Chen, who has worked hard all his life, still has no good luck and cannot make any big money. However, he lived a very peaceful life, and he could live with relish in ordinary life.
Someone asked him, is it said that "ordinary is a blessing"?
Lao Chen replied, "Only by experiencing darkness can we understand what light is." Only after experiencing humility can we understand what happiness is. If you have not experienced pain, how can you talk about perceiving the beauty of the ordinary? Perhaps, behind the vicissitudes, it is not the great wealth and wealth, but the peace of mind. ”
Liu Bowen once said: "How can I be as good as I want, but I must be worthy of my heart." ”
When we do things, we usually don't get what we want. However, we can do it with a "clear conscience". As long as we are worthy of heaven and earth, then what do we have to regret? Taking a step back, don't we who don't have too many regrets be happy?
At the end of 2021, no matter what you have experienced, you may wish to tell yourself that all the pain will eventually become a blessing for the future.
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