Today, I read one of the articles in the book "Beautiful Details", "Love in the Sun".
This article was written by a teacher. To tell a child who is full of pure faults and is generally considered to be a child who is not good at teaching - the story of transforming the finished product and learning well, becoming a good student among teachers and students!
This student, he had just become the head of this class, met him in the first class, and then, he found that this child and other teachers were also like this, making trouble!
The teacher tried to go straight to the child in a ditch, but the child ignored him! Later, he got in touch with the child's parents,...... After understanding the child's previous experience, the teacher meditated: First of all, let the child not contradict the teacher! Don't force your child to preach!
In the future work, when the teacher found that the child once wiped the floor very hard, he praised the child in time and set up a column to praise. And lead the whole class to applaud the students! The child is encouraged to be more active in the future, and the teacher promotes him as an example for his classmates! In this way, little by little, the child not only loves to work, but also makes progress in other aspects! Become a good student with excellent character and learning!
What moved me the most about the teacher was her spirit of self-reflection. She said that children's problems, many times, are caused by the teacher's negligence and mistakes! Although this child is like this, it is not caused by her! This is a manifestation of the teacher's love and responsibility for the child! It is like a piece of sunshine, illuminating the heart of a child!
At home, we adults sometimes talk about how disobedient children are! ...... Do we also learn from teachers,...... Self-reflection, when did the child start to disobey,...... What negligence and mistakes have I made... What are the shining points for children that should be affirmed and encouraged?!
...... In this way, perhaps the knots of both parties will open! Children will grow up in a good direction... Maybe that's it... Love the role of the sunshine right!?