Some people say that if a person has not experienced the baptism of life, it is not enough to talk about life.
This sentence, Xiao Bei felt, had a certain truth. In this world, almost everyone wants to have a smooth sailing, but this is really unrealistic.
When people are alive, they naturally have to experience wind and rain.
I admit that life is really hard sometimes, but it's cool to get through it, and no one can help you with the process but yourself.
Never compare it to those born in Rome, for this is after all a minority.
Most people, who have to go through the hardships of life, may not be able to carry it in an instant, but when you carry it, you will find that in fact, you have reached the city of Rome.
It is more and more found that people who easily give in to life generally will not have a good future, and only those who can bear the hardships of life will walk more elegantly.
The world is cruel, and I hope everyone doesn't lose their pride, and then stick to it and be a cool person.
01: Cruel, vulnerable in the face of the strong
In the face of the suffering of life, different people will naturally have different answers, and some people feel that it is too cruel and give up early.
In the face of life, they became a coward.
There are also people who are resolutely unyielding, and no matter how much difficulties life gives, they will also respond with a smile, and eventually realize their own value and make their lives extra exciting.
These two days Xiao Bei watched a news, sympathy, more than admiration.
What is said in the content is that Zhao Yuzhu, a girl in Liaoyang, Liaoning Province, if she is just an ordinary person, there is naturally nothing worthy of sympathy, let alone admiration.
But she really fought for herself to come up with a story of absolute counterattack.
Maybe she suffered a lot in the process, but with a belief that she didn't admit defeat, she made herself cool.
Zhao Is a girl with hearing impairments, and when she was 4 years old, she was unfortunately diagnosed with congenital neurogenic deafness, and her hearing became particularly weak.
This is not the most cruel, the cruel thing is that any cold, tears, strenuous exercise, may rob her of her already weak hearing.
In simple terms, colds and sports, which would have been very common things, became unusual in her world.
We have a cold and a fever, just take some medicine, but she can't, every cold is a bet.
It is reasonable to say that compared with us, she has enough reasons to give up on herself, congenital deafness, there is no need to struggle, even if she abandons herself, others will not say anything.
But I did not think that this girl who had been baptized by life did not succumb to fate, but opened a window of her own with her tenacious perseverance.
Although her hearing is weak, she still competes against the clock to learn, never complains, and does not feel that she is a weak person.
Because she knows her own situation, Zhao Yuzhu has been practicing pinyin and abacus with her mother since she was a child, and she went to school a year in advance by reading her lips to "listen to lessons".
Not only that, she also used all the tools that could be used to learn, took out all the time she could study, and finally she relied on this tenacity to be admitted to Xiamen University for a doctorate.
Frankly speaking, Zhao Yuzhu is really too powerful.
Because, she has ten thousand reasons to give up, but she chose to insist, there are enough retreat options behind her, but she chooses to move forward with difficulty, giving a cruel life a perfect answer.
When I grew up, I finally understood that it was always the weak who were defeated by difficulties, because only the weak would be afraid, but in front of the strong, they were vulnerable.
In the face of suffering, the first thing you have to do is to adjust your mentality, you must give yourself courage, you must believe in yourself, and then you will have the strength to fight back.
If, when you encounter difficulties, you are the first to choose to lie down and let suffering rage in your life, then even if someone helps you, you will not be able to help you on the road to success.
02: If you can bear the temporary bitterness, there will be sweetness in the future
We always say that if we eat bitterly, we will be a superior person.
But how many people in this world can eat bitterly? How many people, when encountering difficulties, think of giving up, and do not even have the courage to persist?
When others persist and realize their own value, they do not recognize the efforts of the other party and feel that the other party is just lucky.
But isn't luck earned?
If you're not even ready for yourself, why should luck come to you? Because even if you come, you still can't catch it.
Instead of that, it's better not to come outright.
Over the years, I have seen people who have chosen to concede defeat in debt, and I have also seen people who have been cornered by life, who originally had many opportunities to change themselves, but gave up all of them.
If they don't give up, life may be a different way, and life may be more exciting.
But they didn't, they were overwhelmed by life.
At any time, we must know that the person whose life cannot be crushed is the real strong and the person who deserves admiration.
Some time ago, I read a story and was quite touched:
The man owes some money because of the failure of the business, and when everyone thinks that he will be depressed, he has handed over an unexpected answer, he works several jobs a day, and pays back the money little by little.
When others ask him, isn't this tiring?
He said he was tired, but only then would he have a chance to get back on his feet.
In fact, we all know that pulling out the clouds will meet sunny days, but how many people are willing to pull out the clouds?
A lot of bitterness is temporary, bear it, sweet will come better, and your life will be wonderful enough.
We can't always take the achievements of others to mock ourselves, others are bright and beautiful, but also others themselves little by little hard work, and you just see their bright surface.
If, in the face of difficulties, you can bear the bitterness of the present, then the sweetness of the future will also beckon you.
Saying that giving up is simply an easy task, as long as you don't do anything, you give up, but the next life, you will become more bitter, more difficult.
The brilliance of others will look more dazzling in your eyes.
Therefore, instead of envying others or complaining about others, it is better to work hard to bear your current suffering, and perhaps in the near future, the sweetness of life will come to you.
In this world, the goddess of luck will always be those who are always ready, not those who choose to lie flat when they encounter difficulties.
Life is not easy, to put it simply is the interweaving of bitterness and sweetness, which requires us to face it with the best mentality.
May each of us be able to bear the pain brought by life, even if it is bitter and difficult, we must persevere and greet our own sweetness with the best posture.
Only in this way can the days get better and better.
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