You may not have heard of Aoyama, but you most likely know Baby Anne. Yes, the Baby Anne who wrote "July and Ansheng". Many people say that they found their own shadow in July and Anson. In fact, the uninhibited and rebellious Li Ansheng is Anne who wrote the famous work "Rose Island" when she was young, and the gentle and calm Lin July is the qingshan after the transformation. And Qingshan's newly published essay "All Circumstances" is a book full of strength and introspection for me, and I feel that whenever I am in trouble or confused, her book is like a light in the darkness, giving me strength, and like a beacon pointing to a wise life, guiding the direction of my path.
Next, I would like to share with you a few ways to live a wise life:
01 Develop a lasting hobby
The times are developing rapidly, and there are serious cases of internal involvement in various industries. Although people say that they want to regurgitate the inside, when the meat comes, there will not be fewer people who want to pounce on it and take a bite. During the day we have to be workaholics and at night we have to deal with all kinds of chores. In this situation, it is normal for people to feel that their self-meaning is missing. At this time, it is particularly important to have a hobby of your own. If you like to read, you can swim in the hustle and bustle of the world to another world, where you can always find a code that comforts your soul. If you like to ski, step on the snowboard bravely, and the troubles will disappear in the wind without a trace. If you like to watch movies, remember to call family and friends, you hold each other's arms, your head rests on the shoulders of your family, and the warmth spreads invisibly...
In life, we must have a fun body, so that we will not lose ourselves between complicated and tedious affairs. No matter how the years of life change, as long as the interest is there, we can enjoy life anytime and anywhere, and with interest, even loneliness becomes gentle. For Qingshan, writing is her greatest pleasure, and it is also the one thing she has to do every day, engraved in her life. However, despite her talent and experience, writing was not an easy task for her, especially novels, which was extremely exhausting. In this book, all of the author's life experiences are open, showing inside and out, and sharing with all readers. Willful, simple, honest, extremely ordinary and real.
02 Handle relationships well
Confidant is a confirmation of consciousness and mind, and there are two kinds of books in the world, one is the teacher and the other is the confidant. She said that a person's body and mind have great energy. It is necessary to leave some people and the environment that cannot play a role in promoting and elevating. That is to say, we should associate more with people who are spiritually cultivated and more intelligent than ourselves, and if the person around you makes you uncomfortable, it will only make you lower, then you must stay away from him. At the same time, make more friends with kind people, your heart will become soft, and your emotions will not be too impetuous when encountering things. Admittedly, the premise of making friends is their own fulfillment. The most taboo to make friends is to expect and need to ask others to send charcoal in the snow, with purpose and expectation. Friends don't always have to be there to worry about, they can be okay with each other. Family relations are also the same, long-term in the negative energy of repression, consumption, mutual loss, should be made as soon as possible, family affection is precious, but in the state of mutual loss and torture, should be stopped in time. The premise is that we must maintain spiritual independence, economic independence, and peaceful coexistence with ourselves.
03 Cultivation of the state of mind
The ancients said that people have no far-reaching worries, but will have near-term worries. Living in this era, working hours 996, overtime is a common thing, if there is no pressure and no emotions, it is impossible. At this time, it is important to maintain a peaceful state of mind.
Have you ever been beaten by a sentence? Do you have moments when you want to cry and can't?
Gyeongsan said that there is an inseparable relationship between the mind and the state. All the materials collected by our senses and consciousness will be processed by the heart. So the mind needs to maintain a certain degree of emptiness. In this way, the texture and depth of various details in the outside world can be reflected. It's a way of coexistence with the world. It is also a way to train the state of mind. There is a saying in foreign philosophy that goes: "Keep expectations to a minimum, and all encounters are gifts." "When you don't look forward to it, you will find that life is full of surprises.
04 Temper the soul in reading
Only by constantly reading good books, accumulating knowledge, and understanding insights and perspectives across history can we help us renew our thinking and grow. Only by maintaining long-term, thematic, systematic and in-depth reading, and organizing and thinking in an orderly manner can it be possible to fill the soul with fragrance.
As Yeats's poem goes: How many people love your happy and abundant time, love your beauty, and love you with true or false feelings. There is only one man who loves the heart of your pilgrim and the sorrow of your changing countenance.
As man grows older, the lessons of the soul will lead him to a purer and deeper critical intellect, a quieter endurance to pain and loneliness. And the courage to take on. In his heart, he gets a silent clarity and insight.
There is nothing more important than purifying the body and mind, training the state of mind, and facing life and death.
From the doctor's point of view, how to go from the future? How do we get to the end of our journey in this life? In that moment, what kind of person we will be, what kind of soul we will have.
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"All Realms" is a book with a state of mind, which requires the body and mind to feel the power of words.
Opening the book is like communicating the experience of life with a confidant. It is like a wise man, and once he reads it, he will feel the true meaning of wisdom from the details of life.
Hopefully, we can all find the wisdom to calm ourselves and be happy.