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The same "mistake" was made, why did no one resent Chen Guanxi?

In the past year, many stars in the entertainment industry have planted their heads on personal issues, especially Represented by Zheng Shuang and Wu Yifan. As a public figure, once bad behavior in personal life is exposed, it will indeed have a heavy blow to the cause. Even top stars such as Wu Yifan and Xiao Zhan, once public opinion changes the direction of the wind, it is difficult to reverse the decline. Between fans and stars, it is both water energy to carry boats and water energy to cover boats. But when it comes to the most sensational event in the Chinese public opinion circle, no one has been able to surpass Chen Guanxi in 2008 so far. Although Chen Guanxi's career suffered a serious blow after the incident, the public's attitude toward Chen Guanxi has always been a vague concept, at least not at all disgusted.

The same "mistake" was made, why did no one resent Chen Guanxi?

At this point, it is obvious that the public has a different treatment of Chen Guanxi, but in fact, there is a difference in the nature of key things behind this. We know who broke Zheng Shuang's question? It was because of the scandal that broke out because of the debt dispute between Zheng Shuang and his ex-boyfriend Zhang Heng when they broke up, and Wu Yifan was also because the parties to the incident were all beautiful and exposed. Although Du Meizhu and Zhang Heng are also the wrong parties to the matter, it is precisely because of this that Zheng Shuang and Wu Yifan have mishandled things, which eventually caused the deterioration of the situation.

The Chen Guanxi incident was exposed entirely because the computer maintenance was not considered thoroughly, which eventually led to the photo being exposed by the computer maintenanceman. Therefore, the Chen Guanxi incident was revealed to be completely completed by a third party, and Chen Guanxi was not the fault party of the matter (at best, it was a computer error). This difference first shows that Chen Guanxi did not make the so-called victims Cecilia Cheung, Ajiao and others feel uncomfortable, and he carried out related matters with the permission of the other party. Moreover, Chen Guanxi properly handled the relationship between the two afterwards, which shows that Chen Guanxi did not make the parties resentful.

The same "mistake" was made, why did no one resent Chen Guanxi?

In addition, looking at the whole process of the incident, Chen Guanxi is also one of the important victims of the incident. Although Chen Guanxi is the organizer and participant of the matter, the whole thing that caused Cecilia Cheung, Ajiao and others to passively do not cause Chen Guanxi to take photos, but the process of the photos being exposed, although the photos were taken by Chen Guanxi, but the photos were not sent by Chen Guanxi. Taking photos and exposing photos are two completely different concepts, one is the private personal life, and the other forms a bad public event.

From the perspective of personal life, Chen Guanxi's interaction with many female celebrities is completely based on the principle of equality and voluntariness. In this regard, neither Zheng Shuang nor Wu Yifan has such a fair relative relationship. We can assume that if these photos of Chen Guanxi are not exposed, then these things that Chen Guanxi did should be completely defined as personal private life. In this regard, since these things themselves are outside the scope of the supervision of the moral system, it is natural that there is no public order and good customs. The nature of the whole event changed only after the exposure of the photographs, and this change was mainly due to the public's curiosity about the private lives of public figures.

The same "mistake" was made, why did no one resent Chen Guanxi?

As far as the nature of the matter is concerned, Chen Guanxi does not have subjective malicious behavior. This is also the biggest difference between Zheng Shuang and Wu Yifan. Zheng Shuang was surrogacy in the United States, and then chose to abandon a pair of surrogate children because he broke up with her boyfriend Zhang Heng, which had both legal and moral issues. And throughout the process, Zheng Shuang is the decision maker and initiator of the instruction. This had to provoke the public to her program, and her actions had violated the existing moral system. The same is true of Wu Yifan, although the story between him and Du Meizhu is wonderful, wu Yifan himself has multiple misdeeds. The first is that his relationship with Tomitake is unclear, neither in love nor in a transaction. Then there is his still vague attempt to pass the test after Du Meizhu exploded the information.

This has to make the public resentful of it, in fact, the public measures the right and wrong of a public figure, and must also consider the essence of the matter. Just like Some time ago, Wang Sicong and Sun Yining also made a lot of noise, but the public's attitude towards Wang Sicong is obviously much more tolerant, and its core is mainly based on ridicule. However, when it came to the Wu Yifan incident, public opinion completely changed the direction of the wind, and even after the police notice was issued, the public still thought that the Wu Yifan incident was difficult to turn over.

The same "mistake" was made, why did no one resent Chen Guanxi?

A good public image must have both qualities and personalities recognized by the public. It is difficult for entertainment stars to find a platform without basic skills, difficult to gain a foothold without public morality, and difficult to attract fans without personality. But in the matter of personality, there must also be a degree. Personality must be within the acceptable range of the public, after Li Xiaolu and Jia Nailiang divorced, he published a long article to try to excuse his behavior, but this is not called personality, this is a kind of self-awareness. When this kind of self-awareness is opposed to the public moral system, it can only cause more disgust and discomfort.

Then this is also a very critical point, that is, when the bad events break out, the celebrities' own attitude towards fault will also make the public feel different. For example, Li Xiaolu, Zheng Shuang, Wu Yifan and others, after the incident broke out, they first blurred the concept of the problem, and then threw the pot with several parties. Their way of dealing with the problem is basically to treat the public as a fool, the essence of the matter is already very clear, and no matter how much justification will only increase the disgust of netizens. Take Chen Guanxi, for example, is he willing to quit the entertainment industry? Of course not.

The same "mistake" was made, why did no one resent Chen Guanxi?

We may think that Wu Yifan belongs to the top stars in the current entertainment industry, but compared with Chen Guanxi at that time, he does not know how much worse he is. At that time, Chen Guanxi had already participated in "Infernal Affairs" and was known as the future star of Hong Kong, and even surpassed Nicholas Tse in terms of popularity. In the year when the photo broke, Chen Guanxi also participated in Hollywood's top blockbuster "Batman Prequel 2: The Dark Knight", although he only showed his face, but he had a great momentum of entering Hollywood.

However, after the matter was exposed, Chen Guanxi's great future was ruined, and he also had a difficult struggle in the choice of whether to quit the entertainment industry, and even in the moment before the press conference, Chen Guanxi still had illusions about his career. In such a situation, he was still under pressure to announce his indefinite withdrawal from the entertainment industry in the form of videos and press conferences. This attitude of daring to take responsibility is the key to Chen Guanxi's public recognition. Maybe Chen Guanxi didn't understand the decision to quit the entertainment industry, but this decision really made Chen Guanxi leave as a man.

The same "mistake" was made, why did no one resent Chen Guanxi?

As Li Xiaolu said, people are not sages, and no one can be blameless. But the key change in the back can be done well. And between what can be done without fault and changed without fault, we must first know and admit mistakes. If people only prevaricate the public with great truth, rather than spurring themselves, then reason loses its meaning of existence. Chen Guanxi's behavior conforms to social values, while the behavior of Li Xiaolu, Zheng Shuang, and Wu Yifan is completely contrary to public morality.

Nicholas Tse once said that since he has earned money with the corresponding identity, he must bear the corresponding responsibility. In this regard, Chen Guanxi's behavior far exceeded that of Li Xiaolu, Zheng Shuang, and Wu Yifan. Therefore, Chen Guanxi will not let the public be disgusted, although Chen Guanxi has more reasons than them, but Chen Guanxi is more daring than them to take responsibility. This kind of big-picture view is the ability that other wrong-making stars do not have, and after leaving the public's vision, Chen Guanxi is still working very hard, and he has now given him his own happy family and a new career, which is also the favor of heaven for him, closing a door for him, and opening a window for him.

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