Life is in a hurry, don't forget to enjoy the scenery along the way
Author, Recitation, Photography / Feng Aixia
Some time ago, The famous Taiwanese singer Fei Yuqing publicly published a long handwritten letter to the media, in which he announced that after the 2019 tour, he officially quit acting work and ended his 46-year-long acting career. The letter mentioned that the death of his loved ones, the gorgeous stage and applause could not fill the loss in his heart, especially in the process of moving forward quickly in his career, neglecting to enjoy the scenery along the way, so now he wants to slow down the rhythm and calmly taste life.
Yes, life is like driving a car, we are all running, always catching up with some people, and always being surpassed by some people. Some people drive very fast, all the way without stopping, speeding forward, and even fatigue driving, not only is it difficult to appreciate the beautiful scenery along the way, but sometimes accidents occur. Some people drive at the right speed and direction, combining work and leisure, not only arriving smoothly, but also sightseeing all the way and happily following. Therefore, while rushing to the road, we must also learn to slowly taste the bits and pieces that make ourselves mature and let people's lives become precipitated and thick. Driving has an end, life also has an end, don't bury your head in the road, and forget to enjoy the scenery along the way.
Year after year, we can't help but sigh, time passes really fast, the figure of youth seems to be like yesterday, still shaking in front of the eyes, in the blink of an eye, the rings of the year are more than a circle, it is really a flower blossoming, the years are silent, carving a trace of different shades, this way, walking through the wind and rain, walking through the cycle of the four seasons, we can not stop the time from flying by, we can only grasp the present, live every day, walk every step, do our best, let people have no regrets, let the years leave a fragrance.
We often travel to some places, broaden our horizons, relax our mood, go to different places, see different landscapes, understand different things, feel a different life, both relax our mood and meet our hearts. In fact, life is like a trip, in addition to reaching the places you want to go, you must appreciate the scenery along the way and have the mood to see the scenery. The purpose of travel is to harvest full of harvest, we must not only harvest real material fruits, but also harvest spiritual food full of joy, because the motivation to harvest fruits comes from the pursuit of the heart.
People are on the road, occasionally stationed, but we never stop, even if physically and mentally exhausted, we are always on the road. Life, this trip with no return, the most beautiful harvest is to have a pair of eyes that are good at discovery, one is to reach a distant end point, and the other is to appreciate the scenery along the way. The secret of life is to find a speed that suits you best, Mo is overwhelmed by illness, Mo is slow and empty of life, in the process of traveling, we will encounter some people, some things, a gully, a grass, whether it is sunny, or wind and rain, no matter how nostalgic, at the end will turn around, although it will pass in time, but it gives our life station, embellished with infinite vitality, becoming the most memorable experience in the journey.
Buddha Shakyamuni said this: No matter who you meet, he is the person who should appear in your life, it is no accident, he will definitely teach you something. Yes, in their lifetime, everyone will meet many people, miss many people, experience a lot of things, and inevitably have a lot of regrets. Wherever we go and what we experience, that's where we should be, the scenery we should pass by. Always have a normal heart, a grateful heart, a reverential heart, an appreciative heart, treat every moment of the moment, treat your relatives and friends, and treat your own life.
Some people say that when people reach middle age, there are old and young, and the burden on their shoulders is heavy, especially nostalgic for the carefree days of youth, if you go back to childhood, you will never grow up how good it should be. I feel that the current annoyance can not see the head at a glance, every day is a repetitive day, the burden of the family is overwhelmed, and it feels that life is very boring. In fact, most of us encounter unsmooth at a certain stage, most of us are like this, but don't let this mentality last and affect your life.
One of the easiest mistakes in life is to always treat the past and the future as the best scenery. In fact, no matter what age we are now, the present is the most cherished and owned, to any stage of life, should adapt to and like this period of time, each stage has each stage of the task and scenery, to complete what should be done now, go with the flow, even if it is a period of suffering is also a kind of tempering, but also a kind of precipitation of years. What is lost, don't be too attached, everything backfires, that is Heaven's other arrangement.
Appreciation is a magical power, a great wisdom. The famous philosopher Socrates said that when we pursue a distant goal, we must not forget that there are scenery everywhere in the journey, and if we look at it with an appreciative eye, we will have a different harvest. Appreciate your own efforts, appreciate the strengths of others, and thus nourish your own wisdom. Each of us lives in the world is not an isolated group, is a node in the big net, their own promotion, happiness, success can not be separated from the help and interaction of others.
(Photographed in Meihuazhou, Jiaxing)
In the same way, every scene and everything in nature also has a wonderful state, which will give us enlightenment and quiet beauty. If you appreciate the mountains, you will find strength and solemnity in the majesty of the mountains; if you appreciate the sea, you will feel the temperament and broadness in the surging of the sea; if you appreciate the grass, you will draw persistence and hope in the tenacity of the grass. Appreciation can turn the work into a jade, so as to choose the bridge of communication, so that life is happier, in the road of life, unsatisfactory things are often eight or nine, which requires us to have the ability and mentality of appreciation, appreciation is the key to happiness, is the cornerstone of health
(Taken in Wuzhen, Tongxiang)
An ancient book records that a young man once had a conversation with a wise man: "How can I become happy myself and bring happiness to others?" The wise man replied, "You need a pair of appreciative eyes, to think of yourself as someone else, and to regard others as yourself." Treat others as others and yourself as yourself. The young man was puzzled, and the wise man explained that when he regarded himself as someone else, when he was frustrated, he could think calmly, and when he achieved achievements, he would not get carried away; treat others as himself, learn to think in his place, put himself in the shoes of others, give more sympathy and help; treat others as others, that is, to learn to respect others, not to force others to do it, to help you is a sentiment, not to help you is your duty; to treat yourself as yourself, is to assume your own responsibilities, you have your own opinions, Other people's suggestions are for reference only. After that, the young man walked through his life according to the words of the wise man, and became a great wise man, and brought happiness to everyone.
(Taken at West Lake, Hangzhou)
We can't choose life, we can't replay the past, all we can do is enrich the scenery along the way to the end. If the scenery along the way is beautiful, but we miss the appreciation, we suddenly look back, but it has long been a thing.
( Photographed in Mount Fulai, Juxian County)
A fable about a toddler, in the forest, a small sika deer, desperately running forward, the crow asked, "Where are you going so urgently?" Stop and take a break!" The fawn shook his head and said, "No, I have to reach the end to rest!" The fawn continued to run forward, and the turtle asked, "Are you in such a hurry?" Where are you going, stop and rest for a while! The little sika deer shook his head, "No, I have to reach the end to rest!" Until one day, the road finally came to an end, a large bare tree pole stood there, the end of the road was like this, the sika deer could not help but sigh, and what made it even more annoyed was that it found itself old at this moment, and the sika deer sighed softly and said: "I knew this, if I had enjoyed the beautiful scenery along the way, how good it would be!" ”
Life is not a race, but a trip, the road is long and short, cherish the present, cherish every day, life rush, do not forget to appreciate the scenery along the way, wish us a happy and happy journey in life!
Feng Aixia, pen name Xiaoyu. He is a member of the Shandong Provincial Prose Literature Association, a member of the Rizhao Writers Association, a member of the Tongxiang Writers Association, and a contracted writer of the Qilu Evening News Qilu Yidian Qingwei Supplement. A large number of works have been published in national, provincial and municipal paper journals and websites, and dozens of provincial and national awards have been awarded for essay recitation photography. The essay won the first Qingwei Essay Award, the second prize of the Qingwei Financial Essay Award, the second prize of the Shandong Financial Literature Celebration of the Centenary of the Founding of the Party, the Qilu Evening News Qilu One-Point Quality Changwen Qingquan Project Award, the National Li Daoyuan Landscape Literature Competition Award, the National Anti-epidemic Works Excellence Award, the Classic Cup Chinese Literature Competition Award, the Jiaodong Prose Excellent Works Award, the Juxian Celebration of the Centenary of the Founding of the Party Essay First Prize, etc., and a series of works have been collected and compiled, such as "Twelve Jiajia of Jiaodong Prose" and "Selected Essays of Outstanding Chinese Contemporary Writers".
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