Recently, the public security bureau of Yanshan County, Anhui Province, received a call from a 14-year-old girl. Because of family conflicts and learning pressures, girls want to jump off buildings and save their lives. After 20 minutes of patient persuasion, zhang Yaodong, the police officer who received the police, said, "Do you drink milk tea?" I'll give you a "touched the girl." Zhang Yaodong's patient persuasion and warm words bought valuable time for the rescuers, and finally with the cooperation of the police personnel, they successfully pulled her back from the line of life and death.
A cup of milk tea not only makes the little girl stop the horse from the cliff, but also warms the hearts of the majority of netizens. After the incident was reported, many netizens anonymously ordered milk tea and sent it to the Public Security Bureau of Yanshan County. "The first cup of milk tea in autumn" is not only a marketing advertisement for businesses, but also allows people in despair to feel the beauty and hope of life.
The successful prevention of the girl's life by the police officer relies not only on gentleness and empathy, but also on calm thinking and the meticulous cooperation of the entire public security system. For example, when Zhang Yaodong heard the "don't want to call the police" on the other end of the phone, instead of immediately thinking that the other party was pranked and hanging up the phone, he immediately became alert and analyzed the age of the other party.
After Zhang Yaodong repeatedly confirmed the girl's location without results, he first advised her to go to a "warm place" and then proposed to "order a cup of milk tea" for the girl. This is not only to show kindness to the girl, to make the girl feel that she is being cared for, but also to persuade the girl to leave the dangerous roof and learn from the girl's mouth where she is to rescue her. The police officers immediately carried out a carpet inspection, which was even more reassuring.
Of course, such heart-warming incidents are not unique, and from the methods of the police to comfort the light-hearted people in recent times, warmth is the background.
On September 24, 2020, when a 12-year-old girl in Dazhou, Sichuan Province, wanted to jump off a building to save her life, the police also used "I invite you to drink the first cup of milk tea in autumn" to comfort the girl, and finally successfully saved her. On September 28 this year, when a woman in Shanghai wanted to take her own life because of emotional problems, the police shouted at the girl in the role of "old father": "My uncle himself has a daughter, and he can't see the girl crying!" After stabilizing her emotions, the police successfully rescued her.
What the police do is to express the most true love and concern with food and affection - the beautiful things in life, and awaken the survival instinct of the light-hearted people who are blinded by a momentary impulse.
Judging from the situation shown in these cases in which the light-hearted are saved by a cup of milk tea or warm words, there are some problems that deserve social consideration. Some people who have lost their lives may not have encountered obstacles in their lives, but it is more likely that the disappointment of a moment in their lives has made them think of self-abandonment.
When the stranger's sudden concern turned toward them, life pulled them back from the edge of the cliff. For this group of people, it may only need to advance some future relief to dilute the loss of the moment.
Of course, such an open-minded mindset is not something that everyone is born with. Compared with the final rescue of the police, the correct care of parents, the psychological counseling of the campus, and the psychological counseling of social norms are the long-term solutions to alleviate some suicide problems, and companionship and love are the medicine to resolve the pain.
As Maupassant said, a person's life is not as good as imagined, nor as bad as imagined. There is nothing that a cup of milk tea cannot solve, and nothing is more important than life. □ Yan Zixin