To judge whether Cancer is a scumbag, look at it this way!

To judge whether Cancer is a scumbag, look at it this way!

I've always felt that there are two types of scumbags in Cancer, the first is to create a human design, and the second is a seamless type.

Let's talk about the first one, Cancer Man is a very good constellation, because he is originally a water sign, which is a very fanciful group, more obvious to Pisces and Cancer. So I would say that the Cancer man is a person who is very good at adding emotional drama, especially in the early days of acquaintance, he will always make others emotionally connected by creating a persona, so as to obtain his own sense of value and security.

For example, a Cancer man has a lot of emotional experience, but he always only says that he has only talked about two terms, the first paragraph is ignorant, the second paragraph is bone-wrenching, and you are his third "life", and the other 4567 he avoids talking about, because it is easy to show the stuffing when he says more.

Or many Cancer men will always create an image of an affectionate man, and they often have a former scumbag who betrays him in their mouths, which is used to reflect his affection and highlight his good man's personality.

There are also many similar to the hard-working type, the family wealth type, the romantic and gentle type, and so on. In fact, their kind of personality often has a certain basis, but it is exaggerated by him countless times. For example, the ex-boyfriend of one of my colleagues is Cancer, who said that his family has a big factory, how big the scale is, and later learned that it is a small workshop.

In fact, creating a human setting is not a big problem, in the early stage of love, everyone wants to let each other see the best side, but if there is a deceptive nature in it, the problem is different.

So how to identify such scumbags? The easiest way is to stand still and look at him first, you can believe what he says, the bulls he blows, but don't believe it all! Time will naturally prove that his people set up a non-standing residence, after all, the fox will always show its tail, and then see if he has deceived you, the nature of the problem is not serious, and finally according to the plot to decide how to deal with it.

Let's talk about the second one, the seamless type! In fact, Cancer is a sign that will be sad once it is lost, whether he can go away in this relationship or not, as long as it involves separation, he must be reluctant to do it! Because in the process of getting along, the feelings precipitated by time will make Cancer have a sense of dependence, even if he does not like you much, he will be reluctant to your relationship.

Therefore, based on this emotional sustenance, Cancer is particularly easy to seamlessly carry out new relationships. I'm not suitable for you, but I don't have the courage to bear the pain after the breakup, so I look for a new goal first, find and then divide, and then say that I didn't find it.

It's like you and cancer man quarrel, the quarrel is very fierce and very strong, and then he secretly decided that this time must break up with you, but he is reluctant, so he will first go to others to stir up trouble, and the other party declares that he is single, if the other party is still in good condition and good conversation, then he will break up with you and then seamlessly connect; but if it is not properly negotiated or found to be less ideal after meeting with the other party, then Cancer will turn his head back to you and confess his mistake and ask for a reunion.

I will say more directly, in the logic of Cancer, as long as you have the idea of breaking up in your heart, it belongs to a unilateral breakup, and it does not matter what is out of the ordinary; on the other hand, as long as you want to reunite in your heart, it belongs to the unilateral compound, you are still my person, anyway, you do not know what I have done.

So before someone reported that a Cancer man hung her and then went on a blind date with someone else, I told this girl: Divide early, he can't change!

You remember, as long as you find that cancer men have this "unilateral breakup" mentality or behavior, don't hesitate, hurry up and run!